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Flowers on Fire

Flowers on Fire

By Alexa Howe

Life as a florist + other passionate things. Owner of Lilly and Iris Floral Design. @lilly.and.iris www.lillyandiris.co
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7 | How I Got Started In Flowers

Flowers on FireMar 03, 2023

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50 | Miscarriage

50 | Miscarriage

Sharing my my journey through two miscarriages and where I'm currently at in my motherhood journey. This episode has been on my heart for a while now and I finally feel ready to share it with you. Thank you for everyone who has been in my corner and for letting me share my story with you.

Apr 26, 202431:18
49 | Meditation

49 | Meditation

Hi flower lover! I'm sharing two types of meditation practices that I've been implementing and absolutely loving lately. As mentioned in the episode, below are the links I promised to the meditation playlist I've created on Spotify as well the Meditation Mama podcast that holds some beautiful guided meditations for future and present mothers.


https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7pHEGPvhjoGUhxE6uXCuIk?si=4cf7dc7f18ea4742


https://open.spotify.com/show/25GhYEVYNPHYfkdUDqMKK3?si=72cee021003c4c40

Apr 19, 202422:26
48 | The History of the Bridal Bouquet

48 | The History of the Bridal Bouquet

Let's have a quick history lesson of the bridal bouquet and understand how long this tradition has been around.

Apr 12, 202412:07
47 | Nurturing Vendor Relationships

47 | Nurturing Vendor Relationships

Diving into the importance of vendor relationships and how showing up will pay off!

Apr 11, 202417:49
46 | Braelynn Tuitupou with Belle Bodas Events
Mar 29, 202445:52
45 | Collaborations and Styled Shoots

45 | Collaborations and Styled Shoots

Collaborating can be a beautiful yet tricky thing. On today's episode, I dive into my experiences with it and why I'm really particular with who I collaborate with.

Mar 22, 202416:09
44 | The Costs Behind Your Wedding Flowers
Mar 15, 202418:54
43 | Alexandra Farms

43 | Alexandra Farms

Sharing about my trip to Alexandra Farms garden rose farm in Bogota, Columbia.

Mar 08, 202417:20
42 | Reese with Beauty By Reese
Mar 01, 202429:20
41 | PNES Update (Psychogenic Nonepileptic Seizures)
Feb 23, 202422:38
40 | Florist Pet Peeves + Ghosting

40 | Florist Pet Peeves + Ghosting

I asked my fellow florists what their floral related pet peeves were and compiled a list with their answers. Maybe hearing others' will help you deal with a pet peeve of yours. Or help shift your perspective, or help you know you are not alone.

Feb 16, 202427:21
39 | Preparing for your Wedding Flower Consultation

39 | Preparing for your Wedding Flower Consultation

Let's go through a list of details to bring to your consultation and questions to ask your florist in your consultation.

Feb 09, 202416:37
38 | Embracing Carnivorism

38 | Embracing Carnivorism

After following a strict vegetarian diet for the last 7 years, I decided to try something new and start eating animal protein. Listen in to hear about why I made the switch and how I'm feeling with the change.

Feb 02, 202414:36
37 | Sweat Lodge

37 | Sweat Lodge

At the end of 2023, I found myself sitting in a few sweat lodges. Each one, helping me to both release and surrender and empower myself as I stepped inside what felt like the fiery depths of hell.

Jan 26, 202411:52
36 | Utah Wedding Venues with Easy Vendor Load-ins from a Florist's Perspective

36 | Utah Wedding Venues with Easy Vendor Load-ins from a Florist's Perspective

We florists bring a lot of stuff with us to set up your wedding and event. I thought it would be insightful to create a list of venues with the easiest load-ins. I'm talking, we can pull the cargo van right up to the unloading doors and bring our stuff inside. If you are a venue that requires a ski lift ride up, or for us to park far, far away, you didn't make the list.

Please not that I only shared venues that I have personally worked at.

Jan 19, 202413:57
35 | 10 Biggest Lessons of 2023

35 | 10 Biggest Lessons of 2023

As I was journaling and reflecting on the past year, I compiled a list of my most valuable lessons that I learned. And now I want to share them with you! This practice has made me appreciate everything I went through in 2023 and makes me that much more excited to see what 2024 has in store for me.

Jan 12, 202416:36
34 | #moneymonday Instagram Series

34 | #moneymonday Instagram Series

Let's dive into my Instagram Stories series called #moneymonday and talk more in depth about the pricing of flowers.

Jan 05, 202414:06
33 | Saying No to Unaligned Clients

33 | Saying No to Unaligned Clients

In the episode I share a story of when I designed for a client that I probably shouldn't have. In the end she was happy but it was a rough one to get through. Listening to your intuition and repelling clients that don't align with your business goals is crucial for your growth and overall happiness as a creative.

Dec 29, 202316:21
32 | Eating at a Michelin Star Restaurant

32 | Eating at a Michelin Star Restaurant

I surprised Justin for our anniversary to eat at a very fancy restaurant while in Playa Del Carmen and the experience was absolute perfection. Now I'm wondering, how do I apply my experience at Restaurante Ha in my own business? What can I do to make my client experiences more magical?

Dec 22, 202323:10
31 | Gifts to Gift a Florist

31 | Gifts to Gift a Florist

Lost on what to gift the florist in your life? Here's a list of things I know they'd love!


Lush cuticle cream 

Pedicure/manicure

Frey or Blundstone boots 

Obenauf's leather oil + wax

Floral shears (buy the shortest blade length!)

Floral knife 

Tool belt 

Milwaukee Packout 

Sun protection - a big floppy hat for outdoor wedding work 

NOTHING EUCALYPTUS SCENTED

Epsom salt bath soaks for sore muscles

Bath bombs (Lush has the best ones!)

Massages

IV’s for busy season

Blank card set/thank you cards with postage stamps

Door Dash Gift Card 

Dec 15, 202320:23
30 | How I Almost Blew Up My House

30 | How I Almost Blew Up My House

In the process of moving my business to my unfinished basement, there was some renovating that needed to happen. Let's just say everything turned out fine but wow was I grateful to be alive afterwards.

Dec 08, 202324:25
29 | The Last Episode For Now

29 | The Last Episode For Now

Thank you all for a beautiful season of the Flowers On Fire podcast. My heart is so full and I can't wait to reconnect with you on here again someday. xo, Alexa
Aug 11, 202302:38
28 | Cassidy Harrison with Flour and Flourish

28 | Cassidy Harrison with Flour and Flourish

I sit down with sugar flower creative, Cassidy Harrison of Flour and Flourish, where we chat all about weddings cakes and what it takes to run a successful, creative business.


@flourandflourish

Jul 28, 202338:12
27 | Margie Keates with The Lovely Ave

27 | Margie Keates with The Lovely Ave

Today I sit down with one of my favorite Salt Lake City flower loves, Margie Keates. Margie creates the most beautiful paper flowers I've ever seen and dives into what it's like being a creative artist and owner of The Lovely Ave.


https://www.thelovelyave.com/

@thelovelyave


Also mentioned on today's episode, the designer behind my wedding dress: @dacigowns

To see this dress, visit the Egypt highlighted story on the @lilly.and.iris Instagram

Jul 21, 202344:11
26 | Minimums + Custom Designs

26 | Minimums + Custom Designs

Let's dive into the importance of minimums and why those one-off custom floral designs are really hard to make a profit off of.

Jul 14, 202315:48
25 | Mantras

25 | Mantras

Using little phrases throughout your day + in your meditations can shift your whole perspective + energetic field towards the life you've always dreamed of.

Jul 07, 202318:44
24 | Stephen Workman of Picklinq + Mountain Man Flowers

24 | Stephen Workman of Picklinq + Mountain Man Flowers

Meeting with a dear friend and POWERHOUSE in our local Utah flower community. Stephen shares his story + insights on starting and running two very successful business in growing and selling flowers. He's definitely someone you want to know.
@picklinq
@mountainmanflowers
Jun 23, 202324:27
23 | Gratitude Practices

23 | Gratitude Practices

Implementing a gratitude practice will CHANGE YOUR LIFE. Let's dive into some practices for your to start implementing for better health, relationships, and an overall better sense of well being.

Jun 16, 202317:41
22 | Sarah Ebert with Pressed Floral
Jun 09, 202330:09
21 | Magic Mushrooms

21 | Magic Mushrooms

Let's dive into the medicinal properties of mushrooms, how they're healing people, and the studies that are being done with them.

Jun 02, 202341:19
20 | What's in my Tool Bag?

20 | What's in my Tool Bag?

I list out the items I always have on hand when setting up weddings and events along with some other helpful pieces of advice. You can never be too prepared!

May 26, 202325:06
19 | Burnout In Business

19 | Burnout In Business

What burnout is + practices to move through it and avoid it.

May 19, 202327:48
18 | Giving Back to the Community + Donating Flowers

18 | Giving Back to the Community + Donating Flowers

Let's dive into the science and benefits of giving back to your community.

May 12, 202321:52
17 | Self Trust

17 | Self Trust

Diving into the big topic of self trust and practices we can implement in our lives to make our self bond strong.

May 05, 202336:25
16 | All About Funeral Flowers

16 | All About Funeral Flowers

What to gift, where to send, and what to culturally be aware of. Let's dive into the appropriate times and ways to gift flowers to someone in mourning.

Apr 28, 202317:49
15 | Psychogenic Nonepileptic Seizures (PNES)

15 | Psychogenic Nonepileptic Seizures (PNES)

Diving deeper into my seizure episodes from Episode 9. I share what's it like having this condition and hope to connect with others who may be going through it too.

Apr 21, 202319:45
14 | Top 5 Wedding Designs to Invest In

14 | Top 5 Wedding Designs to Invest In

Here I share some ideas on what couples should be investing in on their wedding day. Of course the list could go on and on but I believe you should invest in the designs that will be the most impactful for you and your guests to experience. Take a listen and me know what you think. You can shoot me a DM me on instagram, I'd love to hear from you! @lilly.and.iris

Apr 14, 202318:44
13 | Showing Up As My Best Self

13 | Showing Up As My Best Self

Routines and practices are SO important for showing up to business and life in a way that you've always dreamt of. On today's episode, I go over a few things that I implement into my day to day life that have made a huge impact on where I vibrate energetically and what I attract into my life and business.

Apr 07, 202327:30
12 | Bubbles & Blooms

12 | Bubbles & Blooms

Listen + learn about one of my favorite floral offerings, Bubbles & Blooms! This is a flower arranging class where we design together + sip a glass of sparkling water or champagne. No previous floral experience is required. *I share a DISCOUNT CODE in this ep!*

Mar 31, 202313:11
11 | Tips + Tricks for Wedding and Event set ups

11 | Tips + Tricks for Wedding and Event set ups

I share tips + tricks on how to be the most prepared for Wedding and Event day set ups.
Mar 24, 202321:48
10 | Q+A

10 | Q+A

My Insta fam asked and I answered.  

Mar 17, 202310:53
9 | How Psychadelics Saved My Life

9 | How Psychadelics Saved My Life

How spiritual plant medicine has made a HUGE impact on my healing journey, mental well being, perspective on who I am as a person and improve my self love. 

Mar 14, 202327:48
8 | The Cost Of Flowers

8 | The Cost Of Flowers

Let's dive into the cost of flowers & why each florist charges differently. 

Mar 10, 202316:21
7 | How I Got Started In Flowers

7 | How I Got Started In Flowers

Where I chat about my story and how flowers found me. 

Mar 03, 202320:04
6 | How To Keep Your Flowers Alive

6 | How To Keep Your Flowers Alive

Let's go over a few tips and tricks to keeping your cut flower arrangement alive for as long as possible. 

Feb 24, 202311:02
5 | Designing Aligned With Authenticity

5 | Designing Aligned With Authenticity

Living aligned with my most authentic self has made me a better designer and business owner.  Let's chat about some of the things that have helped me achieve creativity and inner peace. 

Feb 17, 202320:34
4 | Donating Flowers After Weddings + Events

4 | Donating Flowers After Weddings + Events

In our studio, we donate all the flowers from our events that are left at the end of the night to local hospitals and hospices.  Have a listen on how we achieve this, all thanks to our amazing clients! 

Feb 10, 202309:29
3 | Custom vs A La Carte Weddings

3 | Custom vs A La Carte Weddings

I offer two different wedding services out of my studio: Custom Weddings and A La Carte Weddings.  Each service has been created to cater to a specific type of couple.  Let's dive in and talk about each! 

Feb 03, 202318:44
2 | Becoming A Certified Floral Designer

2 | Becoming A Certified Floral Designer

Ever wonder how florist's got their credentials?  I'm going over how I became CFD and how other florists become AIFD through the American Institute of Floral Designers. 

Jan 27, 202313:32
1 | Where Do Flowers Come From?

1 | Where Do Flowers Come From?

Let's chat about where in the world we florists source the beautiful blooms we design with. 

Jan 27, 202316:40