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Kingdom Sexuality

By Kingdom Sexuality

Join Alana, Kyle, and Tiera as they journey into the mission of uncovering God's truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They're going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex, and how couples years into their marriages can find wholesome ways to spice things up.
From interviews, to "sex-timonies", and everything in-between- this is the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
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98: Emotional & Sexual Intimacy with One Extraordinary Marriage

Kingdom SexualityOct 03, 2022

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176: PATRON'S CHOICE! Modesty After Marriage?
Mar 25, 202419:47
175: How To Have The Sex You Want
Mar 18, 202417:08
174: Types Of Sex

174: Types Of Sex

Ever wondered what types of sex are out there? Slow sex, quickies, passionate sex, and more- the KS team chats through what each kind is and how to initiate that type of sex! Links from today’s episode: Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Rundown Scheduled vs Spontaneous Sex episode Intimacy Without Intercourse Foreplay Episode Awaken Love bookJoin Unite & Ignite ⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!


Mar 11, 202422:40
173: Unscripted Q&A! Swallowing, Positions, Increasing Desire, & more!
Mar 04, 202422:56
172: PATRON'S CHOICE! Pubic hair: What To Do Down There?
Feb 26, 202426:45
171: How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex with Birds & Bees
Feb 19, 202453:00
170: Have A Red Hot Valentine's Day
Feb 12, 202415:41
169: Little Things That Are Big Things
Feb 05, 202428:02
168: PATRON'S CHOICE! Period Sex

168: PATRON'S CHOICE! Period Sex

Shout out to our Patreon's for choosing this weeks episode!

Join the KS team as they tackle a big topic: period sex. Do you have questions around the topic of sex while the woman is on her menstrual cycle? The team answers questions like: doesn't the Bible say period sex is bad? How do you keep things less messy? Are there risks to it?


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Jan 29, 202419:19
167: Birth Control Chat with Tiera!
Jan 22, 202454:47
166: Initiating 101
Jan 15, 202430:19
165: Finding Pleasure In Our Sexuality with Francie Winslow
Jan 08, 202450:36
164: Communication Reset!
Jan 01, 202438:46
163: Giving & Receiving
Dec 25, 202331:23
162: Meet Me Under The Mistletoe
Dec 18, 202344:39
161: Have A Holly Jolly Sexmas
Dec 11, 202319:58
160: PATRON'S CHOICE! Christmas Love Language Gift Guide
Dec 07, 202338:55
159: Let's Talk FOREPLAY

159: Let's Talk FOREPLAY

Want to join Unite & Ignite?⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠The month of December is all about Sexual Intimacy! Don't wait!!


Not sure what to do when it comes to foreplay? Wondering questions like: "What can/can't we do?" or "How long should we do foreplay for?" and "What do our spouses even want us to do??" Tune in and the KS team will answer those questions for you!


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Nov 27, 202337:29
158: Kinks, Masturbation, Squirting, and more! Spicy Unscripted Q&A
Nov 25, 202336:11
157: What If I Don't Feel Attractive?
Nov 13, 202333:12
156: Duty Sex vs Loving Sex with Ruth Buezis
Nov 06, 202338:37
155: PATRON'S CHOICE! Lingerie & Boudoir Photography

155: PATRON'S CHOICE! Lingerie & Boudoir Photography

Special thanks to today's podcast sponsor: ⁠Mentionables! Use the code KINGDOM20 to get 20% off!!⁠ Have questions around the topic of lingerie and boudoir photography? Prepare to have them answered in this hilarious and casual chat with Alana, Kyle, and Tiera!

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⁠Just Between Us app⁠

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Nov 05, 202352:59
154: Is Prayer More Intimate Than Sex? with Aaron and Jennifer Smith

154: Is Prayer More Intimate Than Sex? with Aaron and Jennifer Smith

Keeping in with the Spiritual Intimacy theme, Alana had the pleasure of interviewing Aaron and Jennifer Smith! Authors of The Marriage Gift, Aaron and Jennifer chat about their journey of spiritual intimacy and prayer and how intimate but necessary it is.

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Oct 25, 202343:58
153: The Power of a Praying Couple
Oct 16, 202329:17
152: The Practical Side of Spiritual Intimacy
Oct 09, 202336:53
151: Spiritual Intimacy? What Even Is That??
Oct 02, 202332:31
150: PATRON'S CHOICE: Intimacy Through Grief
Sep 25, 202334:46
149: Ask Us Anything: Candid Sex Q&A
Sep 18, 202325:39
148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys

148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys

Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!


Been itching to hear more of our thoughts on the topic of sex toys?? Then this is the episode for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the topic more in depth and build off of last weeks episode.


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Sep 11, 202336:17
147: DOs and DON'Ts of Sex Toys

147: DOs and DON'Ts of Sex Toys

Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!


The KS Team is going through the Do's and Don'ts of Sex Toys in this part 1 of the 2 part series! The goal of this series is not to persuade you to use toys, or shame you out of using them, but rather to educate on both sides!


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Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!


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Sep 04, 202322:13
146: PATRONS CHOICE! Flirting?? But we're married!
Aug 29, 202323:25
145: A Gym Membership for Your Marriage!
Aug 21, 202325:23
144: Your Assumptions About Us!
Aug 14, 202301:11:59
143: Painful Sex? Vaginismus? Interview with Jessica Seitz
Aug 07, 202337:33
142: PATRON'S CHOICE! Let's Talk About Sexting, Baby!

142: PATRON'S CHOICE! Let's Talk About Sexting, Baby!

Shout out to our incredible Patrons who picked this weeks topic!! If you're interested in becoming a patron or learning more about Patreon go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality!


Ever wondered how to go about sending spicy text messages to your spouse?? Curious what to say, or if there's a secure place to even do that? Tune into the episode to find out!!


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Intimately Us App

Spice It Up FREEBIE!

Opposites: Location


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Jul 31, 202341:31
141: PATRON'S CHOICE! Talk Dirty To Me

141: PATRON'S CHOICE! Talk Dirty To Me

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month!


As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedroom, you're going to want to tune into this episode!


Shout out to our incredible Patron's who chose this weeks episode topic!


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Jul 24, 202333:46
140: Keeping Score

140: Keeping Score

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month!


We all seem to do it sometimes... so let's talk about keeping score. Is there any benefit to this in a marriage? Is it a useful tool? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat all about it- tune in now!


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Jul 17, 202332:19
139: Spontaneous Sex VS Scheduled Sex
Jul 10, 202342:34
138: The Female Cycle & Pleasure
Jul 03, 202332:13
137: God, Sex, & Your Marriage with Dr. Juli Slattery

137: God, Sex, & Your Marriage with Dr. Juli Slattery

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month!

You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn't the same as being "sexually intimate." Juli explains how, to build intimacy, couples can talk openly and seek help if needed. And how, in a Christian marriage, it's about finding a balance of passion and pleasure, not just ticking off "marital duty" boxes. God cares about our sexual growth and maturity, focusing on respect, understanding, and having fun along the way! You won't want to miss this one!


If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook GroupThey're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!


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Juli Slattery's website: authenticintimacy.com

God Sex and Your Marriage book

Java with Juli Podcast

Jun 26, 202337:14
136: Creating a Radical Relationship with Kim and Darlene Unrau
Jun 19, 202301:01:27
135: A Clinical Psychologist Answers YOUR Questions! with Dr. Josh Kruse

135: A Clinical Psychologist Answers YOUR Questions! with Dr. Josh Kruse

Looking for a safe place to purchase bedroom toys? Married Dance is a Christian, discreet, nudity-free, marriage-focused adult toy store that might have just what you're looking for! Use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! In this Dr. Josh Kruse, a Registered Psychologist at Dr. Josh Kruse & Associates Counselling & Consulting, and Pastor at Village Church (@thisisvillagechurch) in Surrey, Canada, answers all of these questions and more! Kyle and Alana bring the questions that YOU asked over on Instagram. Dr. Josh is a wealth of knowledge, you're not going to want to miss this one!! - What is counseling actually like? (5:30) - When to go to counseling? (8:00) - What if one spouse wants to go and the other refuses? (9:20) - What should/does premarital counseling look like? (14:00) - How to set up the wedding night for sexual success? (17:40) - What to do when one of the couple has previous sexual experience and the other doesn’t? How much to disclose to your spouse about your sexual past? (20:40) - If my marriage is in a good place, what purpose does it serve to see a counselor? (24:55) - How to rebuild connection when I feel like it’s gone? (28:40) - How to manage emotions and stay present during conflict/tough conversations? (31:15) - How to be a supportive wife when I feel like his work and projects take up all his time? (35:55) - How to get over resentment towards my spouse from unmet expectations? (38:35) - What to do when you feel like you can’t bounce back after an argument? Or when neither person will back down and it’s a stalemate? (40:45) - How to maintain the marriage when your spouse is battling depression? (45:00) - How to feel loved when my spouse won’t love me by my love language? (47:35) - What is the biggest difference you see between couples that are doing great vs those that are struggling? (51:15) - How to handle when one spouse wants something but the other doesn’t? (54:00) - How to manage when one spouse has a much higher sex drive than the other? Or when it seems like one spouse is apathetic towards sex? (58:55) - How can women turn their mind off and just enjoy sex? (1:02:25) - How to talk about past sexual trauma with my spouse? (1:06:25) Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Links from today’s episode: Dr. Josh Kruse: Website Instagram Podcast


Jun 12, 202301:13:08
134: Can You Affair-Proof Your Marriage? with Unrelenting Pursuit

134: Can You Affair-Proof Your Marriage? with Unrelenting Pursuit

Jun 05, 202350:54
133: PATRON'S CHOICE: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids

133: PATRON'S CHOICE: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids

Shout out to our lovely patrons who decided on this week's podcast episode topic! Want to know more about Patreon? Check it out here!

In this episode, Alana, Tiera, and Kyle explore ways to maintain intimacy when you have young kids. From feeling "touched out" to co-sleeping dilemmas, they've got you covered. Discover whether it's acceptable to have a romantic encounter while the little ones are in the room and learn how to spark desire even when you're utterly exhausted. They also tackle the awkward scenario of kids walking in at the wrong moment and how much PDA is acceptable around your kids! With practical advice like scheduling date nights, flirty texts, shared hobbies, and creative use of spaces, you'll find plenty of inspiration to keep the romance alive amidst the chaos of parenting.


If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook GroupThey're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!


Links from today's episode:

Birds & Bee's (use the code KINGDOM for 20% off the course!)

May 29, 202335:37
132: Honeymoon Hangover- Family + Finances

132: Honeymoon Hangover- Family + Finances

Join the KS Team as they explore the challenges faced by newlywed couples in navigating changing family dynamics and dealing with finances in this new season. They discuss the concept of "leaving and cleaving," highlighting three important aspects: financial leaving, emotional leaving, and spiritual leaving. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle also emphasize the importance of open communication and setting boundaries with families, while maintaining empathy and understanding. Additionally, the Team provide insights into managing finances as a married couple, including tithing, joint bank accounts, bill payments, regular financial check-ins, and aligning spending priorities. Overall, this episode aims to equip newlyweds with practical tools to navigate the complexities of family dynamics and financial management in their marriage journey.

If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at
kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!

Links from today's episode:
Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book
Love Your First Year (use code KINGDOM15 for a discount!)
Faithful Counseling
May 22, 202335:37
131: Advice We Wish We'd Gotten During Engagement
May 15, 202331:32
130: Sexuality & Singleness?? with Kait and JJ Tomlin
May 08, 202345:32
129: Orgasm Q&A!

129: Orgasm Q&A!

Listened to our other orgasm series episodes but still had questions? Alana, Kyle, and Tiera go through questions that you guys, those who did the Orgasm Survey, asked! They answer questions like: How do I tell my husband when I didn't have an orgasm? What's the best way to learn to orgasm the same time as my wife? Why do some orgasms feel better than others? Can some only orgasm with a vibrator?


If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook GroupThey're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!


Links from today's episode:

Faithful Counseling

She Comes First

Cunnilingus Episode

The Penis Book


May 01, 202331:02
128: Orgasms: Multiple Orgasms

128: Orgasms: Multiple Orgasms

Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!

If you're looking for a sure fire way to have multiple orgasms every time you're intimate with your spouse... the KS Team is sorry to disappoint. In this episode, Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about the mythical creature of multiple orgasms and whether it's really possible to achieve. They reveal the results of a survey they conducted and they also talk about the role of cervical position and cycle in women's ability to have multiple orgasms, and the different types of multiple orgasms in men. The KS Team also give some tips for trying to achieve multiple orgasms, such as trying different types of stimulation and not pushing yourself too hard. So, if you're curious about the elusive multiple orgasm, give this podcast episode a listen!


If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook GroupThey're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!


Links from today’s episode:

TempDrop use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!

Penis Book

Married Dance use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!

Kyle’s articles:

-https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/

-https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.09.010

-https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2020.1743224

-https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sxmr.2015.12.004

-https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.06.017

Apr 24, 202337:26
127: Orgasms: Toys, Technique, & Troubleshooting

127: Orgasms: Toys, Technique, & Troubleshooting

Have you listened to part one of the Orgasm Series yet?? If not, the team highly recommends you check it out before listening to this one! In this episode Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about many of things they skipped over in the first episode. Things like, practically, what are the first steps when it comes to having an orgasm? Does using toys have an impact on my ability to orgasm with my spouse? And they also go through what YOU, those who did the orgasm survey, found helpful when it came to finally achieving an orgasm!


If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook GroupThey're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!


Links from today's episode:

Married Dance (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)

Thoughts During Sex episode

Anatomy episode

Come As You Are

Awaken Love

Kyle's Sextimony

Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for 30 days free!)


*again, Alana's audio isn't the best! sorry about that!!*

Apr 17, 202301:11:16