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Grounded and Soaring

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The stakes for a child’s education are always high, but something is different now.

We all feel it.

The world our children will inherit is filled with promise and peril. They will have unparalleled opportunities to create, to build, to fulfill their potential, and they will have to navigate just as many distractions and shifting tides.

We launched Grounded and Soaring because parents need help, and we at Marin Montessori School have years of experience that we want to share.

Grounded and Soaring explores what it means to parent and educate in today’s world.
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How to Parent for the Long Game: Author interview

Grounded and SoaringMar 09, 2023

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Navigating the AI Frontier: A Dialogue on Education

Navigating the AI Frontier: A Dialogue on Education

Explore the evolving landscape of education in the age of artificial intelligence with Sam Shapiro, Head of School at Marin Montessori, and Dr. Alex Curtis, Head of the New England Boarding School Choate Rosemary Hall.

This episode dives into the implications, challenges, and opportunities that AI, particularly ChatGPT, presents in educational settings.

Highlights include:

  • Anticipation of the upcoming Gather for Good, which will include a panel with Sam Altman of OpenAI, discussing AI’s impact on future generations.
  • Dr. Curtis's insights on integrating AI within a storied educational framework.
  • A discussion on how AI reshapes the learning experiences and academic integrity.
  • Strategies for educators and parents to harness AI while fostering critical thinking and creativity in students.
  • Reflections on the balance of embracing technology and maintaining essential human skills.
Apr 22, 202434:11
Into the Wild: Unleashing Curiosity with Adventure

Into the Wild: Unleashing Curiosity with Adventure

Into the Wild: Unleashing Curiosity with Adventure explores the transformative power of experiential learning beyond the classroom. Join Terry Dubow and Bill Sneed from Marin Montessori School as they recount a recent snow science trip to the Sierras, delving into the profound impact of real-world experiences on adolescent development. This episode offers insights into:

  • The Importance of Experiential Learning: How hands-on experiences enrich understanding and foster a deeper connection to academic subjects.
  • Challenges and Adaptability: Discover how students navigate unexpected challenges, enhancing resilience and problem-solving skills.
  • Community and Individual Growth: Learn about the role of communal experiences in shaping personal identity and strengthening social bonds.
  • The Balance of Discomfort and Growth: Insights into how stepping out of comfort zones can be a catalyst for personal development.
  • Montessori Philosophy in Action: See how Montessori principles of independence, observation, and curiosity come to life in the great outdoors.

Whether you're a parent seeking to broaden your child's horizons or simply interested in the benefits of learning outside traditional settings, this episode will inspire and inform.

Mar 26, 202425:23
From Diet to Dreams: Building Healthier Habits for Kids

From Diet to Dreams: Building Healthier Habits for Kids

"From Diet to Dreams: Building Healthier Habits for Kids" is a must-listen episode of Grounded and Soaring, the podcast that dives deep into nurturing healthier, happier kids in today's complex world.

Join Sam Shapiro, head of school at Marin Montessori, and special guest Anahad O'Connor, a Washington Post health columnist and award-winning author, as they explore the intersection of nutrition, sleep, and overall well-being for our youngest generation.

You'll discover tips for:

  • Nutritious Eating: Learn how to introduce your children to a balanced and healthy diet that sets the tone for their entire day.
  • The Science of Sleep: Uncover the critical role sleep plays in emotional regulation and how it affects parental patience and presence.
  • Practical Wellness Tips: Gain insight into achievable practices that enhance both parental and child well-being.
  • Fostering Healthy Habits: Find out how involving kids in food choices and preparation can boost their interest in nutritious eating.
  • Emotional and Physical Health Connections: Understand the link between a healthy lifestyle and improved mental and physical health for the whole family.

Whether you're navigating the challenges of picky eaters, trying to improve sleep routines, or simply looking for ways to be more present with your children, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice.

Mar 14, 202426:45
Beyond the Code: AI's Impact on Education

Beyond the Code: AI's Impact on Education

In this thought-provoking episode of Grounded and Soaring, Sam Shapiro, head of Marin Montessori School, speaks with Noah Orgish, educational technologist at Marin Academy, in a deep dive into the role of AI and technology in modern education.

They explore the impacts, challenges, and potentials of AI tools like ChatGPT in shaping learning and critical thinking skills.

From understanding AI's limitations to strategizing its effective use in classrooms, this discussion offers valuable insights for parents and educators on preparing students for a technologically advanced future.

Feb 29, 202422:12
Affluence and Anxiety: Raising Grounded Kids in a High-Pressure World

Affluence and Anxiety: Raising Grounded Kids in a High-Pressure World

In this eye-opening episode of Grounded and Soaring, Sam Shapiro, Head of Marin Montessori School, speaks with Dr. Madeline Levine, a psychologist renowned for her insights into the paradoxes of parenting in prosperity.

They delve into the unexpected emotional challenges faced by children in affluent communities, from heightened anxiety and depression to the pressures of success.

Dr. Levine, with her wealth of experience and bestselling books including The Price of Privilege, offers a crucial perspective on fostering resilience, empathy, and genuine happiness in children amidst the often-overlooked pitfalls of affluence.

This discussion is a must-hear for parents seeking to navigate the nuanced landscape of raising healthy, well-adjusted children in a world where more can mean less.

Feb 08, 202424:10
Purposeful Play: Fostering Athletic Joy

Purposeful Play: Fostering Athletic Joy

In this episode of Grounded and Soaring, join Sam Shapiro and his guests – all parents at Marin Montessori and professionals in sports and education – as they delve into cultivating a love for physical activity and sportsmanship in children.

Explore how Montessori principles can foster resilience, teamwork, and a balanced approach to athleticism.

Episode Highlights:

  1. Cultivating Joy in Sports: Discover the importance of fun and enjoyment in children's sports and how it fosters a lifelong love for physical activity.
  2. Building Resilience Through Team Sports: Learn how team sports can develop resilience, character, and meaningful friendships among young athletes.
  3. The Role of Coaches and Parents: Understand the impact of positive coaching and parental support in shaping a healthy sports culture for children.
  4. Balancing Specialization and Generalization: Insights into the debate on early sports specialization versus a more well-rounded approach to physical activities.
  5. Montessori's Unique Approach to the Spirit of the Game: Discussion on how Montessori's focus on the whole child contributes to developing respectful and supportive athletes.
  6. Physical Activity Beyond Team Sports: Emphasizing the value of diverse physical activities, from team sports to individual pursuits like biking and hiking.
Jan 25, 202426:41
Growing Slowly: The Value of Extending Childhood

Growing Slowly: The Value of Extending Childhood

In the latest episode of 'Grounded and Soaring,' host Terry Dubow invites Marin Montessori School's Eluna Antle and Carla Rummo to explore the acceleration of adolescence that we see everywhere in our culture.

Eluna, an Upper Elementary teacher, and Carla, a parent of young adolescents, describe how extending childhood with an additional year in a Montessori Elementary class nurtures resilient, curious, and emotionally intelligent young individuals.

Episode Highlights:

  • The significance of Montessori education in countering the early onset of adolescent pressures.
  • A deep dive into the sixth grade at MMS: the extra year that makes a difference in a child's life.
  • Addressing parental concerns about digital distractions and the importance of preserving childhood innocence.

This discussion is pivotal for parents and educators seeking to foster a balanced, holistic developmental journey for children in an era of accelerated adolescence.

Jan 09, 202422:13
Holiday Harmony: Expert Insights for Travel & Staycations

Holiday Harmony: Expert Insights for Travel & Staycations

Navigate school breaks with ease and creativity in our latest Grounded and Soaring episode. Whether embarking on a family trip or enjoying a staycation, Siri Panday, Marin Montessori School's Director of Education for Toddler and Primary, offers valuable tips for a rewarding time with your young children.


Episode Highlights:

  • Montessori Methods for Memorable Family Travel: Stress-free traveling tips with toddlers.
  • Staycation Success: Maximizing home-based activities during school breaks.
  • Routine & Exploration: Balancing structured routines with exciting exploration for young kids.
  • Practical Parenting Tips: Keeping mealtime and bedtime routines while encouraging creative play.

Dec 13, 202317:15
Facing the Climate Crisis: A Family's Emotional Guide

Facing the Climate Crisis: A Family's Emotional Guide

Join Sam Shapiro, head of Marin Montessori School, in a vital discussion with psychoanalyst Sally Weintrobe about how parents and children can face the climate crisis with honesty, humanity, and, ultimately, hope.

This episode delves into managing climate emotions amid the escalating climate crisis, offering insights for parents and educators. Explore practical approaches to guide children through their fears and foster meaningful conversations about our changing world.


Episode Highlights:

  • Understanding Climate Emotions: Sally Weintrobe, featured in The New Yorker, discusses the psychological impact of the climate crisis on families.
  • Navigating Parental Responses: Strategies for parents to address their own and their children's climate anxieties.
  • Fostering Open Conversations: Tips on how to talk with children about climate change in an age-appropriate and supportive way.
  • Balancing Truth and Empathy: Finding the right way to discuss the realities of climate change with kids without causing undue distress.
  • Building a Supportive Environment: Ways families and educators can create a nurturing space to explore climate-related emotions.

Tune in for this essential episode that intertwines understanding, support, and practical advice, crucial for today’s parenting challenges in the face of global environmental changes.

Nov 30, 202327:53
The Silo Breakers: A Fresh Take on Junior High Math

The Silo Breakers: A Fresh Take on Junior High Math

In this episode of "Grounded and Soaring," join Terry Dubow and Marin Montessori educators, Liesbeth Koning and Seth Kroschel, as they tackle the evolution of math education for young minds.

Discover how the Junior High's new math program steps away from traditional methods to foster a learning environment where understanding and curiosity drive student success.

Delving into the challenges and rewards of adopting new educational models, this talk is an essential listen for any parent who worries about the right balance in their child's education.

Episode Highlights:

  • Unveiling Marin Montessori’s innovative approach to Junior High math that balances fundamental skills with real-world application.
  • The impact of mixed-age classrooms and individually paced homework sets on student learning and engagement.
  • Liesbeth and Seth’s insights into the value of learning from mistakes and fostering a growth mindset in math education.
  • Discussion on low-tech teaching strategies that focus on concept mastery over digital distraction.
  • Addressing parental concerns about the efficacy of new educational models versus traditional standards.
Nov 07, 202323:41
Limits are Love: Why Boundaries Help Kids Thrive
Nov 03, 202328:10
Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids: Insights from an SEL Expert

Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids: Insights from an SEL Expert

In this episode of Grounded and Soaring, host Sam Shapiro, head of Marin Montessori School, delves into the transformative world of Social Emotional Learning (SEL) with expert guest Meena Srinivasan. Together, they unravel the significance of SEL in nurturing emotional intelligence and providing children with essential life skills beyond academics. Don’t miss out on invaluable insights and practical tips for incorporating SEL into your parenting approach.

Oct 27, 202336:20
Raising Respectful Teens in a Rude World

Raising Respectful Teens in a Rude World

In an age where adult rudeness seems to be on the rise, how do we ensure our teens don't follow the same path? Join Terry Dubow and Bill Sneed from Marin Montessori School as they delve into the challenges of raising adolescents amidst a backdrop of adult incivility. Drawing insights from a provocative Atlantic article titled "How America Got Mean," this episode touches on:

  • The societal trend of declining civility and its impact on young minds.
  • Understanding the unique challenges and misconceptions surrounding today's adolescents.
  • Practical strategies to foster empathy, respect, and open communication at home.
  • Navigating the divide between digital drama and real-world respect.

Tune in for a thoughtful exploration of modern parenting challenges and learn actionable solutions to help nurture well-rounded teens in today's complex landscape.

Oct 12, 202322:26
Navigating Dopamine Nation: Parenting in the Age of Immediate Gratification

Navigating Dopamine Nation: Parenting in the Age of Immediate Gratification

In this episode of Grounded and Soaring, we dive deep into the challenges of parenting in an age of instant gratification and digital distractions. Join Sam Shapiro, Head of School at Marin Montessori School, in a thought-provoking conversation with renowned expert Dr. Anna Lembke, a professor of psychiatry at Stanford University School of Medicine.


Key Takeaways:

• Understanding Dopamine: Learn about the role of dopamine in our brains and how it influences pleasure, reward, and motivation.

• The Pleasure-Pain Cycle: Explore the connection between dopamine spikes and the craving that follows, exemplified by binge-watching TV shows.

• Impact on Children and Families: Discover how digital devices are affecting families, from less quality time together to dysregulated behavior in kids.

• Dopamine Fast: Explore the benefits of taking a break from digital devices and how it can help regain control over your digital habits.

• Investing in Real-Life Experiences: Understand the importance of diverting creative energies from the virtual world to the real world and enriching your family's experiences.

Join us as we navigate dopamine nation and gain valuable insights on fostering healthier relationships with technology while raising resilient and balanced children.

Sep 27, 202330:56
Off To a Good Start: Montessori-Inspired Back to School Mornings
Sep 14, 202321:15
Parenting for Well-Being: Navigating Uncertainty with Dr. Denise Pope
Aug 22, 202327:58
How to Raise Thrivers: Author Interview

How to Raise Thrivers: Author Interview

As parents, we know our kids will face challenges and disappointments, but we don't always know how to prepare them to bounce back. In this episode, Michelle Borba, author of Thrivers, joins Sam Shapiro, Head of Marin Montessori School, to discuss a handful of practical tools parents can use to increase their children's resilience and confidence.

Michele Borba is an educational psychologist and best-selling author with more than 40 years of experience helping parents and their children. She’s also written UnSelfie, a study of empathy in an age of egocentric social media, and is a regular contributor to TV shows including Today, Dateline, The View, Dr. Phil, NBC Nightly News, Fox & Friends, Dr. Oz, and The Early Show.

May 16, 202321:05
Real Fear. Real Hope: A Conversation about Social Media

Real Fear. Real Hope: A Conversation about Social Media

We all know it: something is not working for the youth in our society right now. Data, scholarship, and lived experience all tell us that social media and unimpeded technology have disrupted childhood profoundly and, often, destructively. In this episode, Sam Shapiro, head of Marin Montessori School, joins to reflect a bit on the series of blog posts he penned over spring break called Real Fear, Real Hope: Social Media, Mental Health, and Our Children.

May 03, 202322:27
Tips for Healthy and Fun Family Food: Interview with Nimisha Gandhi
Apr 17, 202326:06
Want a Healthy College Kid? Start Now.

Want a Healthy College Kid? Start Now.

In this episode, Sam Shapiro, Marin Montessori's Head of School, speaks to Varun Soni, Dean of Religious Life at the University of Southern California, about the mental health crisis on college campuses and what we might do about it.

Throughout their deeply felt conversation, they try to work backward to identify the strategies parents of young children can use to increase the likelihood that their kids will enter college healthy, confident, and whole.

Mar 31, 202329:28
Why Creativity Matters: A Lesson from DrawBridge

Why Creativity Matters: A Lesson from DrawBridge

Children are creative creatures -- and not just with paints and clay but also with how they approach challenges. We know it's crucial to nurture their creative spirits, but sometimes that's easier said than done.

Enter DrawBridge, a nonprofit organization that provides free expressive arts programs to children in domestic violence and homeless shelters, affordable housing facilities, and in communities across seven San Francisco Bay Area counties. In this episode, Tracy Bays-Boothe, Executive Director of DrawBridge, shares about her organization, the power of nurturing the creative spirit, and why she's so excited that DrawBridge is this year's Community Partner for The Gather for Good, which takes place on April 15 this year.


Mar 21, 202315:01
How to Parent for the Long Game: Author interview

How to Parent for the Long Game: Author interview

We all need help committing to the long view as we parent; it’s easy to let anxiety and social comparison hijack our highest ideals and goals for our children. Enter Jessica Lahey, author of the New York Times bestselling book, The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed.  In this podcast episode, Sam Shapiro, Head of Marin Montessori School, speaks with Jessica about her top suggestions for parents for helping their kids develop robust independence, inner motivation to learn, and self-possession.

Key topics in the podcast include:

  • A helpful parenting hack in the form of a question that will guide us when we’re deciding whether to step in to take over for our child
  • The value of focusing on process over product, especially for anxious kids
  • The difference between competence and confidence
  • The counterbalance parents can provide to the more harmful messages our children receive about the source of their worth
  • The value of strengths-based parenting
Mar 09, 202320:44
Why a Low Tech School for a High Tech World: Expert Interview

Why a Low Tech School for a High Tech World: Expert Interview

We're living in the middle of the revolution that has reshaped our world. In this episode, Tom Preston-Werner, MMS parent and founder and former CEO of GitHub, joins for a wide-ranging conversation about the role technology plays in modern life, what we should do about exposing our kids to it, and how we should go about preparing them to be agile, creators, not passive consumers. Parents sometimes wonder whether they're disadvantaging future coders by sending them to a low-tech school.  Tom's answer might surprise you.

Feb 27, 202324:39
How to Build Healthy Communication Skills in the Age of the Screen

How to Build Healthy Communication Skills in the Age of the Screen

In this episode, we dive into a topic that most parents wrestle with because it’s essential and really, really hard. Communication or perhaps more accurately – healthy communication – is critical for a human being at any age to express feelings, preferences, needs and to receive those messages from others.

The question is how do we as parents help our kids build strong communication skills? – always a challenge but never more so than in today’s digital world.

Siri Panday, Director of Education for Toddler and Primary at Marin Montessori School, joins to share her insights and a few helpful tips for parents. 

Feb 13, 202322:44
Raising Healthy Boys: A Conversation with Dr. Warren Farrell

Raising Healthy Boys: A Conversation with Dr. Warren Farrell

This fall, David Brooks published an essay in The New York Times called "The Crisis of Boys and Men." Among his provocative arguments based on some pretty sobering data points: "Many men are like what Dean Acheson said about Britain after World War II. They have lost an empire but not yet found a role." 

When it comes to raising healthy boys today, parents and educators alike are called to wrestle with some troubling and uncomfortable byproducts of seismic shifts in our culture, economy, and society. The news isn't all bad, though, because parents and schools can do a lot to meet the needs of boys.  

To paint a picture of the issue and the way forward, we spoke with Dr. Warren Farrell, author of The Boy Crisis: Why our Sons are Struggling--and What We Can Do About It. It's a complex and worthy topic. As always, we'd love your feedback. Just a note that this episode addresses some adult topics, so it may be best to listen without the kids in the car. 

Jan 31, 202318:11
The Healthy Path to High School

The Healthy Path to High School

When your kids are young, high school may seem like a distant worry, but it comes faster than anyone would like. That's why it's good to have help, which is what Jamie Moffett provides students in Marin Montessori's Junior High School. Jamie joins the podcast to discuss the transition to high school and to share her experiences with MMS students who apply to and attend independent and public high schools. She also offers a bit of practical advice for what families can do to support their adolescents. 

Jan 20, 202316:15
How Work with the Hands Teaches the World (Or, “They’re making cupcakes again?")

How Work with the Hands Teaches the World (Or, “They’re making cupcakes again?")

For those who aren’t accustomed to Montessori classrooms, it might seem a bit curious that children cook, clean, sew, and more. There’s actually a lot behind all the cupcakes the students are baking. 

In this first episode of the Grounded and Soaring podcast, we take a few minutes to explore how practical life routines and activities help children build skills, confidence, understanding, and knowledge -- from complicated math to complex collaboration. 


Dec 26, 202220:59
Why Do We Need This Site? A Conversation with Head of School, Sam Shapiro
Dec 16, 202216:21