The Valley of Grace Podcast

We often think that we are suffering for the cause of Christ when we keep ourselves so busy that we either don't have time to understand our needs, and or we're so caught up micromanaging and judging other people's lives that we miss the mark in our own. Listen in to this bible talk. Blessings! #love #freedom #relationship

Everything that glitters isn't gold. When people say that they love you so deep, but their fruit is not one that you'll keep, you have to be careful. There are some brown spots worth inspecting. #love #freedom #relationship

We've all been to the produce department. There lies fruit of every color, shape, and size. Those fruit represent the behaviors that manifest themselves in our relationships. Will the core be rotten? Will the outside look appealing? Will you have to keep cutting away to get to the good part? Only you can answer those questions and more. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

At first, you thought it was just you. Maybe you were overthinking what was said and done. Then, you realized you were betrayed by an alleged friend who turned out to be a narcissist. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

It's hard to enforce the concept of boundaries when you face losing the people, places, things, and ideas you love. It's even harder to remain without them. Boundaries teach us a lot. The lesson starts with ourselves. Listen in. #freedom #love #relationship The Valley of Grace Song is licensed for permission to be used by Katina Horton-Valley of Grace Ministries by the composer and performing artist Timothy Horton THGR8.

We hear the term control freak all the time. What we don't hear about is the bondage that this spirit/addiction brings you. It interrupts the natural order of how you relate to yourself, others, and God by keeping you in a constant state of rules, bondage, reinforcement, and micromanagement. #control #controlfreak #addiction

We all have issues with power management. However, intense lack of power management leads to intense lack of control management. When we lust for control, insecurity sets in, and then we're headed for the spirit of individual, collective, and or cultural narcissism. #love #freedom #relationships

When we look at certain individuals, they seem like they have it all together. Even more so, when we look at ourselves, we think the same. What if that's not the case? What if you are walking around with so many coping mechanisms, dysfunctional patterns of behavior, and addictions that you're covering up the key to your needs, self-discovery, self-concept, and self-awareness? The end result of this will shock you. You become the toxic one. Listen in to this podcast episode and be blessed! Love you family!!!

When people have information on us, they use that information as bait to trap us. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when position, role, and authority is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship

When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when food is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship

It's easy to spot abuse from an overt person. But how do you recognize the more covert, subtle forms of abuse that we often experience. You often shrug it off as a trigger. Nine times out of ten, it's not. Don't ignore your intuition. #love #freedom #relationships

You wouldn't want to overdose on medication. But for some reason, you think it's okay to overdose on people who are not good for your mind, body, soul, and spirit. #freedom #love #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When someone else doubts you, it's one thing. When they can get you to doubt yourself, abilities, and every other person, place, thing, or idea tied to you, that's another. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

It’s amazing what happens once the seed of deception sets in. What’s even more mind-blowing is when we are vulnerable, we end up disobeying God, calling it sacrifice, and opening ourselves up to other spirits running 🏃🏿‍♀️ amok. Listen 🎧 in !!! #katinahorton #propheticword #toxicrelationships

Devaluation is a corrupter. Real fast and in a hurry. They devalue you. You devalue yourself. It's a toxic dance cycle that never wants to end. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Some relationships we're in are just toxic. There's no other way to look at them. But we stay in them. Why? Let's dissect this.

Transitions are a part of life. Transitions are also major parts of a transitionally-supplied soul-tied toxic relationship with a narcissist. #love #relationships #freedom #transitions

When physical bombs are dropped, there are no warnings. The same thing exists when the narcissist drops the bomb on you. #bomb #lovebomb #narcissism #narcissist #relationships #love #freedom

We armor up for arguments and everything else. Why don't we armor up for battle when it comes to dealing with narcissistic people? #love #freedom #relationships

Love has been translated all kinds of ways-lust, love bombing, soul cravings, infatuation, flattery, etc. The way we define love is the way that we give and receive love. And the way that we give and receive love is the way that we live love. #story #narcissist #healing

When you're walking around in a heart-sicken state, feeling needy, and languishing, you will do anything, including agreeing to open relationships with the #narcissist . But how do you get out of the vicious cycle? Listen in. #healing

IT'S ALWAYS EASIER TO OWN SOMEBODY ELSE'S STORY. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT APPEARS MORE BROKEN OR GLAMOROUS TO US. BUT IS THAT MORE OF WANTING COMFORT OR TRUTH.

Good character takes a while to develop. Yet, if not careful, it can be lost almost overnight when it comes to hanging out with certain people. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When you think of the word detox, an immediate physical cleansing comes to mind. And this is partially true of our discussion today. There is a cleansing taking place. However, This one deals with the cleansing of the soul after being in a toxic relationship. Thinking 🤔 that you can just move on after having a soul tie is so far from the reality of the situation. But then again, if our brains 🧠 had to pick between pain or pleasure, it would pick pleasure, Comfort, and complacency every time. #toxicrelationships #Katinahorton #soulties

Decisions that we make, the thoughts 💭 that we think 🤔, and the manner in which we live our lives are based on biases, privilege, our understanding of the concept of love, and toxic thinking. Listen 🎧 in. #Toxicrelationships #Katinahorton #toxicthinking #openyoureyes

What do you do with something you value? Everything that we value we must first identify. Whether it is a person, place, thing, or idea, it must be identified first. Once you know the identity, then you get to decide how much value needs to be placed on it. Listen 🎧 in to find out how your identity and worth plays a role in your likelihood to end up in a relationship with someone with narcissistic brokenness. #Toxicrelationships #Katinahorton #youareenough

Absalom’s story is one that any one of us could fall into if we’re not careful. His story is not far fetched. It demonstrates what happens when sin, pride, power, and avoiding conflict goes unchecked. It also reveals how people of power rarely do the dirty work on their own. Why not? Their flying monkeys do it for them. Listen in as we deep dive into a story that will change how you see your inner circle and relationships in general. Be blessed. #katinahorton #toxicrelationships #absalomspirit

When people know what we like, when we like it, how we like it, and why we like it, we'd better be careful. What that means is that all they have to do is to say the right thing, and we become silly putty in their hands. #love #freedom #relationship #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

We often overestimate our willpower and underestimate the necessity of dealing with the nutritional deficiencies in your family’s love story garden. This underestimation, overestimation, and lack leads to a place of hunger and poor decisions. Listen 🎧 in. #narcabuse #narc #narcabuseawarene #healingjourney #theblessing #lust #narcissist #story #birthright

We all need a day off from our responsibilities when things get rough. But what happens when a day off turns into several years? Even so, how does procrastination, avoidance, and self-sabotage relate to lying prophets, false intentions, and disguises? Listen in to find out. #narcissist #story #healing The Valley of Grace Song is licensed by Katina Horton-Valley of Grace Ministries, and performing artist, composer, producer, Timothy Horton GR8.

A vacuum cleaner sucks in excess, dirt, particles, etc. You are not dirt or a particle. So, the question that remains is, "How did you manage to get sucked back in by the #narcissist ? The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When all a person knows how to do is play games with people, that's all you can expect. Just hope and pray you don't give them the bait. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough. Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world. We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries. Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks. Author Bible Teacher Brand, Business, & Marketing Strategist Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Speaker Podcast Host Course Creator Dance Minister E-commerce Store Owner Coaching Options: OPTION 1: 1:1 Freedomology's R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program OPTION 2: 1:1 Freedomology's R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program OPTION 3: Spotify Patreon Member: 4.5 year Monthly Coaching Program through Audio Episodes OPTION 4: GROUP Freedomology's R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program OPTION 5: GROUP Freedomology's R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program Leave Egypt Today! Book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Call https://thevalleyofgrace.com Purchase your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Clothing From THE VALLEY OF SHOP Today! https://thevalleyofgrace.shop Purchase books that take you from biblical healing to wholeness, thriving, abundance and freedom!!! https://thevalleyofgrace.com or Amazon Follow me on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Tiktok, Clubhouse, YouTube, Facebook: @katinahortonvgm DONATIONS: CASHAPP: $THORTON4792 VENMO: @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL: THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM WANT TO PARTNER WITH VALLEY OF GRACE MINISTRIES IN MONTHLY SPONSORSHIPS? YOU NOW HAVE TWO OPTIONS: OPTION 1: YOU CAN SIGN UP ON URBAN SKYE'S WEBSITE AT: HTTPS://URBANSKYE.GIVINGFUEL.COM/KATINA-HORTON OPTION 2: BECOME A SPOTIFY PATREON MEMBER AND RECEIVE SPECIAL MEMBER MONTHLY COUPONS TO THE VALLEY OF GRACE SHOP DURING THE AUDIO EPISODES, AS WELL AS 3 BONUS EPISODES ON TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS PER MONTH, BIBLICAL HEALING, AND WHOLENESS, AND 1 COACHING SESSION PER MONTH ON R.Y.A.N.A. (RECLAIMING YOU AFTER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE). https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/katina-horton/subscribe #podcast #linkedin #marketing #business #love #coaching #brand #help #power #teacher #commerce #egypt #clothing #facebook

There are a lot of narcissistic men out there. And just as well, the women are also represented. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships

Narcissism is everywhere. We can't escape it. Yet, and still, we can arm ourselves with the necessary skills to combat its spirit from permeating our souls. #love #freedom #relationships #narcissism

Your nervous system and everything else gets revved up from the drama, trauma, chaos, and confusion of the narcissist. #love #freedom #relationships

Covert narcissists are sneaky, determined to go in and out whenever they want, without you asking any questions. Why do they do it? You allow them. #narcissist #narcabuse #narcissism The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

How does your narcissistic partner size up to the wicked witch? There are more commonalities than you'd like to admit. #toxicrelationships #narcissist #love #theloveandfreedomtoxicrelationshiprecoverycoach

The #narcissist Has caused so much drama in your life. So, should you be hoping that he gets his? #love #narcissist #narc #freedom #loveandfreedom #lackcycle

Narcissists operate with legion, meaning several spirits at one time. Match this up with betrayal during your wilderness season and you have a toxic cocktail. #Love #narcissist #narc #freedom #loveandfreedom #lackcycle #theloveandfreedomtoxicrelationshiprecoverycoac h #toxicrelationships #blackwomenoftiktok #shop #blackwomen #flourishing #HealingJourney #narcabuseawareness #conflict #brokenconflict #humility #empowerment #judging #empath #mindset #cravings

Everywhere you turn, there is pestilence in the land. The pestilence that I speak of is the one that started way back in the garden of Eden. It's called #narcissism. It's infecting our homes, schools, workplaces, and churches. When the infection shows up in the Body of Christ, we are often bamboozled. Why? It doesn't look the way we thought it would. Therefore, we ignore it. Or even worse, we play with it, telling it to have a seat at our table as it steals, kills, and destroys every area of our power, SOUL, and identity. #love #loveandfreedom #narcissist #toxicrelationships #toxicchurch

We were created to crave. Relationships. Food. Connection. Etc. The problem comes in when our unchecked cravings lead to lust. And when we place our desire for relationship of humankind over our desire to be in relationship with God. God created us for community. And at the same time it is the very people who we interact with on a daily basis that will make or break us friends how many of us have them friends the ones we can depend on let’s be friends they smile in your face all the time they want to take your place the Back Stabbers back stabbers. When we fail to go through a vetting process, we end up in situations of pain, hurt confusion, and years of recovery from unresolved, trauma, betrayal, trauma, emotional, mental and spiritual trauma, etc. #toxicrelationships #relationship

Do you know what gaslighting ⛽is? Have you ever experienced gaslighting⛽ yourself? Did you know that there is more than one kind of gaslighting⛽ ? Yes, I know. It sounds like a lot. And it is. But with the help of God's word, we will dissect the ins and outs of freedomology, gaslighting ⛽, and how to heal and get your life back. #gaslighting #Katinahorton #toxicrelationships #youareenough

A lot of people carry around a Holy Spirit box. This comes from various culprits. One of these culprits is hanging around the #narcissist. #toxicrelationships #love #narcissist #narc #freedom #loveandfreedom #lackcycle #theloveandfreedomtoxicrelationshiprecoverycoach #toxicrelationships #blackwomenoftiktok #shop #blackwomen #flourishing #healingjourney #narcabuseawareness #conflict #brokenconflict #humility #empowerment #judging #empath #sillywomen #mindset #cravings

Campaigns require a lot of work. Smear campaigns require even more work. They are the favorite of the narcissist once he leaves you. But think about it, whenever you are trying to ruin someone else's life, it's not coming from a good place. It's going to require a lot of effort. #toxicrelationships #relationships

We always want to believe the best when it comes to other people's intentions. However, there are some instances in life where it literally is what it is. Ignoring a person's track record means literally running into danger on purpose. Ignoring how a person operates in their homes is literally running into danger on purpose. #love #freedom #relationships

Some people are gamers. I'm not talking about video gamers. I'm talking about people who love to run games on people for their own benefit and pleasure. Beware of the moment you see someone's countenance change. Waiting around to see what will happen is only going to set you up to be destroyed emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, intellectually, socially, and relationally. #love #narcissist #narcissism

There is a theme when it comes to false prophets. And that theme is ungodliness. This is their banner for life unfortunately. The form is there, but the Holy Spirit isn't. But, what happens when this "true word" is not true at all. It is false prophesy. It is self-righteousness, love of knowledge, and control. Listen in to part two.

We all know how refreshing it is to hear a true word from the Lord in regard to our lives, situations, relationships, calling, and dreams. But, what happens when this "true word" is not true at all. It is false prophesy. It is self-righteousness, love of knowledge, and control. Listen in