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Securing Sexuality

Securing Sexuality

By Securing Sexuality

Do you know how to protect your pursuit of pleasure? Technology upended how we connect romantically and sexually. But broken apps, hacked toys, confusing privacy settings, and breaches are anything but sexy.

This podcast is here to help with tips for safer sex in a digital age.

Offering insights into intriguing and often taboo subjects are our hosts, Stefani Goerlich and Wolfgang Goerlich. They’re joined by experts on cybersecurity, cybersexuality, sextech, mental health, and more. Listen in.
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Securing SexualitySep 08, 2022

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77. The New Peeping Toms
Mar 17, 202437:24
76. The Pleasure Engineer: A Conversation with Raven Faber
Mar 10, 202454:12
75. WTF is FinDomme?

75. WTF is FinDomme?

Have you ever wanted to lounge at home while devoted minions pay your bills and send you presents? Living that fantasy might seem relaxing, but in reality? It's a whole lot of work. This week, Stefani is telling Wolf all about the world of FinDomme (or Financial Domination) a majority-female online form of power exchange. Join us as we learn about how this niche er0tic interest exploded on social media, what the appeal is for those loyal followers opening up their wallets, and best practices for staying safe.
Mar 03, 202439:45
74. This Little Piggy Went Bankrupt

74. This Little Piggy Went Bankrupt

This week, we're learning all about pig butchering! No, Stefani is not forsaking her Jewish roots to go "whole hog," but she is going to learn all about this insidious and devastating form of romance scam. Join Stef and Wolf as they chat with Sean Gallagher, Principal Threat Researcher for Sophos X-Ops. Prior to joining Sophos, he was an information security and technology journalist for over 30 years, including 10 as information security and national security editor for Ars Technica and he's here to tell us if it's possible to protect ourselves and our loved ones from online information that's not quite... kosher?

Feb 25, 202456:06
73. Air B & Busted!
Feb 19, 202438:03
72. Cyborgification and Robotic Relationships: A Conversation with Dr. Jo Ann Oravec
Feb 11, 202456:22
71. Taylor Swift and the Stepford Internet
Feb 04, 202441:04
70. Making the Scary Stuff Fun
Jan 28, 202454:52
69. I've Got A Bingo!
Jan 21, 202440:40
68. The Science of Femme Tech with Dr. Ashley Winter
Jan 07, 202443:04
67. His & Hers, Part Two: Revisiting Stefani's Favorite Episode of 2023

67. His & Hers, Part Two: Revisiting Stefani's Favorite Episode of 2023

This has been a busy year for the Securing Sexuality Home Team! Wolf and Stef talked to some incredible experts and recorded dozens of podcast episodes, Comms Director Frank and the crew helped us host our first ever live conference, and we even visited a cyber brothel! But which episodes were our favorite of 2023? In a year full of so much, what sticks out in our minds as the most impactful moments? Last week we learned who Wolf's favorite conversation was with. Tune in this week to discover why Stefani chose one of the most stressful moments of 2023 as her top-pick episode.

Dec 31, 202345:57
66. His & Hers, Part One: Revisiting Wolf's Favorite Episode of 2023

66. His & Hers, Part One: Revisiting Wolf's Favorite Episode of 2023

This has been a busy year for the Securing Sexuality Home Team! Wolf and Stef talked to some incredible experts and recorded dozens of podcast episodes, Comms Director Frank and the crew helped us host our first ever live conference, and we even visited a cyber brothel! But which episodes were our favorite of 2023? In a year full of so much, what sticks out in our minds as the most impactful moments? Tune in this week to discover Wolf's pick!

Dec 24, 202357:04
65. For Mature Audiences Only
Dec 17, 202338:50
64. Is Kinky Social Media Safe?
Dec 10, 202343:11
63. Under His Eye: Covenant Eyes and Shameware Security
Dec 03, 202349:23
62. Spending Thanksgiving in The Matrix with Tilly Bridges
Nov 26, 202335:51
61. Your Body Or Your Bank Account
Nov 19, 202335:48
60. Being the Better Man: 21st Century Masculinity with Eric FitzMedrud
Nov 12, 202344:59
59. 24 Days of Pleasure (Unwrapping the Season with Lovehoney)
Nov 05, 202350:29
58. The Modern Matchmakers: Michael Kaye, Archer, & Online Dating for GSRD Folks
Oct 29, 202343:51
57. We Got Conned! Our Conference Proves It Can Happen To Anyone
Oct 22, 202340:50
56. (Block)Chain Me Up - Maya Brooks and Privy Labs
Oct 15, 202344:12
55. Pics or It Didn't Happen: Unpacking Online Infidelity
Oct 08, 202339:50
54. Strange New Worlds: The Science of Space Sexology
Oct 01, 202349:45
53. We're Breaking Up
Sep 24, 202332:40
52. Way Cooler Than We Are - Rachel Lark
Sep 17, 202349:47
51. RevengeBabyHippos.com Doesn't Exist: DMCA Basics for Everyone
Sep 10, 202337:24
50. Screw You, Pay Me.
Sep 03, 202356:33
49. The Authenticity Patch

49. The Authenticity Patch

This August, Stefani was invited to speak at SquadCon- one of the many community events that happen in Las Vegas at Hacker Summer Camp. Join us as Wolf offers color commentary on her presentation, hear her thoughts on why developers need to be designing with mental health in mind, and learn why Stef STILL f*cking hates the Elf on the Shelf. Much like Summer Camp itself, this is not to be missed.

Aug 27, 202343:50
48. More Than Just Fans
Aug 20, 202342:02
47. The Cross-Over Episode

47. The Cross-Over Episode

Tune in for our first ever cross-over episode and listen in as our intrepid hosts join Rachel Arnold and Will McCullen for an episode of The Coffee Table Talk cybersecurity podcast. Join us for a heavily caffeinated conversation between three cybersecurity experts (and Stefani) as they explain why technologists need to be paying attention to the way people form and foster their relationships online and off.

Aug 13, 202301:10:07
46. The Pleasure Curator: Wolf and Stef Get Steamy with Melissa Saavedra
Aug 06, 202341:03
45. The Inevitable Barbie Episode
Jul 30, 202333:58
44. The Windows to the Soul: The Science of Human-Robot Interactions
Jul 23, 202343:56
43. Stefani Goes to the Cyber Brothel
Jul 16, 202344:20
42. The Internet of Dongs Project
Jul 09, 202342:38
41. What To Do When It's Scary To Do Your Job
Jul 02, 202341:35
40. Teaching Kids How To Unhush
Jun 25, 202340:50
39. The Stonewall Generation, an Interview with Jane Fleishman
Jun 18, 202343:44
38. Intimacy Justice (A Meta Conversation) with Jackie Rotman
Jun 11, 202346:37
37. Good Flirting, Bad Therapy, and ChatGPT
Jun 04, 202336:24
36. Making Love for $17 Million Dollars, A Conversation with Cindy Gallop
May 21, 202354:14
35. Sexy Spring Break! What Wolf & Stef Learned In Europe
May 14, 202351:26
34. Making An Offer Your Roomba Can't Refuse
May 07, 202347:06
33. Privacy in a Post-Roe America, Part 3
Apr 30, 202332:59
32. Street Smarts for the Information Superhighway
Apr 23, 202341:38
31. How To Date A Serial Killer- Pepper Spray, Safety Checks, and Our First Date
Apr 16, 202327:20
30. Balancing Privacy & Protection: A Chat with Dr. Caleb Jacobson
Apr 09, 202337:13
29. The Ask Us Anything Episode
Apr 02, 202356:27
28. Defining Digital Health
Mar 26, 202348:45