The Dom's Guide.

Hey Guys

Mario here

Today I talk with French Canadian expert Joe Chip about seduction in Canada, the differences between the anglosaxon countries and latin countries with dating

And some things regarding race and dating.

NOTE: there is a lot of "mental" "Mast***ation" in this episode because me and Joe love to talk about "concepts" and explore them, so if you want a more "hands on - what to do episode, this ain't the one"

Hope you wil llike it

Hey Guys

Mario here and today you are going to listen to a different episode

There are various guys on this AMA coaching call and previous podcast guests plus few guys chiming in while majority just listened.

We touch different topics such as bedroom performance, how to network and build value in every day life and in kinky life, cold approach etc

I hope you will like it

In this book I read few passages from the red quest, a twitter account that published. book in 2019 about the type of parties you only hear in the movies.

As a Dom, I've been to plenty and been invited to plenty and this book offers you a great start into this scene.

Go have a follow at this great man

https://twitter.com/TheRedQuest

In this episode me and Crisis crush down all the CLASSIC excuses that I receive and/or read on forums by guys that cannot get female attention.

Note: there will be some triggering because I also address points like race, weight and height.

Fair disclaimer: I want everyone to succeed and have the life they dream, but this happens by accepting reality and dealing with it correctly.

DISCLAIMER: This conversation is about kink and sexual activities between consenting adults.

By performing these activities, you take risks on yourself and others, be careful and safe ALL the times.

If it's not your thing, please skip the episode.

Me and Crisis talk about how to become Dominant inside the bedroom following the episode how to be more dominant outside the bedroom.

I hope you will enjoy the episode, consider subscribing.

Hey Guys

Mario Here.

And this summer I'm taking dating off (what? crazy!) but I thought few months to focus on the healthy habits that got me many wins, in the long run, would provide me with more wins.

In this episode I talk with Crisis with what I'm focusing on and what is my plan.

Diet, Exercise, Sleep, Social Network.

This is more a "What I'm doing episode" rather than a tutorial, so if you aren't interested, kindly skip it :)

Hey Guys,

Mario here and small disclaimer, in today's episode I speak with Crisis about how to become more dominant outside the bedroom... Next week we are going to talk about how to become more dominant IN the bedroom. so if you aren't into that, skip these episodes.

So today we touch few points:

- The difference between Dominance and Domineering.

- Why one is good and the other is bad.

- Why Dominance is part of every day relationships

- The pillars of Dominance and their explanations.

Hey Guys, Mario here.

In this week episode I chat with Crisis about the dating market and how it is becoming more and more competitive.

Most of guys end up on social media or forums describing their initial experiences and get pretty much nothing, or how the generic advice they took from "dating gurus" isn't working as they expected.

What is the real issue that they don't understand preventing them to get results? The market is ultra competitive, and what might have worker 1 year ago, might be not today.

We talk about how "the exploit" become the norm, where in the past "we have seen that putting a dog photo as last increased number of matches" now every guy that took 5 minutes of research has the same photos and bios like everybody else.

The barriers to entry to a market is the number of obstacles for a competitor to start competing with the established players, so if you aren't even in the competing category, the dating apps will be a massive source of headaches for you.

If you got value from this episode, consider subscribing ( i know, but it helps)

Hey Guys,

Today me and my buddy Joe talk about the female gaze versus the male gaze.

AKA why guys put photos online thinking they would work and they don't generate the results they think they would.

It's common to see guys commenting on how "you need to become big bro!" "more plates more dates bro" on self development forums don't have a clue on what the females are looking for.

We discuss also another couple of things we have seen using dating apps such as "certain" spicy photos not being displayed on the profile, dudes with terrible bios and more.

if you enjoyed the podcast, consider subscribing to not miss episodes

Most of time when it comes to dating and goal setting, guys become extremely irrational.

"I will have 2 new girlfriends by 3rd of March 2028"

What if this doesn't happen? What if something along the way changes?

Dating shouldn't be a external oriented result focus but a self improvement monitor.

Always remember "the girl is your mirror" - so if your dating life sucks, perhaps it's time to have a look under the hood.

Consider subscribing to not miss any juicy episode

In today's episode me and Crisis talk about my top 5 cities to do a trip in Europe.

There are few considerations on why I picked up these cities and why it's not called "top 5 cities for daygame manically"

1) Activities to do and BATNAS "best alternative to no awesome sets" (meaning if you go to a city in the wrong week end, you done man, where else I can go?)

2) Time of the year april/may begin of june: some cities really changed entirely when holidays, summer breaks, erasmus period finishes.

3) Not just Prague/Warsaw but the idea is to explore around, have fun seeing some stuff not just the main shopping street all day long for a week BUT the city must have some romantic/seduction possibility too.

I hope you will enjoy!

Me and Crisis talk about my experience in Athens:

Why I think it's great for cold approach

My philosophy on what I go to place rather than "well known cities" *cough* Warsaw *cough*

Where to go in Athens

Why I think most of day time cold approach lead to nowhere when you are past approach anxiety

I hope you will enjoy this episode

In today's episode we have absolute degeneracy and filth together with Jack Napier

We talk about bdsm and Berlin, some thoughts on the manosphere and the red pill, how porn is affecting guys and girls in the bedroom and much more.

This one is not for the easily offended and/or prude so you have been warned

In this chat I sit down with Daygame coach Thomas Crown and we speak about

His beginnings in the dating market

lessons he learned as a Coach

How coaching influenced his life

How to become better at game and faster

and many more

If you enjoyed, consider subscribing

In today's episode of the podcast bros, Crisis and I talk about male archetypes

What is an archetype? How to achieve one?

Difference between physical and psychological archetypes

Why having a "look" is important?

Which are the attractive archetypes and which are the not so attractive ones.

Did you enjoy the episode? let me know here https://twitter.com/MarioTheDom

Part two of the chat with Mark Zolo.

This part is about game and how do I run it.

Why I'm very direct in my style of seduction .

And other seduction related things.

hope you will enjoy!

In this first episode of the "Podcast Bros" me and Chrisis Overcomer talk about dating as Chrisis recently went on a date and I coached 8 guys in a bootcamp in Poland.

We talk about mainly as to step up your game and become a better man plus few other details such as:

Become more comfortable in your skin 

Chronic nice guys are the guys that have most difficulty in becoming more dominant

And how it fix it

Why having a “game plan” is fundamental 

Why there isn’t approach anxiety and how to deal with fear of rejection 

Why what do you think about others are just projections and they don’t really matter 

My two go to suggestions to become an approach machine

This sales technique that will makes your dating life easier

Touching people In The street what guys should master first in their body language

Hey Guys

Mario here.

Today we have juicy part one of two interview with Mark Zolo, formerly known as Naughty Nomad.

We cover these topics:

Mark and his story about how he met his wife.

How to set up your marriage life so It doesn’t suck the life out of you.

How robots and virtual reality will become girlfriends to most of guys

Mark longest record on not watching porn 

The illusion of RedPill and “conservative guys” with the west

Redpill and the “red pill rage”

Why geomaxxing isn’t the solution to everything

Short guys can get laid with models

Why aren’t you getting laid at home?

Americans are obsessed with Dark Triad traits vs The Italian latin lover 

The best compliment you can give to a woman

Stay tuned for part two where Mark interviews me about dating and stopping girls in the streets

Today we hear from my good friend Mr Majestic:

Grown up in India with a passion for fitness, he transformed his life, moved abroad, started a business and picking up girls in the Middle-East.

We are going to hear about his story, how he became good at picking up girls and his current whereabouts in motherland Russia.

In today's episode I talk about Thailand and with Mr. Luigi about his adventures in this magical land

If you're a man looking to explore Thailand, there are plenty of amazing destinations to check out. Whether you're seeking adventure, relaxation, or a bit of both, this country has something for every type of traveler.

One of the most popular destinations in Thailand is Bangkok, the bustling capital city. Here, you'll find an endless array of street food, nightlife, and cultural experiences to enjoy. Some must-see attractions include the Grand Palace, Wat Phra Kaew (Temple of the Emerald Buddha), and the floating markets.

For a more laid-back atmosphere, head to the southern island of Phuket. This stunning island boasts crystal-clear waters, white-sand beaches, and plenty of opportunities for water activities like snorkeling and surfing. Be sure to check out the Phi Phi Islands while you're there.

If you're looking for an adrenaline rush, head up north to Chiang Mai. This city is known for its outdoor adventures like zip-lining, white-water rafting, and elephant trekking. You can also explore ancient temples, night markets, and traditional Thai culture.

No trip to Thailand is complete without a visit to the northern city of Chiang Rai. Here, you can see the famous White Temple (Wat Rong Khun) and the stunning Black House (Baan Dam Museum). You can also explore the lush forests and trek to hill-tribe villages for a unique cultural experience.

No matter where you choose to go in Thailand, you're sure to have an unforgettable experience filled with adventure, culture, and natural beauty. So pack your bags, grab your passport, and get ready to explore this incredible country.

Mental toughness

WHY IS IMPORTANT?

Life will give you plenty of sh*t sandwiches and you will need to be tough to face challenges and “NO” periods.

A life dedicated to growth isn’t an easy one, if you are taking the shortcut and the easy road, you will have very little success to show for.

Learning how to deal with challenges and become better at dealing with them will give your more chances to succeed in the long run.

More famous cases are Thomas Edison and his colleagues tested thousands of materials before creating the carbon-filament lightbulb; J. K. Rowling received twelve rejections before the first Harry Potter book was published

Mental toughness will not make you quit when things become hard

What it is?

Mental toughness is a personality trait and is the capability to do your best while in the face of stress and obstacles.

Mental toughness relies on your ability to manage negative emotions like anger, fear, and sadness so they don’t control and lead you away from your results

Mental toughness isn’t something you’re born with, but a state of mind you can cultivate with patience, passion, and hard work.

To be mentally tough, you have to demonstrate courage in the face of adversity even when the outlook is poor.

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The 4Cs model of mental toughness was initially proposed by Peter Clough et al (2002)

The mental toughness model comprises four components, the 4C’s:

Control: believe we can make a difference, focus on what you can control

Commitment, (take time and promise you will stick to it, discipline, doing thing when you don’t feel them)

Challenge (enter flow, growth mindset)

and Confidence (believe you can)

How to develop it?

Accepting reality and charging head on

Accept reality and not sugar coating – I might not getting results but if I keep doing the right thing, things might change, even if it’s going to take time.

Observe and adjust your patterns of thinking. 

Are you thinking too many negative thoughts, such as I can't do this? Are you thinking unrealistic thoughts, such as the current situations in society have no impact on me.? Think in a way that is both positive and realistic. If you notice your thought pattern is not balanced(i.e. too many negative or too many positive thoughts), work to adjust it through positive and realistic self-talk.

Have a positive yet realistic mindset. This mindset enables mentally tough people to function at their highest level. It’s rooted in the fact that they accept that: a) the world is unpredictable, b) obstacles, setbacks, and change are a natural part of life, and c) the way to make progress is by confronting these realities head on.

Deal with failure correctly:

Be resilient in the face of setbacks and failure. Mentally tough people recognize that disappointment, mistakes, and failure are natural parts of life, seeing them as opportunities to learn and grow. When you stop seeing failure as a reflection of your adequacy or worth, that’s when you perform better. Failure as an inevitable part of life and valuable feedback that you can learn from

When you make a mistake or fail, immediately acknowledge and dispute any negative thoughts that arise by telling yourself that this is a chance to learn and become better.

How to deal with failure:

First, apply the 10/10/10 test: Ask yourself whether the failure will matter 10 weeks, 10 months, or 10 years from now.

 This will give you a sense of perspective, so the offending event doesn’t consume you.

Have a support network

resist the urge to hole up and isolate yourself after the failure or setback. Instead, reach out to a friend who you know will make you feel better by distracting you or making you laugh.)

In this episode I sit down and answer few questions that I got from the various forums (Not the NSFW ones!) that I hang out while online.

There isn't much "seduction" and "pick up" thank god because it's kinda boring to answer always the same time the same question that have been answered already 20 years ago

I hope you will enjoy!

Today I sit down with the daygame coach Pablito

Pablito is a fantastic case for me because in his mid forties, he decide it was time to get up and doing the work.

We talk about his success, the ups and downs, lessons learned and what you can do to get more success

Hope you will enjoy!

Probably the only place in Europe that has 20+ degress from november to march, The Canary Islands, Spain

How to reach the Canary Islands? : cheap airlines from all over Europe main cities, especially from Madrid, London – plenty of flying options and if you want to do van life, ferries from south of Spain.

Where to go, let's start with the island I recommend the less

Lanzarote

Do you like small places filled with Italian and Spanish men that love biking? Then Lanzarote it’s the place for you.

Reality is there are few spots on the island and none of them have great volume. Although From Arrecife to Famara or Playa Blanca is only 30 minutes.

If you are into nature, biking and surfing, cool,But I think still think Tenerife and GC are better and offer overall better accomodations

Fuerte Ventura

Lanzarote volume is pretty much all about Corralejo,in the north, where on week ends locals come to party as in the local municipality, puerto del rosario, there is pretty much nothing, actually the city itself has a bit rundown vibe.

You will have germans and italians visitors – I spent some time in the south in Morra Jable, (almost 2 hours driving to the south) and while I think the place is beautiful, it makes sense to visit only for tourism purposes

Now let’s go to the two best options:

Tenerife – south best weather but a lot of british tourists, night game in las Veronicas if you are brave enough or Friday/Saturday locals also go to Papagayo and Casablanca

People come here for surfing, train at beach volley or visiting natural attractions so daygame will be a little bit hard.

Not much volume and quality in the app in the south, bumble is pretty much dead better chance in santa cruz, but climate is different.

Also consider that Santa Cruz carnival draws a lot of attention and people so it might be worth checking it out and staying there while investing one hour of your time to visit the south.

The University is in a village called La laguna and it’s quite distant from everything and it’s frankly a cold weather (in tenerife there are over 20 micro climates, so in 1 hour you could pass from summer to winter temperatures back and forth)

Mainly british tourists and italians in Las Americas – Los Cristianos and a lot of old people in pension.

There aren’t many solo girls travelling so you need to have your two set game on point and you need to be opportunistic.

El Medano is the paradise for wind sports lovers such as kite surf

Here you have a small village with relative low volume, although being small and attractive to sportive people, makes so that it attracts a more stable digital nomad community – it reminded me of Tarifa in Spain.

Gran Canaria –

Same as Tenerife, the south has better climate while the north has more volume, although here the city is more compact and less spread out. Although the airbnb’s will be generally more expensive than Tenerife.

The main beach and University are near the city so Gran Canaria, overall, gives you the biggest volume and logistics.

The south is Mas Palomas and here you have all nationalities, I saw in my experience that overall there is more young people.

other islands have zero volume, don’t even bother.

I sit down for a chat with Ravi, the Iron Will coach, to discuss about dominance and where Men are headed.

I'm sorry for the audio quality as I was abroad with with gym earbuds.

Let's go!

Hey Guys, Mario Tubone here

I want to talk to you today about a topic that I know is on the minds of many guys out there: height and dating. Specifically, the question of whether guys below 6 feet can get the ladies.

I know this is something that a lot of guys worry about, because there's this idea out there that women only want tall guys. And I won't lie, being short can be tough sometimes. But I'm here to tell you that your height is only a small part of your overall sexual market value.

I've seen plenty of short guys who are successful with women. It's not just about how tall you are - it's about your confidence, your mindset, and how you present yourself your looks) and your money, status and Game.

One of the biggest issues that a lot of short guys face is negative beliefs about themselves. They think that women won't find them attractive, or that people won't respect them. But these beliefs are limiting your success not just in dating, but in other areas of your life as well. If you believe that people won't respect you, then you won't have the confidence to take risks and pursue your goals.

Another issue that comes up a lot is victim mentality. Some guys think that because they're short, they don't have any options. They believe that height is the only factor in their sexual market value, and so they don't bother trying to improve in other areas. But this is a defeatist attitude that will only hold you back.

I've known guys who are shorter than average but are incredibly successful with women because they've focused on what they can control. They work on their confidence, their social skills, and their overall presentation. They take every opportunity to meet new people and explore new places. And you know what? It works.

At the end of the day, your height is just one component of your overall sexual market value. Yes, it matters to some women, but it doesn't matter to all of them. And it's certainly not the only thing that matters.

So if you're a guy who's feeling down about your height, I want you to remember this: you control your own life. You can choose to focus on your limitations, or you can choose to focus on what you can do to improve yourself. The choice is yours.

Thanks for reading, and I'll see you in the next post!

Hey there, it's Mario Tubone, and in this episode of my podcast, I had the pleasure of interviewing Mr. Viking, my Nordic guest.

We discussed his experience in Colombia, a country that has become a popular destination for tourists and pickup artists alike. Mr. Viking recommended visiting Bogota, the capital city, for a short period to get a feel for the country, but suggested staying in other areas that are more laid back and warmer. He also shared his recommendations for safe areas to stay in Bogota, such as Chapinero and Park 93, which have high quality of life and are close to malls, bars, clubs, and the best restaurants. For those interested in day game, Mr. Viking suggested the area around Andino Mall, while night game is recommended in Zona Rosa. We also touched on safety concerns in Colombia