Can't Host - Gay Men’s Sex and Relationships Podcast

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In this episode, we delve into the realm of non-surgical penile enlargement methods with renowned urologist Dr. Judson Brandeis. Join us as we explore the most common enlargement methods people turn to and why they often fall short of expectations. Dr. Brandeis sheds light on the potential risks associated with traditional methods and how they stack up against promised results. Discover the innovative P-Long protocol and how it works to deliver significant size enhancements. From Tri-Mix to Penile botox, we weigh the pros and cons of these alternative approaches to penile augmentation.

Dr. Judson Brandeis is an award winning urologist and sexual medicine expert, clinical researcher, physician educator, and a caring clinician and surgeon. A graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fellowship at Harvard, today he specializes in the emerging field of sexual health and medicine.

P-Long Protocol: https://p-long.com/

Dr. Brandeis' website: https://brandeismd.com/

Increasing Penile Length and Girth in Healthy Men Using a Novel Protocol: The P-Long Study - https://www.longdom.org/open-access/increasing-penile-length-and-girth-in-healthy-men-using-a-novel-protocolthe-plong-study-101696.html

EPISODE MENTIONED

Ep.3.: Does Size Matter in Gay Sex? with Sergio Zapata - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep--3-Does-Size-Matter-In-Gay-Sex--With-Sergio-Zapata-e1r4ubb

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In this episode, we're joined by J.R. Yusuf, who challenges misconceptions about bisexuality and advocates for its non-binary nature. Delve into discussions on overcoming biphobia, as well as the intersectionality of bisexuality and pansexuality. Additionally, explore J.R. Yussuf's insights on redefining masculinity and transcending societal norms. www.georgelizos.com

J.R. Yussuf is the 1st place winner of the Reviewers Choice Award in the self-help category for "The Other F Word: Forgiveness." Yussuf's latest book, "Dear Bi Men: A Black Man's Perspective on Power, Consent, Breaking Down Binaries, and Combating Erasure," is being published by North Atlantic Books. Yussuf created the Twitter hashtag #BisexualMenSpeak for bisexual+ men and masculine-identified folks to have the space to speak for themselves and talk about how being bisexual+ impacts the way they move through the world. He also maintains the Let's Heal Already podcast, devoted to mental wellness, emotional literacy, and forgiveness.

J.R.'s website: http://www.jryussuf.com/

Dear Bi Men book: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Bi-Men-Perspective-Combating/dp/1623179688/

EPISODES MENTIONED

Ep.48: Taking Someone's Gay Virginity: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep-48-Taking-Someones-Gay-Virginity-e2hs66s

Ep.38: Do Bisexual Men Exist? with Vaneet Mehta: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep-38-Do-Bisexual-Men-Exist--With-Vaneet-Mehta-e2bva22

Ep.3: Does Size Matter in Gay Sex? with Sergio Zapata: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep--3-Does-Size-Matter-In-Gay-Sex--With-Sergio-Zapata-e1r4ubb

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Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

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Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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MY BOOKS

Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

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Lit Up Lightworker Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/lit-up-lightworker-guidance-for-empaths-healers-and/id1438539230

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Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠⁠

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠⁠

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠⁠

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠⁠⁠⁠

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ABOUT DR. FRANK ANDERSON

Dr. Frank Anderson, Harvard educated psychiatrist, trauma specialist, and author of the upcoming memoir To Be Loved: A Story of Truth, Trauma, and Transformation. He is the go-to “Trauma Expert” and knows firsthand what it’s like to endure the pain. 

Dr. Anderson has spent the past three decades studying neuroscience and trauma treatment, working to heal trauma and bring more love, compassion, and unity to the world. Dr. Anderson has been featured on PIX11, KTLA, and more and been praised and endorsed by many, including Bessel A. van der Kolk, MD, NYT-bestselling author of The Body Keeps the Score. Dr. Anderson also recently formed Trauma-Informed Media, which is composed of an Emmy-nominated team of diverse entertainment and mental health professionals who support the emergence of mental health content in the media. 

Website: https://frankandersonmd.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/frank_andersonmd/

Transcending Trauma book: https://www.amazon.com/Transcending-Trauma-Healing-Complex-Internal/dp/1683733975/

To Be Loved book: https://www.amazon.com/Be-Loved-Story-Trauma-Transformation/dp/1962305112/

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Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠

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Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠

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Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠

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Be The Guru: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠

Protect Your Light: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet

In this episode, herbalism and plant energetics expert Coby Michael guides us through the enchanting world of aphrodisiac herbs and psychoactive plants. Exploring the properties of roses, hawthorn, cacao, and more, Coby delves into herbal infusions, essential oils, and burning herbs, emphasizing their significance in connecting with plant spirits. The discussion extends to the effects of cannabis on sexuality, the energetic influence of poppers, and the use of magic mushrooms in enhancing intimacy. Join us as we unravel the mysteries of plant signatures, flower essences, and the profound connections between nature and our most intimate experiences.

ABOUT COBY

Coby Michael is an occult herbalist and magical practitioner specializing in the ritual use of poisonous and psychoactive plants. He studied religion at Arizona State University and has been a folk herbalist since a young age. He owns and operates The Poisoner's Apothecary, an online shop and educational resource for The Poison Path. Coby has been blogging since 2016 for Patheos Pagan and The House of Twigs, and has written articles for This Witch Magazine (2020),The Witches' Almanac (2022) The Poisoner's Guild (2023) . His first book The Poison Path Herbal came out in 2021 with Inner Traditions. He just finished his second book Leo Witch (2023) Llewellyn. He currently resides in St. Petersburg, Fl and travels the country teaching people about plant magic, the poison path and reconnecting with nature.

  Coby's Website: https://www.thepoisonersapothecary.com/ Coby's Instagram Handle: https://www.instagram.com/poisonersapothecary/

https://www.instagram.com/apoisonaffair/ Coby's Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/posionersapothecary Coby's Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/poisonersapothecary/ Botanica Obscura Conference 2024: https://www.botanicaobscuraconference.com/

Listen to Coby’s episode on The Lit Up Ligtworker Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/148-poisonous-herbs-for-witches-with-coby-michael/id1438539230?i=1000635451369

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Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, we embark on a thoughtful exploration into the crucial topic of raising LGBTQIA+ allies with Chris Tompkins. Join us as we navigate the nuances of discussing LGBTQ issues with children, gaining insights into the right age to broach these conversations and foster understanding. Chris delves into the subconscious heteronormative norms ingrained in us from a young age and provides guidance on releasing them, paving the way for a more inclusive perspective. Our conversation extends to addressing the challenges posed by homophobic teachers, offering practical strategies to navigate these situations and ensure a supportive environment for all. We also delve into the proactive measures needed to prevent the adoption of homophobic and transphobic beliefs by new generations. Chris shares specific actions that parents, family members, and caregivers can take to initiate and navigate conversations that foster allyship and inclusivity.

ABOUT CHRIS TOMPKINS

Chris Tompkins is a therapist and educator based in Los Angeles, California. Chris specializes in helping gay men unburden past pain to wake up feeling a greater sense of purpose, self-acceptance, and belonging.
In addition to being a therapist, Chris is a TEDx speaker and author of the best-selling book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent’s Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. While his book aims to help families prevent homophobia, transphobia, and bullying before they begin, Raising LGBTQ Allies is a peace offering for members of the LGBTQ community to heal from the effects of trauma and toxic shame.
The foundation of Chris’ work is built on the belief that connecting with our spirituality, loving ourselves, and taking full responsibility for our lives and choices is where our strength lies at the deepest level. 

Get Chris' book: https://www.amazon.com/Raising-LGBTQ-Allies-Changing-Playground/dp/1538136260/

Chris' website: https://www.aroadtriptolove.com/

Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aroadtriptolove/  

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Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Join us on a transformative journey as we explore the top fears and limiting beliefs shaping the experiences of gay men. Britt East unravels the barriers hindering us from engaging in the essential work of healing, offering insightful tools and modalities for self discovery. Our conversation extends to redefining the concept of family within the LGBTQ+ community, exploring ways to create bonds that transcend the norms of a straight society. We also navigate the intricacies of cultivating sustainable gay friendships amid internalized homophobia, unveiling strategies for fostering genuine connections. In a world dominated by hook-up apps and disposable relationships, Britt shares profound insights into finding lasting love, providing a thoughtful perspective on building connections that withstand the challenges of a fast paced world.

ABOUT BRITT EAST

BRITT EAST is an author and speaker who uses his experience, strength, and hope to challenge and inspire change-oriented gay men to get down to the business of improving their lives. With over two decades of personal growth and development experience in a variety of modalities, such as the 12 Steps, Nonviolent Communication, yoga, meditation, talk therapy, and the Hoffman Process, Britt is committed to building a personal practice of self-discovery that he can then share with gay men everywhere. He lives in Seattle with his husband and their crazy dog.

Website: https://www.britteast.com/

Instagram Handle: https://www.instagram.com/britteast/

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/brittdawsoneast

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Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, we explore the journey of coming out and coming of age with bestselling author Josh Sabarra. Join us as we navigate the challenges of stepping out of the closet, unraveling the fears and limiting beliefs that often hinder this transformative process. Josh shares profoun insights on coping with bullying, both in childhood and adulthood, offering a perspective that goes beyond the surface. Additionally, our conversation delves into a unique aspect — the mindful use of porn, shedding light on a topic often surrounded by stigma.

About Josh Sabarra

Two-time bestselling author Josh Sabarra is a veteran marketing executive and television producer who has held positions at The Walt Disney Company, Warner Bros. Studios, Miramax Films, New Line Cinema and A&E Networks. Having spearheaded campaigns for such blockbusters as THE NOTEBOOK, THE LORD OF THE RINGS, HARRY POTTER AND THE SORCERER'S STONE, WEDDING CRASHERS, THE SIXTH SENSE, among many others, he has remained a sought-after voice across all platforms of entertainment. His first book, PORN AGAIN: A MEMOIR, continues to sell out internationally, and his debut novel, ENEMIES CLOSER, has had similar success. Sabarra recently completed work on a Batman graphic novel for DC Entertainment/Warner Bros., GONE FROM GOTHAM, which is set to hit shelves in 2024. As an executive producer of the popular Hallmark Channel HAILEY DEAN MYSTERIES series, he oversaw the production of more than twelve films in addition to the recently aired CHRISTMAS BEDTIME STORIES. For A&E/Lifetime Networks, he has executive produced movies such as THE ELEVENTH VICTIM and THE GOOD FATHER with a new true crime film currently in development for the cable channel.
Sabarra resides in Los Angeles, CA, where he is hard at work outlining his next book. Website: www.joshsabarra.com Instagram: @joshsabarra Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSabarraAuthor/

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, we navigate the intricate landscape of bisexuality with the insightful Vaneet Mehta. Join us as we delve into the unique challenges and experiences that bisexual men encounter when coming out, unraveling the complexities of their journey. We question and explore the intriguing concept: do bisexual people have a gender preference? Our conversation extends to dispelling common misconceptions about bisexual men, particularly in the realm of sexual health. As we journey through this exploration, we shine a spotlight on the vital importance of accurate representation in literature and media for the bisexual community. Vaneet provides profound insights into the intersectionality of bisexuality, intertwining with various aspects of identity.

About Vaneet Mehta

Vaneet Mehta (He/Him) is an Indian bisexual man born and raised in West London. He is a software engineer, writer and public speaker and the founder of #BisexualMenExist, which went viral in 2020. He has appeared on numerous panels and delivered talks to various companies. He has written for Men's Health, Stonewall, Metro UK, OutLife and Unicorn Magazine and his work has been published in The Bi-ble: New Testimonials, The Ampersand Project and The Sex Agenda.

Website: https://vaneetmehta.wixsite.com/home

Instagram Handle: @nintendomad888

Get the Book: https://www.amazon.com/Bisexual-Men-Exist-Vaneet-Mehta/dp/1787757196/

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, we explore the transformation of Black queer narratives and their profound impact on societal perceptions. Join us as acclaimed author and activist George M. Johnson delves deep into the stories that challenge the conventional narratives surrounding Black families raising LGBTQ Black children. Together, we'll unravel the importance of self-identification and the power of labels within the LGBTQ+ community. As George takes us on this poignant journey, we'll also immerse ourselves in the concept of Black joy and its importance in the face of adversity. Furthermore, for those outside the LGBTQ+ circle wondering how to stand in solidarity, we'll touch upon actionable ways individuals can be better allies and champions for LGBTQ+ rights.

About George M. Johnson

George M Johnson is an Award Winning Black Non-Binary Writer, Author, and Activist located in the NYC area. From the scores of places that George has written for to the outlets who have written about George, their connections in the media world run deep with his knowledge and expertise being called upon from publishing to the big screen.

They are the author of the Bestselling Young Adult memoir All Boys Aren’t Blue discussing their adolescence growing up as a young Black Queer boy in New Jersey through a series of powerful essays. Their book has been optioned for Television by Gabrielle Union and Sony TV.

Website: https://iamgmjohnson.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamgmjohnson/?hl=en

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/george.m.johnson/

Books:

- All Boys Aren't Blue: A Memoir-Manifesto: https://a.co/d/9003ghi - We Are Not Broken: https://a.co/d/6Nw5V6r

Episodes Mentioned

Polyamory and Open Relationships with Jessica Fearn: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep-22-Polyamory-and-Open-Relationships-with-Jessica-Fern-e225pcj

The Problem with Top/Bottom with Sergio Zapata: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep--2-The-Problem-With-TopBottom-with-Sergio-Zapata-e1qpo4s

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠

Connect With Me 

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

My Books

Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this riveting episode, we journey back in time to explore the intertwined realms of queer sex, magic, and spirituality with renowned historian and expert Tomás Prower. Dive deep into understanding the essence of "Queer Magic" and grasp its profound significance for LGBTQ+ individuals throughout history. Have you ever wondered if there was a place for LGBT spirituality in the ancient world? Tomás enlightens us with intriguing examples and key insights on how queer magic has transformed and manifested across different eras. Drawing from ancient cultures, he unveils the rich tapestry of sexuality and spirituality, highlighting the lessons we can glean today. Moreover, get ready to be introduced to a pantheon of LGBTQIA+ affirming deities and spirits that graced various mythologies and cultures, shedding light on a side of history that's often left in the shadows. Join us as we bridge the past and present rediscovering the magic and mystique of queer spirituality in ancient times.

About Tomas Prower

Tomás Prower is the award-winning Latinx author of books on multicultural magic and mysticism, including Queer Magic and Warrior Magic. Fluent in English, French, and Spanish, he previously served as the cultural liaison between France, the United States, and various nations of South America. Tomás is also a licensed mortuary professional, former External Relations Director of the American Red Cross of Nevada, and studio advisor on LGBTQ+ representation in film.

Website: https://www.tomasprower.com/

Instagram: @tomasprower: https://www.instagram.com/tomasprower/

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/tomas.prower

Books: "Queer Magic: LGBT+ Spirituality & Culture from Around the World"
"Morbid Magic: Death Spirituality & Culture from Around the World"
"Warrior Magic: Justice Spirituality & Culture from Around the World"

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠

Connect With Me 

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠  

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

My Books

Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠⁠  

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, we dive deep into the intricate relationship between film, media, and pop culture and its influence on our perception of masculinity. Join us as queer film critic Manuel Betancourt takes us on a captivating journey, shedding light on how media shapes our desires and dictates the ideals of manhood. Discover the ways pop culture has tried to define and redefine the boundaries of what men can be, wear, do, and yearn for. Manuel delves into the dual portrayal of masculinity as both erotic and aggressive, and the often overlooked influence it has had on young gay men's perceptions of body image from a tender age. As we navigate these waters, we also uncover ways to decondition and broaden our understanding of masculinity as presented in films and TV series.

About Manuel Betancourt

Manuel Betancourt is a Los Angeles-based queer Colombian writer and film critic. His work has been featured in The New York Times, BuzzFeed Reader, The Los Angeles Times, Film Comment, Esquire, The Atlantic, Los Angeles Review of Books and The AV Club, among others. His latest book is The Male Gazed: What Hunks, Heartthrobs and Pop Culture Taught Me About (Desiring) Men (Catapult, 2023). He is also the author of Judy at Carnegie Hall (Bloomsbury Press, 2020) and a contributing writer on Chad Sell's critically acclaimed and Eisner Award-nominated graphic novel series The Cardboard Kingdom (Knopf Books for Young Readers, 2018, 2021, 2023).

Website: https://mbetancourt.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bmanuel/?hl=en

The Male Gazed (book): https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/719500/the-male-gazed-by-manuel-betancourt/

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠

Connect With Me 

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠  

Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠  

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠  

Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠ 

My Books

Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠  

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠ 

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Uncover the allure behind drug-fueled sex and the root causes of addiction in the gay community, particularly the lasting trauma experienced during one's formative years. Why is crystal meth the drug of choice and what roles do other substances play in this narrative? Jason unravels the ties between sex parties and substance use, the harrowing consequences of meth addiction, and the profound impact of his addiction on loved ones. We also explore the reluctance towards sober intimacy within the gay community. Jason shares his personal journey to sobriety, revealing the tools and methods that aided his recovery.

About Jason Yamas

Website: https://www.jasonyamas.com/

Tweakerworld: https://www.amazon.com/Tweakerworld-Memoir-Jason-Yamas/dp/195121370X/

Instagram: @jasonyamas

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠

Connect With Me 

Instagram: ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠  

Website: ⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠  

TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠  

Facebook Group: ⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠ 

My Books

Be The Guru: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠  

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠ 

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, men’s sex coach Cam Fraser shares how to move away from goal- and performance-oriented sex and masturbation, and towards exploratory sexual experiences. You’ll learn how to overcome shame around self-pleasure, ways of releasing toxic masculinity narratives and find freedom in your sex life, the difference between self-pleasure and masturbation, and 5 masturbation techniques you probably haven’t tried before! 

About Cam Fraser

Cam Fraser is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Being a former Tantric Yoga Teacher, his work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.

Website: https://cam-fraser.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/?hl=en

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/thecamfraser/

Offer: Sign up for Cam's Mailing list to receive a free copy of his Ebook, The New Male Sexuality.

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠https://georgelizos.com/

Connect With Me 

Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠  

Website: ⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠  

TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠  

Facebook Group: ⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠ 

My Books

Be The Guru: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠  

Protect Your Light: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠ 

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

After a four-month break, Can’t Host is back and it’s sexier than ever! In this episode, I review the lessons I learned during my summer sexcapades. Specifically, I share a radical thing to ask your partner/s during sex (it’ll take your sex life to the next level, what ‘Intimacy Partners’ are how they’re different from hook-ups, why having a ‘type’ may be limiting your sexual pleasure, and what to have instead, and my go-to affirmations before going on dates or having sex.

Episodes Mentioned 

Ep.16: Are You Addicted to Sex? With Dr. Joe Kort - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep-16-Are-You-Addicted-to-Sex--With-Dr--Joe-Kort-e1vndci

Ep.17: Why Straight Men Have Sex with Men with Dr. Joe Kort - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep-17-Why-Straight-Men-Have-Sex-With-Men-with-Dr--Joe-Kort-e1vvrk4

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. ⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠  

Website: ⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠  

TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠  

Facebook Group: ⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠  

Protect Your Light: ⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this bonus episode, I wrap up season 1 and share the lessons I learned so far in this journey. I share the episodes that have impacted me mostly, my sex plans for the summer, and the topics I plan to cover next on the podcast.  

Episodes Mentioned 

Ep. 2: The Problem With Top/Bottom with Sergio Zapata: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/nbfYY7bDCAb  

Ep.8: Dealing With Unrequited Love: My Best Friend and I Share Our Story: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/9GIyZoMHCAb 

Ep.9: Using Crystal Dildos to Heal Sexual Trauma with Hannah Wallace: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/r8XqOvNHCAb  

Ep.26: Multiple Orgasms Without Ejaculation with Johnathan White: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/HGSHpm0uEAb 

Ep.24: Overcome Sexual Shame and Embrace Your Sluttiness with Zachary Zane: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/0BrAzt1uEAb 

Ep.22: Polyamory and Open Relationships with Jessica Fern: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/PzcPGw2uEAb  

Ep.20: Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/d8PZoV3uEAb  

Ep.18: Trending Gay Sex Toys with Agnetas Sergejevas: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/ThwyH34uEAb  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Have you been ghosted before? Or, have you ghosted people yourself? In this episode, I share the various ghosting scenarios when dating and the reasons people ghost in the first place. Rather than rejecting someone by ghosting them, I share two frameworks for rejecting people in a kinder way on dating apps and real life, as well as scripts that you can use to do so. We all deserve to be treated with kindness when dating, and I hope the tips I share will help you have a more pleasant dating experience.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Is your sense of self-worth tied to your weight and body image? In this episode with the creator of @gayfatfriend Todd Masterson, we talk about fat shaming, body dysmorphia, comparison, and the pressure of being fit and looking ripped in the gay community. Todd shares why gay men are obsessed with their weight and appearance, his theory about why many guys are afraid of fat people, getting fetishized for being fat, his journey of accepting himself, and how he deals with comparison.  

About Todd Masterson 

Todd Masterson is a writer and comedian best known for his online persona GayFatFriend.  

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gayfatfriend/   

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gayfatfriend  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this solo episode, I share with you the full story of healing my sexual trauma. We start by defining our terms – PTSD, Complex PTSD, and Developmental Trauma – my traumatic childhood experiences growing up gay in a homophobic community, the subsequent sexual trauma I experienced in my 20s, and my step-by-step journey to healing trauma and reclaiming my self-worth.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

Episodes Mentioned 

Trending Gay Sex Toys with Agnetas Sergejevas: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/iHQBFRwQ2zb 

Dealing with Unrequited Love: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/FHRnBizQ2zb  

I Can’t Be Gay: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/YkcsCszQ2zb  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this solo episode, I share with you the benefits of being single. We live in a world that’s constantly pushing us to be in a relationship, and whereas it can be fulfilling to do so, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Simultaneously, even if you want to be in a relationship but are currently single, there’s nothing wrong with that, or with you. I’ve been single for my entire adult life. I’ve judged myself and have been judged by others for it, for so many years. It’s only recently that I’ve managed to let go of my fears and limiting beliefs and embrace the benefits of my singlehood.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, Taoist sex expert Johnathan White introduces the practice of semen retention that allows men to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation. Johnathan and I talk about ways of overcoming premature ejaculation, the causes behind low/high libido and erectile disfunction, exercises for practicing semen retention, the benefits of having non-ejaculatory orgasms, how to use sexual energy for manifestation, and the connection between sex and spirituality.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Johnathan White 

Johnathan White is a certified instructor of Taoist internal arts. He helps you master your sexual energy so you can manifest your ideal life. Through his teachings, you can expect to greatly improve your sexual pleasure, health and take performance to a whole new level, in and out of the bedroom. 

Johnathan's website: https://www.johnathanwhitelifestyle.com/

Johnathan's Instagram: instagram.com/johnathan.white.skf/

Johnathan's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SexualKungFu

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, gay fitness coach and former Broadway actor Steven Goldsmith busts common fitness and nutrition myths, and shares tactics and strategies for losing weight and sculpting our ideal body. Steven and I talk about the biggest mistakes people make when working out, ways of optimizing our workouts for best results, mindset shifts for enjoying our workout, why motivation doesn’t work and what to do instead, two types of stretching and when to use them, and complementary modalities to support our fitness. 

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Steven Goldsmith 

Gay online health and fitness coach with almost two decades of experience. Former actor/singer/dancer who suffered from three herniated discs and learned to overcome the pain.  

Steven's Website: https://stevendurance.com/

Steven's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stevendurance/

Steven's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/steven.goldsmith.125?mibextid=LQQJ4d

Steven's Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/stevendurance?mibextid=LQQJ4d

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, bisexual sex expert Zachary Zane shares how to release sexual shame and fully embrace our sexuality. Specifically, in the episode we talk about the reasons people slut shame, how sexual shame negatively impacts our sex and relationships, the reason many people can’t get their heads around bisexuality, ways of dealing with rejection coming from friends and family, and tips and resources on finding a sex-positive therapist.   

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Zachary Zane 

Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto, coming out on May 9th. He’s also the co-author of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever.  
 
He currently has two columns: “Sexplain It” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health and “Navigating Non-Monogamy” at Cosmo, where he shares all the mistakes he’s made in his polyamory journey, so you don’t have to.  
 
He is also the founder and editor-in-chief of Boyslut zine, which publishes real sex stories from kinksters worldwide. His work has been published in The New York Times, Rolling Stone, The Washington Post, GQ, Playboy, Slate, Cosmo, Bustle, VICE, NBC, Dazed, The Daily Beast, and many others. 

Zachary's website: https://www.zacharyzane.com/

Zachary's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane_/

Zachary's book BOYSLUT: amazon.com/Boyslut-Memoir-Manifesto-Zachary-Zane/dp/1419764713/

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, I talk with trans author Alex Reegan about his journey of coming out and reclaiming his faith. Alex and I talk about his transitioning journey, the dynamics between gender, sex, and sexuality, the true meaning of the word queer, ways of dealing with friends and family rejecting your gender and sexuality, and how Alex reconciled his faith following his transition.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Alex Reegan 

Alex Reegan is an author, interfaith minister, speaker, and transformative spiritual coach who uses his intuitive wisdom to help guide people towards their own inner knowing. Born into an evangelical Christian family that prevented his true identity as a trans man from emerging, he spent years in depression, anxiety, and addiction trying to break free of the oppressive beliefs that bound him. His journey at last led him to sobriety, shamanism and then seminary, which helped him reclaim his faith and trust in the Divine. Through speaking engagements, workshops, one-on-one and group sessions with clients, Alex is profoundly dedicated to helping others speak their truth, release shame, and find oneness. 

Alex's Website: https://www.alexreegan.com/

Alex's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revreegs/

What Needs To Be Said: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401971172?th=1&psc=1&geniuslink=true

Resources Mentioned 

Lit Up Lightworker Podcast episodes: 

Akashic Records: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-lit-up-lightworker-podcast/id1438539230?i=1000570325711  

Manifestation: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-lit-up-lightworker-podcast/id1438539230?i=1000579219858 

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure Jessica Fern and I discuss the various dimensions of Consensual non-monogamy. Jessica shares whether polyamory is a privilege or whether everyone can do it, the connection between polyamory and trauma, and how to enter open relationships without hurting our partners. Finally, Jessica shares a six-step process of creating secure attachment styles with multiple patterns. 

About Me 

 I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Jessica Fern 

Jessica Fern is a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonomgamy and The Polyseucre Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.   

Jessica’s website: http://jessicafern.com/ 

Polysecure: https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987/  

Polywise: https://www.amazon.com/Polywise-Deeper-Dive-Navigating-Relationships/dp/1990869149/  

Connect With Me 

 Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

 Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, Dr. Lucas Wilson shares his experience in surviving conversion therapy. Growing up in evangelical Christianity Lucas struggled to accept his queerness. Overwhelmed with shame, he signed up for conversion therapy at the fundamentalist Christian Liberty University he was a student at. Lucas shares the details of the practices he had to go through, his journey of coming out and accepting his gayness, and his work in helping Christians reconcile their faith and sexuality.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Dr. Lucas Wilson 

Dr. Lucas Wilson is the Justice, Equity, and Transformation Postdoctoral Fellow at University of Calgary. He holds graduate degrees from McMaster University, Vanderbilt University, and Florida Atlantic University. His current research focuses on homophobia, evangelicalism, and Christian fundamentalism, and he is currently putting together an edited collection of conversion-therapy narratives as told by conversion-therapy survivors. He is not only the author of numerous academic articles and book chapters, but moreover, his public-facing work has appeared in The Advocate, Queerty, LGBTQ Nation, and Religion Dispatches, among other venues. You also may have seen him competing on Netflix's Cook at All Costs (season 1, episode 7)! 

Lucas’ academic work: https://ucalgary.academia.edu/LucasWilson 

Lucas’ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukeslamdunkwilson/  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, gay anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein busts myths and shares best practices for safer bottoming. Listen to the episode to learn about the anatomy of the anus, anal care practices before, during and after sex, how often you should douche and the risks of over-douching, how to safely practice rimming and prostate play, and what anal Botox is and whether you need it.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Dr. Evan Goldstein 

Dr. Evan Goldstein is a sexual health and wellness expert, anal surgeon and Co-founder of Future Method, a science-bases sex care brand that was developed as a result of the issues he saw with his patients at his private practice, Bespoke Surgical. He saw that many of his clients weren't engaging safely or using beneficial methods to prepare for engagement. This led to the development of Future Method, and Dr. Goldstein's mission to educate all communities on safe (and fun) anal engagement.  

Dr. Evan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/ 

Bespoke Surgical: https://bespokesurgical.com/  
Future Method: https://futuremethod.com/ -  
Dr. Evan’s anal dilator set: https://futuremethod.com/products/glass-anal-dilator-set 
Dr. Evan’s Butt Gut Daily Fibre: https://futuremethod.com/products/butt-gut-daily-fiber  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, I chat with reality star, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum), Jeff Perla. Jeff and I chat about the importance of talking openly about sex, the main issues we face in the gay community (primarily how our lack of presence hinders connection), and how to use other people’s judgements to fuel our purpose.  

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. 

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/  

About Jeff Perla 

Jeff Perla is the Amazon Prime star of The One That Got Away, content creator, and host of the popular gay podcast Gays In The Wild (previously Travelin Bum and Behind the Bum). 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeffperlaa/  

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gays-in-the-wild/id1456057533  

The One That Got Away: https://www.amazon.com/One-That-Got-Away-Season/dp/B09ZHMJZGX  

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/  

Website: https://georgelizos.com/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos  

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj  

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf  

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd  

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

What are the trendiest gay sex toys to spice up your sex life? What’s selling and what’s not? Will sex toys eventually replace physical connection? Should they? In this episode, I chat with one of my best friends and manager of Europe’s business gay sex shop in Soho, London. Agnetas shares the latest trends with gay sex toys as well as an AI sex toy that’ll shake up your sex life!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Agnetas Sergejevas

Agnetas Sergejevas is a Lithuanian-born Londoner running the busiest gay sex shop in Europe, in Soho, London. He’s passionate about traveling and spirituality, and the proud dad of Hugo the Maltese.

Follow Agnetas on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agnetassrg/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Are straight men who have sex with men closeted gay or bi? In this episode, clinical sexologist Dr. Joe Kort shares the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation, shedding light on this phenomenon. We also discuss heteroflexibility and homoflexibility, why straight men enjoy anal play, and four questions to determine someone’s sexual orientation. Dr. Joe Kort also shares how toxic masculinity limits straight men’s sexuality, and why Generation Z are more sexually fluid.

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

About Dr. Joe Kort

Dr Joe Kort is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops. specializes in marital problems and conflicts; mixed orientation marriages; male sexuality and sexual health concerns; “sex addiction,” out-of-control sexual behaviors; sexual identity issues; and childhood sexual abuse.

Erotic Orientation book: https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Orientation-Helping-Individuals-Understand/dp/0997389850/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Is sex addiction a thing? In this episode with clinical sexologist Dr. Joe Kort, we talk about what out-of-control sexual behaviour is (also known as compulsive sexual behaviour and hypersexuality), and how to heal it. Dr. Joe also shares the distinction between sexual and erotic orientation, the differences between top, bottom, versatile, and side, as well as the distinctions between asexuality, allosexuality, and graysexuality. Finally, Dr. Joe shares practices to healing shame and trauma that often result in out-of-control sexual behaviour.

About Dr. Joe Kort

Dr Joe Kort is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops. specializes in marital problems and conflicts; mixed orientation marriages; male sexuality and sexual health concerns; “sex addiction,” out-of-control sexual behaviors; sexual identity issues; and childhood sexual abuse.

Resources Mentioned

Treating Out of Control Sexual Behaviour book: https://www.amazon.com/Treating-Out-Control-Sexual-Behavior/dp/0826196756/

I Am Ace book: https://www.amazon.com/Am-Ace-Advice-Living-Asexual/dp/1839972629/

Erotic Orientation book: https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Orientation-Helping-Individuals-Understand/dp/0997389850/

Compulsive Sexual Behaviour definition: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/compulsive-sexual-behavior/symptoms-causes/syc-20360434

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this solo episode, I share why it’s essential to protect your energy before, during, and after sex, and share tactical and energetic practices you can use to do so. You’ll learn why spiritual people are more prone to psychic attack, how to prevent psychic rape on Grindr, the different types of toxic energy attachments you can encounter, and a powerful energy cleansing practice to use after sex.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, I chat with Jonathan Sekerak about overcoming loneliness and social isolation, common feelings for queer men. We discuss the root causes of loneliness in trauma, shame, and rejection, and share nature-based practices for healing and improving our relationship with others and with ourselves. Specifically, Jonathan shares practical breathwork exercises, an earthing technique, and working with cacao to open your heart and facilitate connection.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Jonathan

Jonathan Sekerak is a Somatic Breathwork Facilitator, Psychospiritual Hypnotherapist, and Soul Guide, working 1-on-1 with Queer men to uncover the truth they were born with, by guiding them into wilderness-based Self-development work, mind-body alignment, plant and elemental medicine ceremony, dreamwork, and shadow work. He is based in Denver, Colorado, but has co-created and facilitated yoga and transformational retreats in Costa Rica, Nicaragua, Perú, and Hawaii. He is the founder of Soul Path Brotherhood, a Self-development group for male-bodied gay, bi, and queer souls, and a psychospiritual connection writer at thesoulwanderer.com

Jonathan's Website: https://thesoulwanderer.com/ 

Jonathan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_soulpuma_/

Resources Mentioned

Soulcraft book: https://www.amazon.com/Soulcraft-Crossing-Mysteries-Nature-Psyche/dp/1577314220/

Wild Mind book: https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Mind-Field-Guide-Psyche/dp/1608681785/

My first cacao ceremony: https://georgelizos.com/blog/cacao-ceremony-benefits-cacao-drink-benefits

Get 50% off of Jonathan’s Soul Path Brotherhood using code SELFLOVE at https://thesoulwanderer.com/soul-path-brotherhood

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, I chat with my friend Ari Wisner about their experience in sex and relationships as a non-binary person. Specifically, we chat about the interactions between sex, gender, and sexual orientation, their biggest challenges when dating, how masculine and feminine energy manifest in non-binary sex and relationships, and the importance of evolving language to include gender-neutral terms.

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Ari

Ari is a queer artist based in London. Ari is the author and illustrator of the Transient Light Tarot and Trinity Tarot. More recently they illustrated the "Raise Your Vibrations" oracle deck by Kyle Gray. Through art and card decks, Ari creates tangible tools to aid reflection, prompt intuition, and promote authentic, peaceful living.

Ari's Website: https://www.ariwisner.com/

Ari’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/ari_wisner/

Resources Mentioned

A Guide to Gender Identity Terms: https://www.npr.org/2021/06/02/996319297/gender-identity-pronouns-expression-guide-lgbtq

Feeld Dating app: https://feeld.co/

Transient Light Tarot Review: https://georgelizos.com/blog/transient-light-tarot-deck-review

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Gay saunas and bathhouses are fun places to get off and experiment sexually, but could they be spaces for healing and spiritual development? In this episode with gay life and wellness coach Michael Dilorio, we discuss ways of engaging with gay saunas to heal sexual trauma, explore our sexuality, and improve our relationships with our bodies, while having great sex! You’ll learn practical tips for setting an intention, navigating the sauna, and even protecting your energy before, during and after sexual encounters.

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host  to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Michael

Michael DiIorio is a gay men's life coach at Wellismo Coaching, co-host of the Gay Men Going Deeper podcast, and community leader in the Gay Men's Brotherhood. He specializes in dating, sexuality and building genuine self-confidence. His mission is to elevate the conversations gay men are having about sex, dating, and relationships.

Michael's Website: https://www.wellismo.com/

Michael’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wellismo_coach/

Michael's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WellismoCoach/

Bathhouse Basics: https://www.wellismo.com/bathhouse-basics/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Can porn be healing and educational? In this video with gay YouTube icon and founder of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey, we chat about the future of gay porn. Specifically, Davey and I discuss how we can use porn in a conscious way to deepen our relationships with ourselves and our partners, ways of exploring the shadow side of our sexuality with porn, and how Himeros.tv is different from other porn websites. Davey also shares his vision for, and prediction about, the future of gay porn. 

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! 

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/ 

About Davey

Davey Wavey is a popular YouTube personality who covers topics around gay sex and relationships through his iconic shirtless videos. His YouTube channel has scored more than 300 million views and have over 1.5 million subscribers. In 2017, Davey created Himeros.tv, a porn platform that "enhances gay and bisexual men's experience of sex and sexuality through connection, exploration, and pleasure" 

Himeros TV: https://www.himeros.tv/ 

Davey’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialdaveywavey/ 

Davey’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@daveywavey 

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ 

Website: https://georgelizos.com/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos 

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj 

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf 

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

If you think you don’t experience shame about being gay, think again. In my experience, shame is so deeply rooted into the lives of gay men that we’re numbed out to it. In this episode, you’ll learn how to recognize and heal shame, so you can live a happier life and improve your relationships. You’ll also learn what attachment trauma is and how that relates to shame, and powerful practices of healing trauma and nurturing a secure attachment style. 

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! 

About Me 

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/ 

About Matt 

Matt Landsiedel is an Intuitive Life and Spiritual Coach from Calgary, Canada. Matt specializes in teaching people how to heal shame and trauma and embody their authentic self so they can enjoy meaningful connections in their lives. His areas of expertise are working with highly sensitive people (HSP), empaths and gay men to develop a stronger sense of self-worth. Matt earned his undergraduate degree in Addiction Counselling from the University of Lethbridge and has spent the last 15 years working in the fields of Mental Health & Addiction and Transformative Life and Spiritual Coaching where he guides people on their psychological and spiritual journey through life. 

Matt’s website: https://www.mattlandsiedel.com/ 

Matt’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiredtobeauthentic/ 

Matt’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Matt-Landsiedel/dp/B084WL9PSK/ 

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ 

Website: https://georgelizos.com/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos 

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 

My Books 

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj 

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf 

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Have you ever used a crystal dildo? These are dildos made out of specific crystals, usually jade, rose quartz, and obsidian, used to blend crystal energy healing with sexual pleasure. Personally, I was introduced to crystal dildos while going through my journey of healing from sexual trauma. They helped me unearth repressed traumatic emotions, strengthen my relationship with, and acceptance of, my body, and dearmour before and during sex. In this episode, my friend Hannah Wallace and I discuss best practices for using crystal dildos for pleasure and for healing sexual trauma.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Hannah

Hannah Wallace is the host of the podcast finding grace, a disability model and advocate, a writer, blogger, speaker and priestess. She guides people to find grace in their lives, and to help them integrate their darkness and light and embody themselves fully.

Hannah’s website: https://www.hannah-wallace.com/

Hannah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahwallace/

Yoni Pleasure Palace: https://yonipleasurepalace.com/collections/anal-play 

Connect With Me 

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Have you experienced unrequited love? This is when you’re in love with someone who’s not in love with you. In my experience, it can be one of the most traumatic experiences of rejection, especially when the other person is a close friend. In this episode, my best friend Sargis and I talk about our journey to navigating this. The story is simple. We met on Grindr. I fell in love with him and he didn’t. Our bond was so strong that we didn’t want to let this relationship go. So, we decided to work through it. In this episode, we have a vulnerable conversation about our story, and share the process we followed to deal with it.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and bodyshame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Why are gay relationships so toxic? Most importantly, how do we heal that toxicity and manifest a healthy, fulfilling relationship with a soulmate? In this week’s episode, we talk about the path of healing and manifesting our soulmate. We’ll discuss the reasons many gay relationships are toxic, what a healthy relationship looks like, how to prepare our energy to attract our soulmate/s, what the Divine Union is and how to find it in a relationship, and what the balance between the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine looks like within gay relationships.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Cameron

Dr. Cameron Martin is a Self-Realization Teacher, Coach & Astrologer. He works with spiritually-awakening humans who are hungry to know their life’s purpose. His purpose is to help others, regardless of where they are on their personal spiritual journey, to finally discover their soul’s mission and live fully aligned with their Higher Self so they can experience a life of clarity, passion, and fulfillment.

Cameron’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pathandpurpose/

Cameron’s website: http://www.yourpathandpurpose.com/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

In this episode, queer astrologer Colin Bedell and I problematize outdated gay stereotypes, such as masc4masc and Grindr Tribes through a critical lens, tieing this to the subject of homonormativity. We talk about the origins of homonormativity in heterosexual patriarchal systems, how queer men can work towards dismantling patriarchy, and the importance of healing our relationships with straight men. We also discuss ways of overcoming judgment within the LGBTQIA+ community, whether Grindr tribes help or limit our sexual experiences, and Colin also shares astrological updates related to these topics.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Colin

Colin Bedell is a queer Gemini Twin from Long Island, New York.  He's a passionate student of secular personal-growth systems, and the universal spiritual themes explored in A Course in Miracles. Well & Good Magazine listed Colin as one of the most influential people in the wellness industry and as a 2020 Innovator. Complementing his work with QueerCosmos, Colin's the weekly horoscope writer for Cosmopolitan.com. He’s the #1 bestselling author of A Little Bit of Astrology, Queer Cosmos: The Astrology of Queer Identities & Relationships, and Gemini. Most recently, he was on 'Written in the Stars,' an astrology-based dating show premiering on Discovery Plus in November 2022.

Colin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queercosmos/

Colin's website: https://www.queercosmos.com/

Queer Cosmos book: https://www.amazon.com/Queer-Cosmos-Astrology-Identities-Relationships/dp/1627782931/

A Little Bit of Astrology book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1454932236/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1

Gemini book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1454938935/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i2 

Resources Mentioned

Homonormativity definition: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/01/homonormativity-101/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

How can we have more fulfilling and intimate sex? In this chat with gay sex tantra coach Finn Deerhart, we talk about the ins and outs of our sexual lives and the journey we can take to have more fulfilling sexual experiences. Specifically, we discuss how shame affects our sex lives, how to communicate our desires and preferences in sex, and how to use porn as a tool for self-inquiry and personal growth. Finn also shares practical exercises we can use to deepen our connection to our bodies and partners during sex. 

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Finn

Finn Deerhart is a sex and intimacy coach, helping gay and queer men ignite their eroticism and step into their emergent selves. Through my courses, workshops, retreats, and private sessions, men learn tools to confront their limitations, unravel internal narratives of shame, and spark deeper human connections—grounding themselves into a deeper experience of life. He also creates educational erotic content and provides on-site erotic coaching for various organizations, including Himeros TV, an online service that provides explicit educational content for queer men.

Finn’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/finndeerhart 

Finn’s website: https://www.finndeerhart.com 

Resources Mentioned

Polysecure, by Jessica Fern: https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987/

Velvet Rage, by Alan Downs: https://www.amazon.com/Velvet-Rage-Overcoming-Growing-Straight/dp/0738215678/

The Craft of Family Therapy, by Salvador Minuchin: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0415708125/

The Art of Receiving and Giving, by Betty Martin: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Receiving-Giving-Wheel-Consent/dp/1643883089/

Jason Tantra: https://www.tantra4gaymen.co.uk/facilitators-jason/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ 

Website: https://georgelizos.com/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos 

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj 

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf 

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd 

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Is it possible to have great, fulfilling sex without using Grindr or other gay hook-up apps? In this episode, Australian bestselling author of ‘Three Minutes With Spirit’ and psychic medium Cael O’Donnell and I, share creative ways of attracting sex without being on the apps. Listen to the episode to learn an energetic process of becoming a “sex magnet” and using the Law of Attraction to draw in partners, the reasons why off-Grindr sex is usually more fun, and how to use energy protection practices to protect your energy before, during, and after having casual sex.

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Cael

Cael O’Donnell is one of Australia’s most highly sought-after psychic mediums. His childhood in country Victoria was full of challenges and inspired his professional career as a mental health therapist, helping people at their lowest points find hope to live. When Cael began sharing messages of healing and connection on TikTok, it helped him rediscover his lifelong passion for spirituality and led him down a new path as a psychic medium.

Cael’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imcaelodonnell/

Cael’s website: https://www.caelodonnell.com/

Cael’s book Three Minutes With Spirit: https://www.amazon.com/Three-Minutes-Spirit-Australias-medium/dp/1761046683/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

To what degree does dick size matter in gay sex? In my second conversation with Sergio Zapata, we bust myths about penis size and pleasure, talk about comparison, dick shaming, and how to fully accept ourselves, and take deep dive into the psychology and spirituality behind our collective obsession with size. 

You can read more about the research mentioned in the episode at https://gaymalejournal.org/ 

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

About Me

I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

About Sergio

Sergio Zapata, label-less, but if there was a description of him it would be an alchemist, a person who transforms or creates something through a seemingly magical process. Growing up in an evangelical Christian household, bound to scriptures and dogmas of a strict patriarchy he broke through it all to create a life of his own where he could deconstruct his faith and develop self acceptance not just as a gay man, but a human.

In search of truth and clarity he continued his education in the field of architecture in NYC where he found a home and a way of life for him to thrive and develop a sense of self. Now an architect transforming living spaces as his formal career, he also dedicates his time in the study of mysticism, religion, shamanism, self development and wisdom seeking. Living in a world so concrete and earthly as architecture, but also dwelling in esoteric practices as spirituality he finds the duality of both worlds to balance and compliment each other, creating a harmonious life.

He is an alchemist continuing to transform his own life through a seemingly magical process, and helping others to find that magic of their own by shining his own light unapologetically.

Connect with Sergio at https://www.instagram.com/sergio0zapata/

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

Website: https://georgelizos.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/

My Books

Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd