We Care A Lot

Mel revels through what it feels like to be 27…and inching closer to 30. Reflecting on the transformative year of 26, Mel shares her experiences of diving deep into her sexuality and seeking representation in the queer community. From navigating the ups and downs of therapy to grappling with PMDD, Mel opens up about the challenges she's faced along the way. But amidst it all, she's dreaming big about her next creative venture—is it bikinis, a coming-of-age movie, or perhaps a self-portrait series? The dreams are dreaming, and why the hell not?! Let’s play.

What have we been consuming? Tiktok is a rollercoaster of emotions. We get into the big controversy of tankinis and whether not we need to be bandwagoners. We get inspired to follow some childlike dreams. Listen in for a rant about what's currently rotting our brains.

Meet our bestie Katie! She's a sagittarius and has a lot to say. Give her some love as we talk about how embarrassment is unnecessary, getting diagnosed with ADHD and starting medication. Thank you for being on Katie, we love you!

A very exhausted Coachella recap has arrived. We wanted to get you the details ASAP, so the Monday after Weekend One we laid down and recorded what we could remember. It’s the way we entirely forgot to mention seeing Billie’s set at the DoLab. It was like going to the club with your besties and they play all the best throwbacks. We hope you have an amazing festival season!

Us filming a whole episode about Q1 and for at least 20 minutes not knowing when Q1 ended. Let’s break down how our Q1 went. We discuss tax fraud, Coachella boobs, skipping periods, new bras, and roster of plastic surgery.

Dating culture has a grip on all of us.. what's the right and wrong way to do it? Is it better to have a roster or are we dating one at a time? Is our generation setting the tone for new dating standards?

In dating we always hear about the dos and the don'ts, but what we really think is most important is the bare minimum. In this episode, we redefine what the bare minimum is and what to accept. We agree that the bare minimum is the start to things and not the end all be all. We get into how the old ways of viewing the bare minimum is damaging but difficult to overcome. Are you accepting less than the bare minimum?

Let's dive into the sometimes tricky territory of friendships and finances. We're getting real about the importance of having those uncomfortable money talks with our pals, because sometimes...it can end friendships. From splitting bills to lending money, we're sharing our own experiences, insights, and tips for navigating these potentially awkward conversations. Whether you've been avoiding these talks or you're just curious about how to handle them, this episode has something for everyone.

Join us for a candid chat as we gear up for our third year at Coachella! In this episode, we're spilling the beans on our updated game plan for the festival. From what we're doubling down on to what we're dialing back, we're getting real about our priorities this time around. We discuss the experiences we can't wait to relive and the new adventures we're ready to dive into. Whether you're a seasoned festival veteran or just curious about festivals, we have several episodes on Coachella, give them a listen for a well-rounded list of our tips.

At the beginning of the year we attempted the 75 hard challenge- fashion edition. Let's just say we didn't do as well as we thought, but we did have some thoughts coming out of it! We give you some tips on how to move forward in your shopping experiences and how to experiment more.

We're pulling back the curtain on one of our favorite pastimes: thrifting!!! Join us as we dish out our top tips for navigating the rollercoaster of emotions that is thrifting. From the frustration of striking out to the exhilaration of a major score, we'll explore the highs and lows of the thrifting experience. We'll give you a couple tips on thrifting. So whether you're a seasoned thrifter or a curious newbie, come hang out with us as we spill the tea on how to have a successful run!

In this episode, we're dishing out simple yet effective tips to help you unwind and recharge. From taking leisurely drives to setting the mood with a flickering candle. So whether you're in need of a little pick-me-up or just craving some me-time, we've got you covered. Kick back, relax, and let's dive into the art of nurturing your well-being.

In this episode, we dig deep into what makes us, well, us. We're breaking down the building blocks of our identities—things like rituals, words and actions, personal values, and positive vibes. Join in for some chats and personal stories as we navigate the twists and turns of self-discovery.

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We are in a new era of our lives which requires building new and improved routines... Is this something you also have a hard time doing? Join us in trying to problem solve and give you great ideas on how to stay on task for an easy breezy beautiful life!

We read the viral book Atomic Habits by James Clear and give you the highlights of what we felt is most helpful. We go over the realties of building good habits and debunk ourselves from "bad" habit making. You aren't lazy, your environment and processes are just not working for you.

Why are we always in such a rush to grow up, to hit that next milestone, to get that big presentation over with?? Sometimes we find ourselves in a state of anxiety so we can hopefully be anxious enough that it might help change the future... right. Let's talk about being present and why that matters so much to us.

Have you heard about the secret club? Are you wanting to make new friends? We went ahead and experienced 222 and want to give you all the details.

Shamelessly making content creators our job titles. We get into the stigma of the occupation and why we are making it our plan A. We talk about the need we have for community building and just trying to find our place on the internet. Whether we got what it takes or not, we continue to do things for the plot ⋆𐙚₊˚⊹♡

Join us for a rollercoaster of emotions as we share our best and worst relationship stories. From unforgettable kisses to cringe-worthy moments, we're opening up as we dive into the highs and lows of dating.

Maturing is realizing you will never feel as lonely as you did with the wrong partner. You may lose your identity, your friendships, and a sense of control. It doesn't feel as black and white as, just leave, does it? We share personal experiences and insights into the paradox of being physically close yet emotionally distant. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on prioritizing your own well-being and finding the courage to seek happiness elsewhere.

Class is in session: we got our red pens out for this episode.. We go and rate bios and bios. Did you make the cut and what gets you 5 stars? This is a reminder to maybe freshen up your profiles.

We asked you all the questions about the holiday of love. Are you celebrating? When's the right time to expect someone to ask you to be their Valentine? Do we all need to be so serious about this day? We even recommend some music and movies to get you in the spirit, whether that's in love or in breakup mode. We got it covered.

Today, we're diving into something straight from TikTok: the Orange Peel Theory. It's all about those sweet relationships where your partner just gets it—ya know, they're super considerate and always seem to know what you need. With plenty of laughs and maybe a few "awws," we'll dish out some insights from past relationships and current ones. Let's peel back the layers of this theory together!

From those heart-fluttering crushes that leave us wondering "Is this it?" to the real deal of falling head over heels, we're navigating the highs and lows of romantic feels together. Is the heart-pounding rush of infatuation the beginning of the steady warmth of genuine love? We're sharing our own stories and dishing out some tips for navigating the rollercoaster ride of relationships.

Do you hoard memories too? Well we sure do, we save everything from concert tickets to birthday signs and most importantly cheating apology letters. It's only fair that we get real vulnerable and real cringe with you in this episode as we go through our memory boxes of past lovers.

Live, laugh, attachment styles. The fundamentals are coming in hot to teach us a thing or two about what we seek in our relationships and how we navigate our live experiences through these attachment styles. Sam is aware that she falls in the anxious style and Mel has convinced herself she falls somewhere in between them all.

Hang out with Mel as she spills the tea on her search for purpose and her wild mission to embrace rejection – yep, SEEK rejection! She's talking all about making life changes and dishing on her latest obsessions.

Soooo Sam got stranded in Oregon, let's talk about it. Join us for the deets on Sam's adventure, her latest obsessions (hello smutty books!), and recent feelings.

Oh, and don't miss Mel spilling the tea solo-style—coming up next!

27 going on 17... Maybe we are tired of adulting and it's time for a second wind of the teenage dream! In this episode we talk about the struggles of being a twenty something and how the problems that we once faced as teenagers come back for a second time. Whether its boyfriend troubles, struggling with friendships, or figuring out what you're doing next after graduation (graduation being going into your 30's).

With all the talk of the resurgence of 2014 we had our fair share of thoughts on how that affects social media! We want to bring back 2014 Instagram back, let the efforts be shown and let's get those filters rolling girls!

Recapping our NYE 2023 plans. What shenanigans did we get into this year together? Well truth be told, we had a sort of wholesome night in with friends. Mel made the cutest journals for us to all recount our year. We also talk about what we did on the first day of 2024!

Let’s talk about the pressure of the new year. Mel is dying hair to feel like herself again. Sam questions if being a redhead is a 2024 moment or not. We're trying to define our personal styles by keeping each other accountable in a 75 hard challenge. Lastly, we chat about our theme for 2024 and what we hope to accomplish overall.

2023 is coming to an end!! This year actually flew by! With all the changes and the crazy events in our lives we compiled 5 lessons for the year.

The cringe!!! We reflect on how far we've come and rediscover the essence that sparked it all. We give our fresh perspective in celebrating ourselves and the origin of our podcast. This episode is full of embarrassing moments and a lot of awws.

As the festivities wind down, we explore the common comedown and exhaustion that can follow. We talk about practical self-care strategies, including rest, reflection, and gentle transitions back to regular routines. How realistic is it really to go from nonstop celebration into building a new routine for yourself?

This episode is a deeply reflective exploration of the intricate web of human connection. We dive into the idea that fragments of ourselves are intertwined with every person we've ever loved, whether through deep friendships or fleeting romances. Through personal stories we unravel the impact of love, loss, and growth of our lives, examining how relationships act as mirrors reflecting our own identity. Tune in and explore the timeless bonds that weave through our existence, connecting us to the pieces of ourselves that reside in others.

Let's empower ourselves through radical acceptance! We navigate through the messy, unpredictable jour of self-love and pushing through anxiety with radical acceptance. We all just want to feel free!!!

Let's dive into the intimate conversations of the highs and lows of embarking on new romantic journeys post-infidelity. From navigating the initial uncertainties to building a foundation of trust in fresh relationships, this episode unveils the vulnerability, resilience, and ultimate joy that can accompany the pursuit of love after betrayal. This candid discussion offers relatable experiences and invaluable insights to guide you through the complexities of starting a new relationship and experiencing love again.

Despite the warnings from family and the chaos depicted in movies, the reality of holiday stress often catches us off guard. Join us as we explore practical strategies for setting realistic expectations, conquering financial fears, mastering the art of saying no, finding balance in festive feasting, and much more. Tune in for insights, tips, and relatable anecdotes as we unravel the challenges and joys that come with the most wonderful time of the year.

It's Britney b*tch!!! Britney Jean Spears tells her story and we are here for it! We give you our thoughts on the book as she retells her mistreatments from the press and her family.

Dating is hard enough, but what does that mean when you've been cheated on and now have "emotional baggage"? With raw honesty, we delve into the complexities of trust, self discovery and the emotional rollercoaster that follows betrayal. Whether you've been through it yourself or are looking for insight, this episode offers a heartfelt perspective on seeking love and healing after infidelity.

We're diving into the real-life tug-of-war between family traditions and the ones we're creating with our partners. Whether you're knee-deep in these choices or just curious about the ever-changing tapestry of family ties, join us for a down-to-earth chat about the beautiful, messy, and downright unpredictable nature of traditions in our lives.

We did something different this Glowing Hour! As we get into all things that make us feel warm and cozy, we decided to give you all the cozy vibes by baking on this episode. We get into all our favorite cozy related things while we make our favorite chocolate chip recipe. Enjoy all the lowkey ASMR vibes and background noise in this one!

Step into the intimate space of our hearts in this episode of We Care A Lot, where we invite you into the deeply personal realm of our experiences with grief. Brace yourself for a raw and unfiltered conversation as we try to explain the emotional rollercoasters, unexpected lessons, and moments of grace that have sculpted our understanding of loss.

We laugh a little and shed some tears. We aim to not just discuss grief but to open a safe haven for you, dear listener, to embark on your own emotional exploration. We want you to know that vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but a wellspring of immense strength. This is not just a podcast episode; it's a heart-to-heart conversation, offering of solidarity as we navigate the complex terrain of grief in our twenties.

We all know Hot Girl Summer very well but let's talk Hautumn. The ultimate balanced hot autumn full of warm foods, self care, and looking & feeling hot.

Needless to say we are going through it atm! Have all those chain mails we never sent finally catching up? Through it all we are trying to realign ourselves back to normal. Tune in for our current sob stories and how we are managing to get through them.