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Welcome, dear listeners, to the grand wrap-up of the Podconference "Golden Rubbish 2024." We've had an incredible journey with 15 inspiring guest speakers who generously shared their memorable experiences from 2023. These remarkable individuals not only reflected on the past year but also offered insights into the lessons learned and how they plan to approach 2024 differently. Today, we'll encapsulate the wisdom they've shared and leave you with valuable advice to carry into the new year.

Our guests took us on a rollercoaster through the highs and lows of their 2023 journeys. From career milestones to personal growth, they highlighted the moments that shaped them. Whether it was launching a book, facing professional challenges, or stepping out of comfort zones, each story added a unique hue to the canvas of their lives.

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As we conclude this extraordinary Podconference, we extend our deepest gratitude to each guest speaker for sharing their stories, wisdom, and resilience. May the lessons learned from golden rubbish serve as stepping stones to a brighter, more enriched 2024.

Thank you, dear listeners, for joining us on this journey. As you embark on your path through the new year, remember: every experience, every challenge, is an opportunity for growth and transformation.

Here's to turning golden rubbish into golden opportunities in 2024! 🌟

Let's delve into my journey through 2023, highlighting the good, the bad, and the lessons learned. It was undeniably a year of growth and stretching my limits, as I took on various projects to leverage my 25+ years of experience in finance and entrepreneurship to give back to the community.

Lessons from Selling My Insurance Company: Early in 2023, I made the decision to sell my property and casualty insurance company. The experience taught me valuable lessons. Firstly, building an empire requires the right team. I realized I wasn't the best leader for that company, emphasizing the importance of being a transformational leader who inspires action beyond meetings.

The Importance of Team and Leadership: Reflecting on the sale, I understood the significance of having the right people in the right positions. Burnout and stress were signs that my leadership and team were not aligned. Taking care of my health emerged as a crucial lesson, emphasizing the need to balance work and well-being.

Highlights of 2023: Despite the challenges, 2023 had its highlights. I explored real estate investing in the Dominican Republic, wrote and published my first book, "Empower Your Money," and successfully hosted my first solo in-person event in Miami. The event featured incredible women speakers, and launching the Empower Her Money podcast became another milestone.

The Power of Asking for Help: Acknowledging my limitations, I sought help from experienced podcasters, contributing to the podcast's remarkable success within six months. Surrounding myself with a supportive team, especially in areas like marketing and sales, became a crucial strategy.

Looking Ahead to 2024: As I step into 2024, my focus is on health, podcast growth, and potential ventures in real estate or a new business. I aim to reach the top 1% globally as a podcast host, driven by a passion to impact lives and change generations by teaching financial control.

Acknowledging Impact and Overcoming Challenges: While entrepreneurship has its share of challenges and moments of self-doubt, knowing that I've positively impacted someone's life reinforces my purpose. Sharing both successes and roadblocks on social media aims to connect with others facing similar struggles.

Continuing the Journey: The entrepreneurial journey is ongoing, filled with both highs and lows. Transparency about struggles aims to inspire others. As 2024 unfolds, I invite feedback and suggestions for future podcast topics, ensuring that I continue to share knowledge about money, business, and personal development.

Here's to a remarkable 2024, filled with growth, resilience, and continued impact. Thank you for being part of this journey.

Today, I want to share a memorable experience from 2023, something I consider a golden rubbish—a lesson I learned that I hope can be valuable for all of you.

In life, different routes lead to various destinations. What may be a pain for me might be a joy for someone else, so I encourage you to analyze it in the context of your own life.

One of my painful experiences in 2023 was the breakdown of a relationship with a senior friend. As a graphic designer and voiceover artist, he was someone I respected in the industry, particularly for his skills in motion graphics. We had a working relationship, and the breakdown of this relationship became a source of sadness for me.

The Importance of Self-Value and Boundaries: The core issue revolved around boundaries and mutual respect. Despite the respect I had for him, there were instances where he overstepped the bounds, demanding urgent work without proper briefs or consideration for my schedule. This lack of respect led to a strain on the relationship, impacting not just the professional aspect but also the personal connection we had.

Lesson Learned: Others Will Love You as Much as You Love Yourself: The lesson I took from this experience is that people will love you as much as you love yourself. It's essential to recognize that people are watching and waiting for you to set boundaries. The way you allow others to treat you establishes a standard for how they will treat you in the future.

Setting Boundaries and Demanding Respect: If you willingly respond to disrespectful calls or requests, you inadvertently allow a certain level of treatment. It's crucial to set boundaries early on, establishing a framework for how you want to be treated. People will value you to the extent that you value yourself.

Life Gives You What You Demand, Not What You Deserve: A mentor once said, "Life will not give you what you deserve; life will give you what you demand." This applies to respect and how people treat you. If you demand respect and set clear boundaries, people are more likely to respond accordingly.

Moving Forward: Building a Foundation of Self-Value: To avoid similar mistakes in the future, I've decided to be more professional in my work relationships. I'll set clear boundaries, especially concerning time and expectations. I'll expect those who value me to respect my schedule and plan accordingly.

Conclusion: Relationships Are Priceless, But They Require Balance: In all of this, it's crucial to remember that relationships are priceless, but their value is upheld by the people within them. As you grow, maintain your core principles like the unchanging sun. Don't compromise your values for friends or family unless judged correctly.

Thank you once again to Mr. Benjamin and everyone listening. May God bless and increase each one of you.

In 2023, I had a myriad of experiences, making it challenging to pinpoint one as the most memorable. However, one significant achievement was the launch of my book, "Maximizing Your NYSC Year." This book serves as a guide for individuals navigating their National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) year, providing insights into award-winning personal Community Development Service (CDS) projects.

I delved into numerous projects and focused on my personal business, specializing in book editing, publishing, and consultancy services. This journey involved taking on projects that were new to me, leading to a wealth of experience and research.

Lessons Learned from 2023:

1. Purpose in Every Experience: One crucial lesson from 2023 is that every experience, whether good or bad, serves a purpose. Challenges prepare us for the future, and successes pave the way for more significant achievements. Even in the face of losses and setbacks, there's an opportunity for growth.

2. God's Presence in Challenges: The awareness that God is ever-present in our lives, especially during challenges, was a key lesson for me. Turning to God in prayer and sharing burdens with Him allowed me to witness His merciful ways. Involving God in all aspects of life made 2023 outstanding.

3. Perseverance and Resilience: The importance of never giving up, regardless of the challenges faced, is a valuable lesson. Challenges don't come to break us but to make us stronger and more resilient. Perseverance is the key to overcoming obstacles and achieving our goals.

Facing Challenges with Triumph:

I shared a personal experience of facing a robbery at the beginning of 2023, resulting in significant losses. However, the decision to bounce back, coupled with family support and prayer, led to a triumphant recovery. The challenges became a catalyst for positive changes, redirection, and newfound determination.

Encouragement for 2024:

As we step into 2024, my advice is to run your race diligently. Be intentional about your actions, align them with your long-term goals, and take charge of the year. Life is a journey, and it's essential to navigate it with purpose and determination.

Remember, challenges are part of life, but they don't define us. The key is to learn from every experience and use it as a stepping stone to greater heights. Don't leave your life to chance; be proactive and make choices that contribute to your overall well-being.

I'm entering 2024 with a triumphant mindset, and I encourage you to do the same. This year is yours, and by running your race diligently, you can make the best of it. Wishing everyone a fantastic and successful 2024. Take care, and bye for now!

A Journey of Balancing Life: Reflecting on 2023, I recall the podcasts from 2022 that delved into personal journeys. Those episodes helped me learn how to balance various aspects of my life.

A Release from Grief: One of the most memorable experiences of 2023 was when God lifted the burden of grief from my shoulders. In 2020, I lost my father, and the pain and anger towards God lingered. Despite prayers and fasting, the loss occurred, and resentment grew.

Seeking Answers and God's Response: Throughout 2020, questions tormented me. Why did God allow it despite our prayers? Why show us signs without preventing the loss? The grief consumed me, and anger festered.

A Turning Point: The turning point came in 2023 when God spoke to me, saying, "Blessed is he that is not offended by me." This profound statement marked a shift in my perspective.

Lessons Learned: Through this experience, I learned that our trials often lead to doubts about God's goodness. The devil attempts to convince us that God doesn't care or answer prayers. However, the lesson is clear—whatever God does is good and perfect.

Gratitude in All Circumstances: The Biblical admonition to "give thanks in everything" (1 Thessalonians 5:18) became a guiding principle. Gratitude isn't a requirement; it's an acknowledgment that God, who knows the future, is in control.

Trusting God Despite Lack of Understanding: Even when I don't comprehend the why, I choose to trust God. In Hebrews 10, patience is highlighted. After giving thanks, waiting patiently is part of doing the will of God.

Approaching Grief Differently: In 2023, I approached grief differently. I surrendered it to God, recognizing that my understanding is limited. I dropped the burden at His feet, choosing to trust Him completely.

The Role of Scripture in Healing: Studying the word of God played a vital role in addressing grief. The Bible brought clarity and comfort that I hadn't found in previous years.

Encouragement for Those Grieving: To those grieving, my advice is simple: God loves you, understands your pain, and comprehends even the depths of your heartache. Surrender everything to Him, for He holds the future.

As we step into 2024, let's entrust our burdens to God, knowing that His plans for us are good, and He will never intentionally inflict pain. Thank you for having me, and may this podcast continue to impact lives positively.

My story begins in a small, farmer-dominated community where I did my national youth service. Life was comfortable, peaceful, and the cost of living was affordable. I even engaged in small businesses to keep things interesting. However, comfort has its drawbacks, and I soon realized I was missing out on numerous opportunities beyond my cozy haven.

After spending two years in that community, I knew it was time to move on, but fear held me back. Thankfully, my friends encouraged me to seek job opportunities outside my comfort zone. In November last year, my job hunting journey began, and within two weeks, I was invited for an interview in the capital city.

I landed a job at a prestigious organization with good pay and accommodation. Transitioning to my new workplace wasn't easy. I felt like a little fish in a big pond—quiet, withdrawn, and introverted. But with encouragement from friends and a determination to challenge myself, I gradually stepped out of my shell. I discovered a social side of me that I didn't know existed, and my comfort zone expanded.

Lessons Learned: The key lesson I gleaned from this experience is that being too comfortable in my comfort zone can blind me to profitable opportunities. Sometimes, a gentle push is all we need to step into a realm of growth and possibilities.

Advice: To all you wonderful individuals out there, I encourage you to take the leap—step out of your comfort zones. Even if it means doing it afraid, the experience is more valuable than not trying at all. You never know what opportunities await you beyond your familiar surroundings.

Approach in 2024: For the year 2024, I've decided to put myself out there in a positive light. I'll dare to do the things I've been too afraid to attempt. Even if failure knocks on my door, I'll proudly say I tried. This year, I'm embracing challenges, opportunities, and personal growth with open arms.

Thank you all for listening to my journey, and I hope it inspires you to take that step out of your comfort zone. Here's to a fantastic and fearless 2024! 🌟

Hello, everyone. I'm Solomon Joseph, and I'd like to share my insights on the rollercoaster ride that was 2023. It was a tough year, full of challenges, but it also brought significant impact, teaching me valuable lessons through both successes and losses.

Embracing Individuality and Dismissing Stereotypes: One profound lesson from 2023 was embracing the uniqueness of individuals. People are different, and it's crucial to discard stereotypes like "all men are the same" or "all women are alike." Each person deserves a chance to define their own story, unburdened by preconceived notions.

The Art of Sacrifice and Understanding: 2023 presented me with lessons on sacrifice and understanding in relationships. Not all efforts are perceived equally, and recognizing the sacrifices made by your partner fosters a deeper connection. Misunderstandings often arise from overlooking the unique value each person brings to the table.

Regrets and the Power of Timely Action: Regrets, though few, include not allowing ample time for personal healing before diving into new relationships. Procrastination also played a role, urging me to stress the importance of seizing opportunities promptly. The year emphasized that timely actions yield more favorable outcomes.

Expect the Unexpected in Acts of Kindness: Acts of kindness and generosity may not always yield immediate rewards, but they create a ripple effect. The lesson learned was not to expect returns from the exact place where you invest. Help others selflessly, and rewards may arrive unexpectedly from unforeseen sources.

Navigating Relationships and the Impact of Distance: The challenge of understanding each other in a long-distance relationship highlighted the need for effective communication and mutual comprehension. Every sacrifice made should be acknowledged, fostering a more profound connection. Understanding, beyond mere communication, is the key.

The Continual Learning Process: 2023, with its ups and downs, relationships, and personal growth, reinforced the idea that life is an ongoing learning process. As I venture into 2024, the fear of the unknown lingers, but the lessons learned provide a compass to navigate the uncertainties.

In conclusion, 2023 was not just a year but a profound journey of self-discovery and resilience. Here's to embracing the lessons learned and welcoming the possibilities that 2024 holds.

Memorable Experience: The passing of a young uncle, due to a prolonged illness, reshaped my perspective on life. It taught me the importance of money in navigating challenges. This loss prompted a reevaluation, focusing on what truly matters and eliminating procrastination on essential tasks. His departure urged me to streamline my life towards my ideal goals.

Approach Differently: Reflecting on the past, prioritizing certainty over uncertainties, like startups, would be a wise approach. Locking down stable opportunities before venturing into passion projects could have steered me more effectively toward success.

Advice for 2024: Eliminate excuses and cultivate a habit of listening to your instincts. Regularly assess your actions against your aspirations, ensuring alignment. Embrace intuition as a guiding force, leading to better decisions and a more purposeful journey.

1. A Memorable Experience:

The rollercoaster of 2023 included a tough but pivotal decision - leaving my job after four years as a pioneer staff. The journey to quit was challenging, but the strength gained from making that hard decision echoes in my present. Life, like gold, often requires enduring challenges to become truly valuable.

2. Lessons Learned:

In 2023, the trio of Focus, Honor, and Loyalty stood out as crucial lessons. Focusing on priorities, learning from mentors, and concentrating efforts on specific targets became paramount. Honor, beyond respecting age, extended to everyone, fostering a culture of respect and decency. Loyalty, a commitment to support regardless of circumstances, played a vital role, intertwined with honor. The wisdom applied in adhering to these principles ensured a more enriching life.

3. Approach Differently:

2024 calls for a heightened commitment to focus, honor, and loyalty. Disciplined devotion to cherished pursuits and relationships would reshape experiences for the better. Embracing progress over perfection, inspired by the wise words of Oliver Hack, becomes a guiding principle for the new year.

4. Advice for 2024:

Innovate, strive for personal excellence, and anchor yourself in faith. The key to navigating 2024 lies in embracing change, pushing personal boundaries, and relying on the steadfast support of a higher power.

"Hey, everyone! I'm Mercy Ajay, also known as Wildflower, and I'm thrilled to be part of the 2024 edition of the Coding Rubbish Podcast. Big thanks to Benjamin Nathaniel for having me here. Today, I want to share a bit of my experience from 2023.

One of the most memorable moments for me was working on a project that initially seemed daunting. A friend recommended me for it, and despite my fears and self-doubt, I decided to take it on. I spent months preparing and hesitated several times, but my friend consistently affirmed and encouraged me. Eventually, I took the leap, and the experience turned out to be transformative.

This project pushed me beyond my comfort zone, and through it, I discovered capabilities within myself that I wasn't fully aware of. It made me realize that continuous growth happens when we face challenges that require us to apply what we've learned. Sometimes, we underestimate our potential until we put our knowledge into practice.

The key lesson from this experience is that we are all capable individuals. There's no exclusive group designated for greatness; everyone has the potential for extraordinary achievements. It's crucial to give ourselves permission to try and to recognize our own capabilities.

Moreover, I learned the importance of shedding limiting beliefs. Past negative experiences can linger in our minds, affecting our confidence. I discovered that getting rid of these limiting beliefs and working on self-belief is essential for seizing opportunities.

While I successfully navigated the project, I also acknowledged that I could have approached it differently. I realized the importance of starting such endeavors with a calm and confident mindset, avoiding unnecessary panic. Moving forward, I aim to take on new challenges with more poise and self-assurance.

In conclusion, remember that you are worthy of anything and everything you desire, as long as it aligns with your purpose and has a positive impact. Stay open-minded, keep learning, and be prepared for the opportunities you're praying for. Jump on opportunities to showcase yourself, and embrace the uniqueness of your journey.

Wishing everyone an amazing 2024 filled with growth, learning, and success. Thank you again for having me on the podcast. Here's to an incredible year ahead! 🌟"

"Hello, everyone! How's the new year treating you? I hope we're all excited about the possibilities this year holds. We're not just going to witness 2024; we're going to make it count. Ensure that you set clear goals and work towards them diligently. My name is Tinyang, and I'm joining you from Adamawa State, Nigeria.

I've been asked to share my 2023 experience in a nutshell. I believe in the power of goal-setting, and according to Brian Tracy, it's crucial to set SMART goals - Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Time-bound. I invested time in learning how to set better goals, and it made a significant difference.

In 2023, I accomplished many of the goals I set for myself, including starting a company on WhatsApp focused on digital parenting. I also dedicated time to personal and professional development, attending paid seminars and reading numerous books. Reflecting on the past year, I realized that the more I set goals, the more my mind opened up to new possibilities.

For 2024, I've already begun by opening an academy, the Children and Teens Mentoring Academy. I believe in aiming higher each year, and my journey has taught me that whatever you think about, you can achieve. Write down your goals; it's like planting a seed that will germinate over time.

While my 2023 wasn't without challenges, including bouts of depression, I learned that failure is a part of the journey. The key is not to stay down; instead, get up, clean up, and move forward. Ask yourself the right questions, keep a journal, and create your own success story in 2024.

I want to express my gratitude to Benthaniel for this opportunity, and I hope to share more successes with you next year. Here's to making 2024 an incredible year for all of us. Thank you, and I wish you all success on your journeys. This is Tinyang signing out!"

In 2023, reuniting with my family after three years for my dad's burial was poignant. Despite the sorrowful occasion, the moments shared with my mum, siblings, and loved ones were truly unforgettable. The laughter, tears, stories, and bonds reaffirmed the importance of family as my true home.

However, the year also brought challenges, revealing the dangers of settling, overthinking, and neglecting intentional relationship commitments. Feeling stuck and distracted, I lost opportunities and lagged in achieving goals. Despite the setbacks, having a close network of confidants provided crucial support, reinforcing the value of shared experiences.

Approaching 2024, my strategy will involve prioritizing God, seeking audacity in pursuing goals, and avoiding reliance on external validation. The advice for the upcoming year is to embrace life fully with God, hold family close, and intentionally cultivate kindness. Understanding God's role, seeking excellence, and practicing kindness can lead to a purposeful and fulfilling journey in 2024 and beyond.

Hello everyone,

This is Courage, also known as Cino, a musician, creative personnel, designer, videographer, and more. Reflecting on 2023, it was a wonderful year filled with diverse experiences—both beautiful and challenging.

One memorable experience stands out, where I invested significant time and effort into someone else's project, neglecting my own business. Unfortunately, the person didn't appreciate the sacrifice, leading to cancellations and a feeling of being undervalued. The lesson learned was the importance of evaluating the benefits and drawbacks before emotionally committing to endeavors.

Looking ahead, I advise approaching goals in 2024 with careful consideration, avoiding emotional decisions. Deliberate planning, staying focused, and investing time in personal growth are crucial. Remember to prioritize rest, as a tired mind limits creative thinking.

To fellow young individuals, learn valuable skills that align with emerging industries. Network with those above you, read books, and seek mentorship. Connect with people you admire, even if not in person.

In 2024, speak your goals into existence, plan daily, and trust in God. Balancing professional pursuits with spiritual growth is key.

Thank you for having me on this platform. Wishing you all a blissful and prosperous 2024. Happy New Year!

Hello everyone,

I'm Naomi Paul, a Writer, BeautyPreneur, and Perfume Vendor. In 2023, a seemingly simple incident taught me profound lessons. While at my aunt's house, bathroom tiles fell on me, leading to bruises. Fearful of the cost and her reaction, I hesitated but eventually shared the truth. Surprisingly, she was more concerned about my safety, admitting the tiles were sub-standard and needed replacement.

This experience emphasized the importance of transparency. In every situation, telling the truth can save you from unforeseen consequences. Hiding the truth might seem tempting, but it often leads to more stress and complications.

Sharing another instance from last year, when my phone got damaged, I chose honesty with my mom. She responded with understanding and helped me repair it for free, avoiding unnecessary expenses.

The key takeaway: Be transparent, be truthful. It might be challenging, but in the long run, it brings peace and positive outcomes. As we step into 2024, let's embrace the power of truthful transparency.

Thank you to Mr. Ben and the entire team for having me on Golden Rubbish 2024.

"Welcome to a special episode of Golden Rubbish! I'm Calvin Antonza, a Digital Consultant and Website Designer. A heartfelt thanks to Benjamin Nathaniel for the chance to share my insights on this platform.

In this episode, I delve into my impactful journey throughout 2023. From smashing goals with SMART planning to learning crucial lessons about relationships and self-development, I share valuable experiences that shaped my perspective.

Discover the importance of strategic relationships, the art of unexpected gestures in maintaining connections, and the transformative role of self-development through courses and books. As I reflect on 2023, I emphasize the significance of personal growth.

Looking ahead to 2024, I'll be approaching the year differently by actively participating in physical events to expand my network.

Tune in for insightful advice on prioritizing relationships in 2024 as I wrap up this podcast.

A big thank you to Benjamin and all of you who've tuned in from start to finish. Your time and attention are truly appreciated.

Stay inspired

🎙️ Welcome, everyone, to another special episode of Golden Rubbish 2024 Day 2. I'm Pwakusari Ezra, and tonight, I'll be sharing my profound journey through 2023.

The year was a roller coaster, filled with highs and lows. I began the year with a new job, thrilled by the prospect of growth and a higher income. However, as months passed, I felt underutilized, lacking the necessary resources to excel.

In March, contemplating resignation, I questioned why God had led me to this seemingly stagnant situation. In a moment of clarity, I realized that my purpose in this role was not just about office tasks but rather human connections and imparting knowledge.

Concentrating on this revelation, I embraced my assignment. Ironically, by April, the organization faced financial constraints and terminated our employment. It became evident that God had a different plan for me.

The lesson? Always follow God's leading. Seek His guidance in moments of confusion and uncertainty. Hebrews 4:16 reassures us that approaching God's throne brings mercy and grace in times of need.

As we step into 2024, my advice is simple: cultivate a personal relationship with God. Let Him be your guide, teacher, counselor, supplier, strength, and source. Allow Him to be your motivational speaker, for only He knows all things. Embrace God as your all in this new year.

Amen. 🙏

Welcome to a special edition of the Weinspire Podcast! I'm your host, Benjamin Nathaniel, and today is not only a significant milestone with the Weinspire Podcast Annual PodConference, proudly tagged as Golden Rubbish 2024 but also my birthday! Feel free to wish me a happy birthday.

Our mission is to turn life's unconventional journeys into powerful tools for personal and professional growth. 'Golden Rubbish' symbolizes extracting gold from life's challenges, showcasing hidden value even in adversity...

Tomorrow can be better when we learn from others' journeys. We provide a platform to skip the starting line and gain a head start in your own journey.

In the upcoming days, various speakers will share how they turned challenges into opportunities, emphasizing the transformative power of relatable stories.

Reflect on your experiences and share thoughts on our socials. The Golden Rubbish 2024 PodConference is not just an event; it's a journey of shared experiences, learning, and growth.

Thank you for joining me, Benjamin Nathaniel, the birthday boy, on this exciting adventure. Stay tuned for more inspiring stories and insights in upcoming episodes of the Weinspire Podcast. Embrace the golden nuggets hidden in life's challenges. Happy listening! 🎉

Welcome back to another episode of WeInspire Podcast, the podcast that set you on the positive side of everyday. I'm your host, and today we're diving into a topic that many aspiring business owners grapple with – why friends won't invest in your business.

You've got a fantastic business idea, a solid business plan, and you're ready to take the entrepreneurial plunge. But one roadblock you might face is getting financial support from your friends. Why is that? Let's explore some of the reasons why your closest companions might hesitate to invest in your business.

 1. Risk and Fear: One of the most significant reasons your friends might not invest is the perceived risk. Starting a business is inherently uncertain, and your friends might worry about losing their money or damaging your relationship if the venture doesn't succeed. They may also fear the strain it could place on your friendship if they need to have difficult conversations about the business's performance.

2. Lack of Expertise: Friends may not invest because they don't fully understand your industry or business model. They might not have the expertise to evaluate the potential success of your venture. This lack of knowledge can make them uncomfortable, as they may not feel equipped to make an informed decision.

3. Financial Constraints: Your friends may have their financial limitations and goals, which do not align with your business needs. They might be saving for their own ventures, home purchases, or retirement. It's important to respect their financial boundaries and not press them to invest more than they are comfortable with.

 4. Business Concept: Sometimes, your business concept or the industry you're entering might not resonate with your friends' values or interests. For instance, they might have ethical concerns about your business or lack a personal passion for your industry, making it challenging for them to invest.

5. Friendship Preservation: Friends often invest in your business emotionally and with their time and support. They might be worried that a financial investment could jeopardize your relationship if things don't go as planned. They may prefer to provide non-financial support to protect your friendship.

So, what can you do when faced with friends who won't invest in your business? Here are some tips:

1. Communicate Clearly: Start by having open and honest conversations with your friends. Share your passion and vision for your business, as well as the potential risks and rewards. Help them understand why you believe in your idea.

 2. Respect Their Decisions: It's crucial to respect your friends' choices, whether they decide to invest or not. Understand that their financial decisions are personal, and they should never feel pressured or obligated to invest.

3. Seek Outside Investors: If your friends can't or won't invest, consider looking for outside investors who are specifically interested in your industry. There are many resources available to help you find potential investors who align with your business goals.

 4. Leverage Their Skills: Even if your friends can't invest financially, they may have valuable skills and connections that can help your business succeed. Consider asking for their support in different ways, such as mentoring, networking, or marketing.

5. Prove Your Concept: Sometimes, friends need to see proof of your business concept before they're willing to invest. Start by building a strong foundation for your business and gaining traction in the market. As your business grows, they may become more willing to invest.

In conclusion, it's essential to remember that your friends' reluctance to invest in your business doesn't reflect on your idea's quality or your capabilities as an entrepreneur. Each person's financial situation, risk tolerance, and interests are unique. Respect their decisions, keep your friendships...

Remember, your journey as an entrepreneur is uniquely yours, and you're not alone in facing these obstacles.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 21 Hello and welcome to today's affirmation podcast. Today's topic is I am grateful for this journey of personal growth and look forward to all the possibilities that lie ahead.

So, take a moment to sit down, relax and listen to these words of encouragement.

Repeat after me:

• I am grateful for this journey of personal growth and all the lessons that come with it.
• I understand that growth is a continuous process and that every experience is an opportunity to learn and improve.
• I embrace every challenge that comes my way and view them as stepping stones towards my goals.
• I am committed to becoming the best version of myself and living a life full of purpose and fulfillment.
• I trust the journey and know that it will lead me towards my true path in life.
• I release all fears and doubts that hold me back and instead choose to embrace courage and confidence.
• I am capable of achieving my dreams and I will do so by taking consistent action towards my goals.
• I trust in God to guide me towards the right people and opportunities that align with my values and aspirations.
• I am open to receiving feedback and using it as a tool for growth and self-improvement.
• I am grateful for the progress I have made thus far and look forward to all the possibilities that lie ahead.

Remember, personal growth is not a destination, but a continuous journey. Embrace every experience as an opportunity to learn and grow.

Trust the process and believe in yourself. You are capable of achieving your dreams and becoming the best version of yourself.

Thank you for joining me today

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 20 Welcome to this affirmation proclamation podcast where we focus on empowering and uplifting ourselves with positive thoughts and beliefs. Today's topic is, "I am a valuable and an important member of my community and the world."

Repeat after me:

• I am a valuable and an important member of my community and the world.
• I contribute to the world in meaningful ways and make a difference with my actions and words.
• I recognize that my unique talents, skills, and experiences are valuable assets that can benefit others.
• I am proud of who I am and what I have to offer.
• I acknowledge that I am not perfect, and that's okay.
• I embrace my imperfections as a part of my journey and use them to learn and grow.
• I am aware of the impact I have on others and take responsibility for my actions.
• I strive to make positive contributions and create a better world for everyone.
• I understand that my worth is not determined by external factors such as my job, income, or social status.
• My worth comes from within and is based on my values, beliefs, and character.
• I am deserving of love, respect, and kindness, and I give those things to others as well.
• I treat myself and others with compassion and empathy.
• I am grateful for the opportunities I have to connect with others and make a positive impact.
• I use my voice and actions to inspire and uplift those around me.
• I trust that I am exactly where I need to be in this moment, and I am excited about the possibilities that the future holds.

Remember, you are valuable and an important member of the community and the world, and you should be proud of who you are.

Thank you for joining

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 19 Welcome to today's affirmation podcast. Today we'll focus on the topic I am surrounded by abundance and prosperity in all areas of my life.

Repeat after me:

• I am surrounded by abundance and prosperity in all areas of my life.
• I trust that the God is constantly providing me with everything I need to live a fulfilling life.
• I attract success and abundance effortlessly, and it comes to me in unexpected and in wonderful ways.
• I am worthy of abundance and prosperity, and I embrace it with open arms.
• I release any limiting beliefs that hold me back from experiencing true abundance and prosperity.
• I am grateful for all the abundance and prosperity in my life, and I celebrate my achievements with joy and gratitude.
• I am open to receiving even more abundance and prosperity in my life, and I trust that it will continue to flow to me.
• I am a magnet for abundance and prosperity, and I welcome it into my life with love and gratitude.

Remember, the universe is abundant, and there is enough for everyone. Trust that you are deserving of abundance and prosperity, and it will come to you. Thanks for listening.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 18 Welcome to today's affirmation proclamation podcast. Today, we'll be focusing on the topic is I am constantly learning and growing to reach my full potential.

Repeat after me:

I am constantly learning and growing to reach my full potential.

I know that there is always room for improvement, and I am committed to doing what it takes to become the best version of myself.

I am open to new ideas, experiences, and perspectives that challenge me and help me expand my knowledge and understanding of the world.

I see every obstacle or setback as an opportunity to learn and grow, and I approach each situation with a positive attitude and a willingness to learn.

I am not afraid to ask for help or seek out resources that will support my personal growth and development.

I know that personal growth is a journey, and I am patient and compassionate with myself as I work towards my goals.

I trust in my ability to learn and grow, and I know that I have everything within me to reach my full potential.

I believe in myself and my abilities, and I am committed to taking action towards my dreams and goals.

I am constantly seeking out opportunities for personal and professional development, and I am always looking for ways to challenge myself and grow.

I am grateful for all the experiences that have helped me learn and grow so far, and I am excited for what the future holds.

Remember, personal growth is a lifelong journey, and every step you take towards learning and self-improvement is a step towards reaching your full potential. Keep pushing forward and know that you have everything within you to achieve your dreams.

Thank you for joining me today, and I'll see you in the next affirmation proclamation podcast.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 17 Welcome to this affirmation podcast where we will focus on the topic is I am confident in my decisions and trust that they will lead me towards my dreams.

Repeat these affirmations after me to help build your confidence and trust in your decisions.

• I am confident in my decisions and trust that they will lead me towards my dreams.
• I trust my intuition to guide me in making the right decisions for my life.
• I release any self-doubt or fear and trust in my own abilities to make the best decisions for myself.
• I am open to new possibilities and trust that I am being guided towards the path that is meant for me.
• I have faith in the choices I make and believe in their positive outcomes.
• I trust that every decision I make will lead me closer to my goals and aspirations.
• I am capable of making sound decisions that positively impact my life and the lives of those around me.
• I am confident in my ability to weigh the pros and cons of every decision and choose the best option for myself.
• I release any doubts or fears and trust that everything will work out in my favor.
• I am grateful for the power of decision making and the ability to create the life I desire.

Remember that every decision you make is a step towards your dreams and goals. Trust in yourself and believe that you are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to.

Thank you for listening.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 16

Hello and welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today, we're focusing on the topic I am worthy of achieving my goals and living the life I desire.

Repeat these affirmations to yourself and allow their power to fill you up with positive energy and motivation.

• I am worthy of achieving my goals and living the life I desire.
• I trust that I have everything I need within me to make my dreams a reality.
• I believe in myself and my abilities to create the life I truly want.
• I release any limiting beliefs that have held me back in the past and embrace a mindset of abundance and possibility.
• I am deserving of all the success, love, and happiness that life has to offer.
• I am grateful for all the experiences, lessons, and opportunities that have brought me to where I am today.
• I trust that everything is working out for my highest good, even if I can't see it in the moment.
• I choose to focus on my strengths and use them to make a positive impact on the world.
• I am confident in my ability to overcome any obstacles that come my way and continue moving forward.
• I am worthy of achieving my goals and living the life I desire.
• I am capable, powerful, and deserving of all the wonderful things that life has to offer.

Repeat these affirmations to yourself whenever you need a boost of confidence or a reminder of your worth.

Remember, trust in yourself and the journey ahead, and know that you are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to.

Thank you for tuning in to this affirmation podcast.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 15
Welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I trust in God and know that everything happens for a reason."

Take a deep breath in and exhale slowly.

Repeat after me:

• I trust in God and know that everything happens for a reason.
• I trust that everything is happening for my highest good, even if I can't see it at the moment.
• I release any need to control the outcome and surrender to the flow of life.
• I trust that God is always conspiring in my favor, and everything is working out perfectly.
• I let go of any doubts, fears, or worries and trust that I am exactly where I need to be.
• I have faith that everything I need will come to me at the right time and in the right way.
• I trust in the power of God to guide me on my journey and help me fulfill my purpose.
• I am open to receiving all the blessings and opportunities that God has in store for me.
• I trust that God has a plan for my life and that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.
• I am grateful for the lessons, experiences, and blessings that God has brought into my life.

Repeat these affirmations whenever you need a reminder that God has your back and is working in your favor.

Remember, trust in God, and everything will fall into place. Thank you for joining me today.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 14 Welcome to today's affirmation podcast. Today’s topic is I am committed to personal growth and learning to become the best version of myself.

I know that growth and learning are essential to living a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Repeat these after me

• I am open to new experiences, challenges, and opportunities that help me expand my knowledge, skills, and perspectives.
• I see every obstacle as an opportunity for growth and transformation, and I embrace it with courage and curiosity.
• I take responsibility for my life and my actions, and I learn from my mistakes and failures.
• I do not let setbacks or criticism discourage me, but rather use them as opportunities to learn and improve.
• I prioritize my personal growth by setting goals, creating action plans, and taking consistent steps towards them.
• I also seek out mentors, coaches, and resources that can guide and support me on my journey.
• I am mindful of my thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and I constantly strive to cultivate positive habits and attitudes that empower me to achieve my goals and fulfill my potential.
• I trust in my ability to learn and grow, and I am excited about the endless possibilities for my future.
• I am committed to living my best life, and I am confident that I will succeed in reaching my full potential.

Repeat these words to yourself throughout the day and let them inspire you to embrace personal growth and self-improvement.

Thank you for listening

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 13 Welcome to today's affirmation podcast. Today’s topic is I attract positive people and experiences into my life.

Take a deep breath in and exhale

Repeat the following after me:

• I am a magnet for positive people and experiences in my life.
• I choose to focus on the good in every situation.
• I am grateful for all the abundance and blessings in my life.
• I release negative energy and thoughts, and welcome positivity into my life.
• I choose to surround myself with people who uplift and support me.
• I am deserving of all the good that comes my way.
• I trust that God is working in my favor.
• I have a positive attitude towards life, and it attracts positivity towards me.
• I am open to new opportunities and experiences that bring me joy and fulfillment.
• I am worthy of a life filled with love, happiness, and positivity.

Remember, your thoughts and energy attract what you put out into the universe. By focusing on positivity and gratitude, you attract more of it into your life.

So, keep your thoughts and energy positive, and watch the universe work its magic. Thank you for joining me today.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 12 Welcome to today's affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I take care of my physical, mental, and emotional health to live my best life."

Repeat after me:

• I prioritize my physical health by engaging in regular exercise, eating a balanced diet, and getting enough sleep.
• I am committed to taking care of my mental health by practicing mindfulness, positive self-talk, and seeking help when I need it.
• I acknowledge the importance of my emotional health by allowing myself to feel my emotions and addressing them in a healthy way.
• I am grateful for my body, my mind, and my emotions, and I choose to treat them with respect and kindness.
• I understand that taking care of my overall health and wellbeing is crucial for me to live my best life.
• I choose to prioritize my health and wellbeing each day, knowing that doing so will bring me closer to my goals and dreams.
• Today, I affirm that I am taking the necessary steps to care for my physical, mental, and emotional health, and I am grateful for the ability to do so.

Remember, taking care of your overall health and wellbeing is important for you to live your best life.

Thank you for listening.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 11

Hello and welcome to today's affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I am resilient and can bounce back from any setback or disappointment."

Life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes we may face setbacks or disappointments that can make us feel overwhelmed and discouraged. But remember, you are strong, and you have the resilience to overcome any challenge.

• I want you to take a deep breath and repeat these after me:
• I am resilient.
• I have the strength and courage to bounce back from any setback or disappointment.
• I trust in my ability to overcome challenges and move forward towards my goals.

You are capable of handling any obstacle that comes your way. Believe in yourself and your ability to overcome challenges. Trust that everything happens for a reason and that setbacks are just opportunities for growth and learning.

When faced with adversity, remember to stay positive and keep pushing forward. Take one step at a time and focus on the progress you are making. Celebrate every small victory and use it as motivation to keep going.

Repeat this affirmation as often as you need to, especially when you feel like giving up or when life feels overwhelming.

Remember, you are resilient, and you can bounce back from any setback or disappointment.

Thank you for listening.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 10 Hello and welcome to today's affirmation podcast. Today's topic is I forgive myself and others for any past mistakes or hurts and focus on moving forward.

Take a deep breath in and exhale.

Repeat after me:

• I forgive myself for any mistakes or hurts I have caused in the past.
• I forgive others for any mistakes or hurts they have caused me in the past.
• I release any negative feelings or resentment I may have held onto.
• I choose to focus on the present moment and move forward.
• I am grateful for the lessons I have learned from my past experiences.
• I am capable of making positive changes in my life.
• I trust in my ability to create a better future for myself.
• I release any self-doubt or fear of the unknown.
• I am open to new opportunities and experiences that will enrich my life.
• I choose to focus on love, positivity, and growth.
• I am worthy of forgiveness, love, and happiness.

Remember, forgiveness is a process that takes time and effort. Be kind and patient with yourself and others. Let go of the past and focus on creating a brighter future for yourself. Thank you for listening, and have a great day!

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 9

Hello and welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today we will focus on the topic I am open to new opportunities and experiences that will enrich my life.

Take a deep breath in and exhale. Feel the openness and curiosity flow through your body.

Repeat these after me:

• I am open to new opportunities and experiences that will enrich my life
• I am open to possibilities that life has to offer
• I refuse to let fear take me off course
• I constantly seek for growth and learning opportunities

It's important to be open to new experiences and opportunities because they can bring growth, learning, and fulfillment into our lives.

Trust that the God is constantly presenting you with opportunities for growth and learning. Stay open to the signs and opportunities around you.

Remember, the road to success and fulfillment is not always a straight line, but it's the detours and unexpected turns that often lead to the greatest rewards.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 8

Welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today's topic is I release all self-doubt and trust in my inner wisdom and intuition.

Repeat after me:

• I release all self-doubt and trust in my inner wisdom and intuition.
• I am capable of making sound decisions and taking action based on my intuition.
• I trust in the path that I am on and know that everything is happening for my highest good.
• I believe in my abilities and know that I am worthy of success, love, and happiness.
• I am grateful for the experiences that have brought me to this moment and I embrace the unknown with confidence and excitement.
• I let go of any negative self-talk or limiting beliefs that hold me back.
• I trust in my inner voice and intuition to guide me towards my goals and dreams.
• I am deserving of a life filled with abundance, joy, and fulfillment.
• I release all self-doubt and trust in my inner wisdom and intuition.

Take a deep breath in and exhale. Feel the confidence and trust in yourself flow through your body. Trust in your inner wisdom and intuition to guide you towards your path of success and fulfillment.

Remember to trust in yourself and your intuition as you navigate through life's journey.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 7 Welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I am confident in my talents and abilities and will use them to make a positive impact on the world."

Each and every one of us has unique talents and abilities that we can use to make a positive impact on the world around us. By being confident in our abilities, we can take action to achieve our goals and make a difference.

So, let's begin with some affirmations to help build our confidence in our talents and abilities:

• I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind to do.
• I trust in my abilities and believe in myself.
• I am ready and willing to share my talents with the world.

Remember, the world needs your unique talents and abilities. By being confident in yourself, you can make a positive impact on the world around you. Believe in yourself, and share your unique gifts with the world. Together, we can make a positive impact and create a better world.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 6 Hello and welcome to this affirmation podcast.

Life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes we may feel overwhelmed or uncertain about how to handle a situation. But the truth is, we are all capable of overcoming any challenge that comes our way.

Today's affirmation topic is "I trust in my ability to handle any challenge that comes my way." Let's take a moment to affirm our strength and capability in the face of adversity.

By trusting in our ability to handle challenges, we build confidence and resilience. We may not always know the exact steps to take, but we can trust in our ability to figure it out and come out stronger on the other side.

Here are a few affirmations to help you build confidence in your ability to handle challenges:

• I trust in my strength and capability to overcome any challenge.
• I am resilient in the face of adversity.
• I have the tools and resources to handle any situation that comes my way.

It's important to also remember that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. We don't have to handle everything on our own. Seeking support from friends, family, or professionals can be a powerful tool in overcoming challenges.

Together, we can overcome any obstacle and come out stronger on the other side.

Thank you for listening to this affirmation podcast.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 5 Welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I am grateful for all the blessings in my life and look forward to more."

It's easy to get caught up in the stresses and challenges of life and forget to appreciate the good things we have. But taking time to focus on what we are grateful for can help shift our perspective and bring more positivity into our lives.

So let's take a moment to reflect on the blessings in our lives. Whether it's a supportive family, good health, a fulfilling career, or simply having a roof over our heads, there is always something to be thankful for.

Here are a few affirmations you can repeat to yourself:

• I am grateful for all the blessings in my life.
• I appreciate the abundance around me.
• I attract more blessings into my life every day.

By focusing on the good things in our lives and expressing gratitude, we attract more positivity and abundance into our lives.

Remember, gratitude is a powerful tool that can help us cultivate happiness and joy in our lives. Take time every day to reflect on what you are grateful for and watch how it transforms your perspective.

Thank you for listening to this affirmation podcast. Repeat these affirmations to yourself every day and continue to appreciate the blessings in your life while looking forward to more.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 4 Welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I have the power to create the life I want and deserve."

It's important to remember that you have the ability to create the life you want. You are in control of your thoughts, actions, and decisions.

Repeat after me:

• I have the power to create the life I want and deserve.
• I trust myself and my decisions.
• I am capable of achieving my dreams.

These affirmations can help you shift your mindset and believe in your own abilities.

Remember, you are not a victim of your circumstances. You have the power to change your life and create the reality you want. You can take small steps every day to move closer to your goals and dreams.

It's also important to let go of negative thoughts and beliefs that may be holding you back. Replace those thoughts with positive ones that reinforce your abilities and strengths.

Affirmations are a powerful tool to help you create the life you want and deserve. Repeat these affirmations to yourself every day and take action towards your dreams.

Thank you for listening to this affirmation podcast.

21 Days Growth Affirmation day 3 Welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I am worthy of love, success, and happiness."

Take a deep breath in, and exhale slowly.

You are worthy of all the good things life has to offer.

Repeat after me:

• I am worthy of love, success, and happiness.
• I believe in myself and my abilities.
• I am deserving of all the good things in my life.

It's easy to doubt ourselves and feel unworthy at times, but remember that you are capable and deserving of love, success, and happiness.

Self-care is important to help remind yourself of your worth. Here are a few self-care practices you can try:

• Practice gratitude daily.
• Take care of your physical health by eating well and exercising.
• Surround yourself with positive people who lift you up.

Taking care of yourself helps to reinforce the message that you are worthy of love, success, and happiness.

Remember, you are worthy of all the good things life has to offer. You deserve to be loved, successful, and happy.

21 Days Growth Affirmation Day 2

Welcome to this affirmation podcast. Today's topic is "I choose to focus on the positive and let go of negative thoughts and emotions."

Take a deep breath in, and exhale slowly.

It's easy to get caught up in negative thoughts and emotions. But you have the power to shift your focus to the positive. Affirmations can help reprogram your mind to do just that.

Repeat after me:

• I choose to focus on the positive and let go of negative thoughts and emotions.
• I am in control of my thoughts and emotions.
• I am grateful for all the positive things in my life.

Remember, you have the power to choose your thoughts and emotions. Choose to focus on the positive and let go of the negative.

Mindfulness and meditation can also be helpful tools to let go of negative thoughts and emotions. Here's a simple mindfulness exercise you can try:

Take a deep breath in, and then exhale slowly.

• Focus on your breath, and observe any thoughts or emotions that arise.
• Imagine those thoughts and emotions as clouds passing by in the sky.
• Acknowledge them, but then let them go and return your focus to your breath.

You deserve to live a happy and fulfilled life. So choose to focus on the positive and let go of the negative.

Thank you for listening to this affirmation podcast. Join us again for more empowering topics to help you live your best life.

21 Days Growth Affirmation Day 1

Welcome to this Affirmation Podcast on the topic "I am capable of achieving my goals and fulfilling my dreams".

Take a deep breath and allow yourself to be fully present in this moment.

Repeat the following affirmations out loud or in your mind, with conviction and intention:

• I am capable of achieving my goals and fulfilling my dreams.
• My dreams are within my reach, and I have the power to make them a reality.
• I believe in my ability to succeed and overcome any obstacles that may come my way.

Repeat each affirmation for about 20-30 seconds, and feel the positive energy and confidence building within you.

Close your eyes and imagine yourself already having achieved your biggest goal or dream.

Visualize every detail of the scene - where you are, who is with you, how you feel, what you see and hear.

Allow yourself to feel the positive emotion and let it radiate through your body.

Repeat the following affirmations out loud or in your mind, with even more conviction and determination:

• I am fully committed to achieving my goals and dreams.
• I am open to new opportunities and experiences that will help me reach my dreams.
• I am confident in my ability to create the life I want and deserve.

Congratulations! You have just affirmed your ability to achieve your goals and fulfill your dreams.

Remember these affirmations throughout your day and use them as a source of motivation and inspiration.

Thank you for being part of this Journey, feel free to come back and listen whenever you want to.

Mr. Riffz

Verse

I make mistakes sometimes, I won't deny

I've got all it takes to fight am a golden child

Nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes

So excuse me if I don't care about what you think of me...

BENJAMIN NATHANIEL

Experiences keep happening, but only those who want to learn and develop will benefit from hearing about other people's experiences. We can't live to learn from all of our mistakes, but we can live to learn from the experiences of others. God bless you and have a blessed day.

SEMAJ JAMES

Your job is part of your life while you are working you are living because you don’t have extra years for work and separate years for living no. If your job takes you away from your life it’s not worth it. I know the pay can be blinding sometimes but I can assure you that no matter how blinding the pay can be eye way close go open one day.

KWAYINE PWAKUSARI EZRA

I urge us all to be responsible in our communication. Reach out to people, talk freely and be a listener too so that our relationships will be sweeter and stress-free. Remember, the only thing standing between you and your next level is hidden in the relationships that you are able to maintain.

CALVIN K. ANTONZA

For you to see tangible results in every aspects of your life, you need to seek Knowledge from the right people, materials, resources, etc. After seeking the KNOWLEDGE, IMPLEMENT it. "The results we seek will only come when we implement the knowledge we have". 

JENNIFER ELEOJO JAMES

Not all bad situations are bad. You sometimes discover your strength in bad situations. So whenever you find yourself in a bad situation, sit down and patiently make lemonade out of the lemons thrown at you.

SIMEON OLABODE

Go do the hard things. Let’s leave our comfort zones (whatever they may be) and pursue those hard things that we naturally don’t like to do because those hard things (be it skill, decision, lifestyle, or mindset) are the things that will bring about transformation in our lives.

MERCY AJEH

Tough times don't last, like they'll always say, seasons would pass but as much as possible, guard yourself, guard your heart. You do not want to lose yourself before your breakthrough, else of what use is the breakthrough? Live through each season so that you can enjoy the proceeds when the season ends. 

SINI YAKUBU

To achieve your biggest success or your long-term success, it is highly dependent on your ability to achieve your small, small, small successes or Milestone because those smaller milestones are what will lead to achieving your bigger milestone.

BLESSING EWA

No matter what happens. Make sure your head remains above water. If your head is above water, you will definitely survive the storm. Don't let the water drown you. Keep your head above water, so every time it feels really bad, It's all over, you know, I just whisper to myself to myself, no matter what happens, let your head remain above water. So as long as your head is above water, you will survive the storm. So this is just a storm. This is going to pass.

AUGUSTINE AYODELE JOSEPH

Suffering challenges is part of human experience. Every suffering that comes away is just a way of making us better. Because God will never let a man go through a challenge that he or she cannot surmount, right before God allows the challenge to come, he has already provided the strength; his grace is sufficient to pull us through...

Topic: POLITE EXCLUSIVITY

Guest: AJOKE F. AREGBEYEN

One of the experiences I had in the year 2020 was in the area of making friends.The lessons I learned was that when you meet people and you appear to share the same interest you engage in the same type of activities. It doesn't mean that your values are the same or the fact that they pledged to the same kind of values that you ascribe to all the approval of it. It doesn't mean that they uphold the same values in their lives or strive to keep them. People can be very, very different from who they proclaim to be, no matter how old or how experienced they appear to be. So no matter how perfecting since from the beginning and you meet people and it seems that you've known each other for a very long time. Take your time before giving them access to you as a friend.

Certain things should be earned. Take your time before opening up to them and take your time before being vulnerable to them. No matter how perfect you think um you guys are, you can't always know people's intentions with you when you just meet them. I know this sounds cliché but until it happens to you, you will not understand. So you can't always know people's intentions with you from the beginning from the get go. So take your time to really get to know them and allow them graduating that skill before they are sent to being who you call your friend who you are able to open up to and give all those privileges that you give to your friendsIf given another chance, what would I do?When I meet people for the first time, it's a great idea to be kind. It's a great idea to be welcoming. I'll be kind, I'll be welcoming, I'll be hospitable, but a lot of me will be on reserve. Uh, it will be kept for those who have earned it and I wouldn't be so hasty is to think I have the um, well I call it guts or instinct to know that, okay, this is the kind of person that this person fits into this kind of category. I feel I have a fair understanding of this person judging by what I've gotten to know about them um, during this short period of what they've told me. So it's not being rude, is not being unfriendly. We just have to allow people to earn the position of friendship is not something you just slap on somebody because you like that person. Friendship is a big responsibility and all the things that you do with your friends is not something you just want to do with someone because you have a feeling that this person is fits in the category of the kind of people you call your friends.

Well I feel like my 2nd and 3rd questions I answer, I have already given the advice, but um I'll just give an advice that is not really related to what I've said. Um the advice I would give anybody is just to have faith, just have feet and keep believing. Um don't limit what you want to achieve. Don't limit your desires to what you know, but what you feel, you know, if you knew how to get to where you want to get too, or you know how to achieve all your dreams, you already be here by now. So you have to learn to have faith in God or in a higher power on whatever you believe in. So have faith and believe. Do not limit what you think you can achieve to your level of reasoning at this time or to your level of thinking. Just keep having faith in God in um whatever you want to achieve anyway, Thank you

Topic: OVERCOMING LACK OF SELF-WORTH

Guest: BENJAMIN NATHANIEL

At some point in our lives, many of us battle feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness. In this episode of The Golden Rubbish 2023, I'll discuss my experience with feeling unworthy, as well as the steps I've taken to get ready for potential opportunities and strengthen my sense of self-worth.

August 2020 I was privileged to be the project manager of a school building project. By March 2023, we had completed the project, the school was open, and pupils were already enjoying classes. When the work in the field was completed, I was asked to come and start working in the Abuja office, but I was afraid that I would underperform because I was a field guy and now I would have to face the office daily wahala, so I declined the offer. In the end, I realized that my negative thoughts and feelings were based on limiting beliefs and insecurities, rather than reality.

So what did I do to prevent the above from happening again, you may ask?

1. I practice self-reflection and seeking support from trusted sources.

Self-reflection and seeking support from trusted sources are crucial for personal growth and well-being. By taking the time to reflect on one's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, individuals can gain a deeper understanding of themselves and identify areas that need improvement. This introspective process can lead to increased self-awareness, insight, and a greater sense of control over one's life.

2. I engaging in activities and hobbies that bring joy and a sense of accomplishment.

Engaging in activities and hobbies that bring joy and a sense of accomplishment is a crucial aspect of livening a fulfilling life. Whether it's gardening, painting, or playing a musical instrument, having a creative outlet can help relieve stress and improve overall mental health.

3. I practice self-compassion and speaking kindly to myself.

Practicing self-compassion and speaking kindly to oneself is essential for overall mental and emotional wellbeing. In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in negative self-talk and criticism, but this only exacerbates stress and anxiety.

Self-compassion and speaking kindly to oneself are important for maintaining mental and emotional health. By being mindful, engaging in self-care, and using positive language, we can create a supportive inner environment that promotes well-being and happiness.

4. I surround myself with positive and supportive people...

5. I Challenge limiting beliefs and negative thoughts...

6. I Focused on personal strengths and accomplishments.

Focusing on personal strengths and accomplishments can have a profound impact on one's self-esteem and well-being. By recognizing and celebrating one's successes and unique abilities, individuals can gain a greater sense of confidence and motivation in their personal and professional lives.

Focusing on personal strengths and accomplishments can have a positive impact on one's self-esteem, confidence, and well-being. By regularly taking time to reflect on and celebrate one's successes and abilities, individuals can develop a growth mindset, foster a positive outlook, and achieve greater satisfaction in their lives.

Finally, developing a sense of self-worth takes time and effort, but it is a journey worth undertaking. By challenging negative thoughts and focusing on our strengths, we can learn to love and appreciate ourselves just as we are. Remember to be kind to yourself and seek support from others when needed.

Topic: BECOMING A BETTER PERSON

Guest: CYNTHIA OMOREGIE

My name is Cynthia Omoregie. I am here to share my experience that made me indecisive, forgetful and procrastinate. My life was a mess and I needed a practical solution.

Last year, I had so much goals that I wanted to achieve. I had planned for growth in my career, family, finances and spiritual life. However, I was only able to achieve some, procrastinated a few and even totally shunned others.

I needed great help to not repeat similar mistakes and then it lit up in my mind that I had underestimated the power of planning.

In life, it is so easy to get busy and carried away with activities that you lose precious time doing things that are not of priority or significance.

Planning helps you to organize and coordinate yourself with the resources that are within your reach. Just imagine staying in a disarranged and scattered room, it would be difficult to move about, there would be poor ventilation, a sore sight and even a choked mind. On the other hand, a well arranged room has the aura of peace, good energy and creativity.

Here are some practical tips to help get your life on track with proper planning;

• In 7 habits of highly effective people, whatever is important and urgent- do; not important and urgent- delegate; important and not urgent- plan; not important and not urgent- eliminate.

• Set a to-do-list for the day and review the list at the end of the day noting what was achieved, not achieved and in progress.

• Put up your goals where you can see it every time. It serves as a reminder of what you want.

• Have a single scheduler containing activities, tasks or meetings. It helps to easily manage your time and not overload your day.

• Reflect on your week, the things that went well and evaluate the causes of the things you were not able to accomplish.

• Plan for your all round health. Health include physical, spiritual, mental and emotional wellbeing. You may take a creative class, vacation or a new skill.

This year always take out time to plan. It pays to plan. For me, with a good plan, I become a better person and I achieve my set goals.

So, I will end with a question, how can you include planning as a routine for better progress?, if you can think it then do it. Thank you

Topic: MY ACTION MY RESPONSIBILITY

Guest: Wale Andrew Woblai

It is a joy to be on this edition of "Golden Rubbish" this year. Again, I am Wale Andrew Woblai shortly I will just take you through some moment of my pains that I found gain and they can be seen known as trash but there were treasures I was able to extract from it. You can call them rubbish. But they were some golden things I found from them last year. I took the decision to resign from my job. I was working for a mobile company, and the job was paying averagely, and life wasn't too bad. But then, deep within me, at some point, I lost satisfaction. I knew I needed something more, and the working environment was not too comfortable any longer. But then to resign without having another job at hand. It's very crazy. It was something that I didn't consult people around me before taking that action because I know they will not agree or consent to such decision because it looks crazy indeed.

Majorly because of the state of the nation. You know they said there is no job you that have this one, you should manage it, they say half bread is better than none blah blah blah and all of those stuffs.

So, I just felt after sending my resignation that's when I was informed people and that was exactly what I did send my resignation and because of the contribution that I have made for that company they were shocked that such a staff will be resigning. The HR called me and some other bosses called me, trying to talk me back into the job, but I was keen to hear them change the offer, making things much more better. But they never mentioned things like that, especially the pay. You know, one of the reasons why we walk is for the money, and the work environment should be comfortable, but all of these things were not adding up any longer for me.

Some other people will be grateful to have what I had, but then I knew I needed something more, and because I am not another person, I knew it was time for me to leave, so I just took that bold and crazy step. Send my resignation later in April told the company by May I will be stopping the job with them. And exactly that was what happened. I remember when people around me in fact including siblings when I told them this is what I've done they were not really happy that I would do such a thing and the entire thing now boils down to so what are you hoping to do? And so many questions that I don't have all of the answers but I knew it's time for me to leave which was why I left lessons I've learned from that experience...

And even considering that I am not married, I don't have a family. The people I God is using me to be of blessing too. I just know God will still make a win. So I just had to go. So if you have more responsibility, don't dare what I did, but if you know you can survive when it's time to leave, I advise you to leave, but if you choose to stay, you should calculate is the pay worth stress will continue staying be healthy because I will not advise anybody to stay when it will not reach to a point where to affect your mental health.

And then I knew so well that when I left, there would be many from the company and even outside that would be looking at me to make sarcastic comments like, "Look at him now that he's left; look at his life as it's getting better; things have become worse. We know he was taking the wrong step and all that kind of stuff like that. But then it is important for you to know that if you want to take such kind of steps, it requires work, quitting for more work is not quitting to rest. It is quitting to work because eyes will be on you and I'm grateful for all of the experience because today, I can boldly say all that has happened, happened for my good thank you.

Topic: HEALTHY LIFE STYLE

Guest: TEMITAYO OKEREJI

Growing up you might have heard the term ‘Health is Wealth’, but its essential meaning is still not clear to most people. Generally, people confuse good health with being free of any kind of illness. While it may be part of the case, it is not entirely what good health is all about. So, to lead a healthy life, a person must be fit and fine both physically and mentally. For instance, if you are constantly eating junk food yet you do not have any disease, it does not make you healthy. You are not consuming healthy food which naturally means you are not healthy, just surviving. Therefore, to actually live and not merely survive, you need to have the basic essentials that make up for a healthy lifestyle.

I want to focus on a brief narrative. In the year 2022, I developed a number of severe illnesses. I was unaware of how horrible it was. I spent two and a half months in and out of the hospital and after a series of tests, scans, and other procedures it revealed layers and layers of diagnosis. Although it may have seemed slow to some, I recovered as quickly as my mind could with the help of my family and friends. I can assure you that I'll never be the same again. I was traumatized, and such an experience is not something that someone who values and prioritizes their health will go through. My point is that the time, money, people's time, and other resources used may have been better utilized elsewhere If I became aware of it earlier...

Guess what I will perform superiorly if given another chance in this situation? A healthy lifestyle. Fast one... I used to think I was in excellent health because I led an above-average lifestyle, but now that I know better, I'll make some lifestyle changes. These adjustments will involve alterations to my eating, sleeping, and lifestyle patterns. I’ll eat a well-balanced, nutrient-dense diet for my physical wellness to mention yes, I do all these now.

Now my piece of advice to you, well, as it is clear by now, good health is a luxury which everyone wants but some cannot afford. This point itself states the importance of a healthy lifestyle. When a person leads a healthy lifestyle, he/she will be free from the tension of seeking medical attention every now and then.

On the contrary, if you have poor health, you will usually spend your time in a hospital and the bills will take away your mental peace. Therefore, a healthy lifestyle means you will be able to enjoy your life freely. Similarly, when you have a relaxed mind at all times, you will be able to keep your loved ones happy. A healthy individual is more likely to fulfil all of his goals because he can easily focus on them and has the energy to complete them. This is why the proverb “Health is Wealth” carries so much weight.

Unlike a machine, the body needs rest at regular intervals. A minimum of six to seven hours of sleep is necessary for the body to function optimally. Drinking plenty of water and a balanced diet is also very important for your body.  If you violate the basic laws of good health, like working late hours, ignoring physical exercise, eating junk food, it will lead to various ailments like hypertension, heart attacks, and other deadly diseases.

Inshort, healthy life is the highest blessing that must not be taken for granted. It is truly the source of all happiness. Money may buy you all the luxuries in the world but it cannot buy you good health. You are solely responsible for that, so for your well-being and happiness, it is better to switch to a healthy lifestyle

Topic: CONVERTING PAIN TO GAIN

Guest: AUGUSTINE AYODELE JOSEPH

Hello, my name is Augustine Ayodele Joseph. I would rather prefer to be called "Delz (the customer guy)." My Golden Rubbish experience for the year 2022 is an awesome one. This year was full of lots of ups and downs, down moments at low points that I felt oh it was the end, I will not be able to bounce back. But one thing I experienced is that throughout all of these times that I was at this low point, one way or another, God as a way of bringing me back and this is why I'm sharing this experience with Golden Rubbish for this year because starting from the 5th of January 2022 I had like this very terrible called about my older brothers and the battles we are going around at this time, I was also trying to really find my feet in the professional space, like in the area of customer success, I had just been moved to the department in the officer. Well, unfortunately, I lost my brother on February 14th, and I was like, "Oh, so this can actually happen to me." I've always heard people talk about it, but I've never suffered the loss of a loved one. So after the loss of my brother, I felt there was nothing else to live for. So life should just go, yes I contemplated maybe just do something crazy, stop work.

No, there's no point working again, just enjoy your life, just be you, no longer serious. But one way or another, there's this thing that I just felt in my spirit and as against doing this terrible thing, you know, I'll just dump everything here because there's no point working. I then discovered that there was actually a reason to walk. I turned my pain into passion, right? And at that point I began to walk and walk was working 24 hours a day. I was walking around like 24 hours around the clock every time my colleagues abroad, anybody that is in the US, in Estonia in Philippines in that’s in Asia, it looks like I'm living all of these times and I'm learning and paying attention to all of these people all at once and instead of three months I discovered that I have grown, I became better...

When you take on responsibility, you become scared and think to yourself, "I can't do this." But while we are another, if that challenge will come by 2:00am today, By 8:00pm yesterday God as a way of making providence and these things will just come in one way or another and you'll be able to move it. That's basically my Golden Rubbish experience for the year 2022. And now, in January 2023, I can say with certainty that the year 2022 was a very great year. I suffered not suffering but like this is good suffering. I mean, we're talking about Golden Rubbish. Yes, it looks like rubbish, all of the dirt that life throws at me, rather than just letting it pull me down. I was able to storm the weather and I became better and I can say for a fact categorically that this is just the beginning. I am here now. I have learnt that suffering challenges is part of human experience. Every suffering that comes away is just a way of making us better. Because God will never let a man go through a challenge that he or she cannot surmount, right before God allows the challenge to come, he has already provided the strength; his grace is sufficient to pull us through. Thank you very much. That's by my time.

I am Delz (the customer guy), and I have a wonderful 2023 ahead.

Topic: SURVIVING THE STORM

Guest: BLESSING EWA

In the year 2022, I had so many experiences that I was able to learn from, but I will share with you one experience that I had in 2022 that I learned so much from and that helped shape my mentality towards life. One of which was my leaving a job. So I had to move to Abuja. So I left the job that I was working in Nasarawa hoping that when I get to Abuja with all my skills and expertise, I should be able to get a job in Abuja as soon as possible, say one month. So I was very highly confident. And the thing is, before leaving for Abuja, I just did not make that decision. I even had to ask the Holy Spirit if it was okay to move or if it was the right time to move; I knew that my time at the previous work place was done and it was time to move on to the next level of my life. So I had spoken to the Holy Spirit, and I told him to give me a sign for me to move on. If you give me a sign and it says "green," then I will go. And then you give me a positive sign from three of them that it was evidence enough that I should move on. So I actually resigned; I dropped my resignation.

I then left for Abuja; I had a place to stay with an uncle of mine, so I was hoping that as soon as possible, I should be able to get a job with my years of experience. As you know, I try to engage myself in as much community service as possible. So what is my greatest shock for 2022? For the first seven months, I had nothing to do. I'm the first child in my family, and I have responsibilities. So whenever I make money, I don't just make it for myself. I make money thinking of my family too. So that's how, as you know, I live my life. So it got to a point where it dawned on me that I did not have a job. I have tried several applications. I have spoken to people; I have even had you reach out to people one-on-one, asking if there are opportunities in the organization so that I can work; was there nothing at all? It appeared that I was experiencing a setback and should not proceed, and I knew that at that time, people desperately needed my assistance and I was unable to provide it. That's how bad it felt; it brought me to a very deep period of depression. I was going in and out of depression because I couldn't stop thinking about how much more I wanted to help my family, and, you know, the one thing I've told myself in life, knowing where I'm coming from, is to never stay out of a job. So, no matter how little I get paid, I make sure that at the end of the month, I always get paid something. Because I know how much we suffered when we were quite young. I started working very early, even before I started university, because I didn't want to suffer all of that anymore. But at this particular point in time, the questions I've been asking myself were:..

Because I believe that if I am to celebrate the glory of manifesting the glory of God, I cannot manifest his glory without the story. So, the story must come from somewhere for it to show that this is actually the glory of God. So who knows? Maybe you are chosen to manifest the glory of God in the future.

So you must come with the story. If you don’t have stories like Joseph, Job, or Daniel, your products will not succeed. It would just be normal to everybody, but when you come from a place where your story is so touching that people begin to wonder, "How did you survive this?" And they begin to tell them about your faith in God. Sometimes most of these things that happens, God allows them for a reason, maybe you should think deep and see what reason that is Maybe God will also glorify his name in the near future. So I do hope this encourages somebody in 2023. I know 2023 is going to be a good year for people, but nonetheless, should you find yourself in that dark spot that did Valley Remember to keep your head above water and you find yourself surviving the storm.

Thank you very much.

Topic: MANAGING ANXIETY

Guest: YAKUBU SINI

Hello everyone. My name is Sini. Today I want to talk about what I call "managing anxiety." I know in the time pass we have passed through one level of anxious moments or two or many times in our different phases of life. I have also passed through so many anxious moments, but the most important thing is not passing through such memories but rather how we manage such moments. Of course, at every phase of life, we face different challenges, but challenges are not your problem, how we manage such challenges is actually much more important. So I want to share from my experience how I have managed some anxious moments in my life, especially in the past one year, and how such moments have helped me to shape my character and shape my skills. You know, to shape my life that actually propelled me to where I am right now. So, anxious moments are not necessarily bad. However, if we fail to manage them, it can resolve to something that we don't want or it can produce a negative outcomes in our life.

So, it is very-very important for us to know how to manage anxious moments in our lives. It is very important for us to device mechanisms of how to manage such moment and anxious moment usually come at a time of breakthroughs in our life. You know, at a point where we are switching from one phase to another, that's where such a social movement usually comes from, and if you fail to manage them as I said, it would definitely create a negative outcome. It is natural for every human being to like to be in his or her comfort zone. However, being in your comfort zone might not necessarily translate into growth. So, life is full of risk, and the greater the measurable risks you take, the higher your chances of becoming successful...

So what I did was to forget about those things, to forget about what is next in my career, and I was concentrating on achieving my immediate Milestone, and at that time, my immediate Milestone ensure that I wrote my dissertation very well, so I concentrated my energy on ensuring that, I actually write a fantastic dissertation. I wrote a fantastic, well-referenced dissertation that can be presented anywhere in the world. I did not worry about what is going to happen tomorrow, where I'm going to go next, I was concentrating on achieving my immediate Milestone and immediately I finish writing my dissertation. I now progress into doing some academic application and doing some job application, and at any time that I was doing that I made sure that I put my best in the process of doing those application, thinking not about what the outcomes of such application will be, you will discover that any time you find yourself in an anxious situation, if you don't manage it very well, it will deny you from putting a lot of effort in achieving Something that is great for you at that time. And when I did that, I concentrated on achieving my immediate milestone. I discovered that those anxieties were no more there, I redefined my success, and the way I defined it was that my ability to do what I am supposed to do right now in the very best way is success, rather than my long-term goals.

So every day I ensured that I was successful in what I was doing, and that strategy actually helped me achieve long-term success. So, what I learned from that scenario is that to achieve your biggest success or your long-term success, it is highly dependent on your ability to achieve your small, small, small successes or small small, small Milestone because those smaller milestones are what will lead to achieving your bigger milestone.

So, my challenge for you today is: how well are you managing your immediate milestone today?

How well are you managing that small job that you're doing while you are looking forward to that big a job?

Thank you for listening.

Topic: GUARD YOUR HEART

Guest: MERCY AJEH

In 2022, I finally got hold of 2 things I had been waiting for, for a long time but they didn't come with the happiness I envisaged.

I mean, I thought I'd have all the butterflies in my stomach, melody in my heart, and my season of unending laughter would start but instead, I felt overwhelmed and my heart ached in the midst of seeming answer to long-time prayers.

It painted me as ungrateful, filled me with dread for my person, made me question my understanding of happiness, and covered me with guilt and shame for myself.

What went wrong? You might ask

Aren't we supposed to be happy with answered prayers? I had those questions as well but I'll give you an answer shortly,

I learned a lot from this experience. I had been hoarding my happiness, trying it to an accomplishment I was looking forward to, so when the accomplishment came, it looked bleak because happiness is not something you put on the line as a reward to drive you to get another thing. You reward yourself with gifts for a job well done which is perfectly okay but you do not reward yourself with happiness because happiness is a state you're meant to constantly live in, it is meant to be a part of you and shouldn't be limited to just when things are rosy.

So, I lived in gloom waiting for something to happen before I pick up happiness again but because feelings aren't clothes we can put on and take off at will, (even though sometimes we can), I had to wait to unlearn gloom and appreciate the good that had come to me.

It was hard, it wasn't easy, the weight of gloom is weighty, scary, depressing, it leaves you teary and begging because you're scared of never being happy again. You are wondering if it'll ever be happy with you because if all you thought would make you happy, didn't, then what is your happiness fate in life?

If I have the chance to relive 2022, I would start from 1st January to be in charge of my mood, feelings and emotions regardless of the glaring truth of my situation. I'll choose to be positive, alive, and happy. I'll choose to live through it all so that I don't go back to zero point finding myself when I should be enjoying my breakthrough.

So, my advice to you is that tough times don't last, like they'll always say, seasons would pass but as much as possible, guard yourself, guard your heart. You do not want to lose yourself before your breakthrough, else of what use is the breakthrough?

Live through each season so that you can enjoy the proceeds when the season ends. Do not wait, do not wait, because, at the end of waiting, you would struggle to find you, you would struggle to exude happiness, and you would struggle to be joyful. If you cannot be joyful now, you won't be joyful when the breakthrough comes but if you can take it one day at a time encouraging yourself to be happy when the breakthrough comes, you would not be learning to be happy afresh, you would just be happy

Topic: Positive Impact of Mentorship

Guest: Simeon olabode

My most memorable experience in the year 2022 was when I almost lost an opportunity that changed the course of my life. The year 2021 ended with me learning different skills that will enable me to transition to a career in tech. Prior to that time, I was a college lecturer of Religious studies, and I didn’t resign from my previous job until May 2022. After I resigned, I find it difficult to cope because I couldn’t get another job immediately. So, I was working a part-time job until I got the opening at my current workplace. The application and interview processes started in July 2022, and it was a five stages interview process. By the end of July, I had passed the third stage and was proceeding to the fourth stage. So, I got a mail on the evening of Friday, 22nd July 2022 asking me to come for the fourth stage of the interview on Monday, 25th July 2022.

The first three stages had all been virtual interviews, and I didn’t have any issues with that. However, I was perplexed when I got the mail on that Friday evening because I didn’t have enough money to travel from Yola to Lagos the next morning. Apart from the transport fare, I had other concerns like; where I was going to stay during the interview period and also if the whole journey is worth it at all since it was still the fourth stage and not passing that stage means that I will have to return to Yola spending another two whole days on the road, this time with disappointment. I got wearied by my thoughts and fell asleep. So, the next day on Saturday morning, I forgot about traveling for the interview and decided to visit my mentor instead. When I got to his house, we talked about other issues apart from the interview, and most of the time he was talking while I was listening.

So at about 11:30 am, he received a package from another state and while we were talking about the package, I mentioned that I was also supposed to travel for an interview at Lagos, but I am giving it up since I didn’t have money for transport fare. However, upon hearing that, he gave me some money and asked me to leave immediately so that I won’t miss the opportunity. He didn’t even allow me to express my other concerns. So I left rushing off to the park to see if I could get a direct bus but at that time, it was already late. I had to travel to another state to get a bus going to Lagos. I arrived in Lagos on Monday and headed straight for the interview. Long story short, I got the job...

What I will do better if I am given another chance is to never give up easily and to be more proactive in taking decisions. We are usually prone to choose comfort over hard work or risk. I mean, a lot of people will rather choose to stay in their comfort zone than involve themselves in work that is hard or risky. However, the hard and risky things that we do are the things that bring significant changes to our lives. Many “what ifs” will want to stop us from doing what is needed to bring about the considerable turnaround that we desire in life. We must, therefore, learn to see beyond the “what ifs” and jolt ourselves into the necessary action that is required to transform our lives.

One piece of advice that I will love to give to our listeners for the year 2023 is to go do the hard things. Let’s leave our comfort zones (whatever they may be) and pursue those hard things that we naturally don’t like to do because those hard things (be it skill, decision, lifestyle, or mindset)  are the things that will bring about transformation in our lives.